When I saw this video for the first time, I was amazed and admired. It was a long time since I met you.
A lot of confusion was hit home by him.
How did this man live so clearly?
The keynote speaker of the video @ Lao, is a professor at the Central University of Finance and Economics.
Known by netizens as "the best person in China".
When everyone is busy making money, being successful and being great,
This mr. six just teaches you "how not to do anything, but also to feel at ease, or how to look at what you have done after doing something, treat it as a special thing, or not to do it."
He told you that "it's getting late, take your wife to bed, the world is in chaos, fuck it" is the attitude you should have towards life.
He defined himself as a "common man with a flat head" and even said, "We ordinary people have paid this responsibility. Why did those officials go? They are full-time corrupt. " 」
If you feel lost, anxious and lost yourself,
Then I strongly recommend you to watch this video. Maybe you can find a way to arrange yourself.
After all, in today's society, there are too many people who teach us success and too few who guide us to be loyal to our hearts.
As the old tree said: "We can't lure our hearts out for everything outside, that kind of open words, and then wander on the road." ...
Let me warn you first, this is really a very negative energy video.
If you don't believe me, you can first look at what the old tree said in his speech:
I seriously doubt the word success,
What is success?
Somehow, I think this word is too ugly.
How many people (only those who are successful, of course)
He died on the road to success.
Can I lie at home? It's easy for my parents to have me.
Shu: You are alive, you are an independent life. This is unique. Why do you have to get approval from others to prove that you are really alive?
Slowly, slowly, I began to understand a truth: all NB people and all NB behaviors prove that you are an SB. Overconfidence shows that you are too inferior, so we have to prove it.
So make money hard and take it back to your wife. Listen, your people are fine. What I did was recognized by others. Oh, I'm fine. Then you are dependent, and your sense of existence comes from the recognition of others. Make money, be famous, and do things. You don't know you are alive until you are recognized by others.
Where do we come from? This question? I hardly need to think about it. It's simple. I have you when my parents are happy.
But where to go?
How can I survive in this society?
You have to see yourself clearly. This is very difficult!
Otherwise, we can't be in the environment, in society,
Settle down in the rivers and lakes. This is the Jianghu!
The following is the video, please order it (the video is 34 minutes long and divided into 3 parts):
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Full video link: Old Tree Painting "A Dream" _ Tencent Video
(Note: Laoshu, formerly known as Liu Shuyong, a native of Shandong Province, is well known for his paintings in "Old Tree in the Picture Book of Gone with the Times" by Sina Weibo. )
It is estimated that many people will vomit. The subject is obviously looking for an inspirational article that can sober you up. How can you share such a video and talk to everyone about "returning to yourself, talking about nothingness and doing nothing"? Is there a problem?
I guess I still have to add my personal experience:
I don't know if you have had such an experience. When you see an inspirational celebrity speech or article, you will be full of fighting spirit in an instant. But in less than three days, everything returned to normal.
Why is this happening?
My idea has two main answers:
What you are doing now is not what you love, but just to do it.
You didn't find the right way to achieve your goal, and as a result, you gradually lost confidence.
Let's start with the first point: you are not doing what you love.
Just like when you see someone else drawing, you learn to draw, and when you see someone else writing a big V, you learn to write.
Many times, what you do is not what you like in your heart, but what you think I can profit from it. But unless you have more self-discipline than ordinary people, the result can only be three days of fishing and two days of drying the net.
So how do you find what you love?
Liang Ning of Lakeside University once said:
"If you want to find something that will keep you going, the place where you take great pains is your talent.
Beauty, physical coordination, high IQ, and so on, these are your advantages and talents. More important is your hidden talent: what will make you happy. You will be happy because of some things, which will continue to give you satisfaction, and you can spend it here all the time.
Everyone can't deny their true happiness. You can't help but spend your time on what you like, and unconsciously put it there for 10 thousand hours. After a long time, you are different. 」
Liang Ning explained a truth very thoroughly: Follow your heart and do what you like. After a long time, you will succeed.
Let's talk about the second point first: how to find the right way to achieve what you want?
Successful people will tell you: change your mind to succeed. But in fact, for most people, it has no practical effect.
Just like many friends used to ask through official WeChat accounts or private messages from Zhihu: How can I find a job that suits me?
I often advise them to choose a job that excites them, instead of blindly pursuing a stable and boring job.
But the actual effect is very small. Although they think it makes sense, they will still choose the original road.
What is the reason? Many people are afraid of change mostly because they are afraid of making mistakes and just want stability. My feeling is that to motivate people to follow their hearts, it is the key to change "fear of making mistakes".
A more effective way should be to help yourself gradually build self-confidence through continuous successful cases, and then you can dare to follow your heart. Just like in the NBA, after losing several games in a row, the first thing a coach should do is to win a game first to reassure people.
Therefore, when I encounter similar consultations in the future, I will tell them to break down the big goal I want to achieve into several small stage goals first. After you achieve a small goal, your self-confidence will gradually accumulate, and slowly you will have the capital to pursue your heart.
Therefore, start with small things first, and then seek greater breakthroughs.
Off-topic:
Recently, an "advertisement of the year" exploded the circle of friends. It warns people with real life scenes that "the world is cruelly punishing those who don't care about their health", and calls on everyone to shut up, open their legs, quit cell phones and stay up late. Many friends forwarded it and said, "It's really worrying".
The so-called plunge into the heart is mostly forced by life.
We have to admit that our times are also morbid.
Turn on the mobile phone, and it's all fake dry goods, such as "The founder of mobike cashed in 65.438+0.5 billion yuan: your peers are abandoning you", "Shanghai Blind Date Corner: a beggar with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan, who just got rid of poverty with an annual salary of one million yuan" and "No vest line is worth a better life".
Being wrapped in this information every day makes people feel that they will be surpassed by others if they don't work hard for a moment, and it's never too late. Everyone is chasing each other, but you can't see the momentum. What you see is the anxiety of catching up slowly. You don't even know why you are running or where you are going, but everyone is running, so you can only try your best to speed up your pace.
Never, before, seriously thought about: who am I? What do I really want?
Finally, share some small ink paintings of old trees. Many people said that they saw "the heart of a city tramp" in the painting:
0 1. Be honest, eat carefully, compete in business, and talk nonsense if nothing happens.
02. No distractions, the world of mortals sneaked in. Life is safe, so don't be sentimental.
03. Look at the moon in the dream and pick tea flowers in the rain. Earn money for pleasure, not for this life.
04. After the New Year, I am tired and busy, and my body has obviously lost weight. Don't tell me to lose weight, I want to eat meat at the weekend! Eat meat! Eat meat!
05. You don't have to live loudly when you walk in life. You can be unknown and passionate occasionally. My career is limited. What can you say? Let's change those floating names to shallow singing.
Life is only a few years, follow your heart and spend your life in your own way without regret.
If it helps you, please praise it. Thank you.
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2065438+ updated on June 8th, 2008.
First, thank you for your support.
I'm free today, so I read your comments carefully.
To add a paragraph, my personal experience the other day inspired me to share this video.
After many years, I fell into a very busy life and work state.
Besides my daily work, I use all available time to study, study and take care of my children.
During that time, I often went to bed at one or two in the middle of the night and got up at six in the morning to fight.
At first, I felt full of energy and high morale.
However, if a string is stretched too tightly, it will always break.
After a while, I feel strange, the most obvious is irregular menstruation and loss of appetite. ...
I quickly checked the symptoms online, and the more I checked, the more scared I became. Most of them are serious, such as pituitary adenoma and prolactinoma.
At that time, when I thought of my daughter who was less than three years old, I was not calm.
I told my family that I went to the hospital for a routine physical examination.
When I was sitting in the waiting room, I was extremely nervous.
Ask yourself, if an accident comes, will I have no regrets in my life? Do I still live like this?
I not only denied what I had done before, but also didn't slap myself.
I blindly pursued career breakthroughs, neglected my family and body, and turned my life into a prison. Although I got a lot, it was far less than what I lost.
It's ironic to reflect on yourself, but I feel very sorry.
I know that at that moment, all my questions about myself came from my deep thoughts.
When you don't do well enough, you are anxious and afraid of falling behind;
When you do well, you are also anxious, fearing that you will be defeated.
I'm not motivated, I'm anxious, but I'm just eager for quick success.
Why is there so much impatience in life?
Although it was a false alarm in the end, the doctor also warned me that the combination of work and rest is the foundation of the body.
Since then, I have been fortunate enough to gain a peaceful heart.
No longer blindly pursue living in the future, live yourself as a slave to the future view of time, and ignore the beauty of the present.
In my daily life, I added running and fitness, and went fishing and hiking in my spare time.
Many friends around me are desperate for their careers. Although they have made some achievements, they are deeply worried.
So, I share this video and this experience with you.
I hope everyone can get a peaceful heart in today's fast-paced society.
We should have confidence:
Every step is hard and hard, and it is impossible to have a good result.
Try to wait for your fruit with a peaceful mind.
As Ji Bolun said, if one day, you stop looking for love, but just love; You are no longer eager to succeed, just do it; You no longer pursue growth, but practice; Everything really begins!
Thank you for reading and your support.
Edited on 20 18-06-08? The copyright belongs to the author.
Exposure to the sun
What do I want? I seem to be lost here. Now I seem to earn money, earn money, earn money ... Why modern people are so anxious is mostly a comparison. Many cases are packaged into classics, and the charm is infinitely magnified or even magnified in disguise. And many of us only see the glamorous results, but we can't see the efforts behind them. Life is cooked, and it is never done overnight. Thanks for sharing.
9ssun
After reading this article and video, it really suits me now. Recently, I have been particularly confused about life, very confused and anxious, and even suffered from anxiety. My mood fluctuates greatly. Often think of work, life, the future, infinite anxiety and fear. I want to watch it a few times, get to know it better, understand it and live for myself.