Feelings, men are hot and cold for you, which are basically these reasons:
1, establish an indescribable relationship.
What is an indescribable relationship? Basically, it is the kind of relationship that you can't hold hands and hug in the sun, such as extramarital affairs.
If two people have such feelings, the man is not serious from beginning to end. He will never divorce for a woman, and he will never abandon his family for a woman, so he will be at arm's length, cold and hot. After a long time, women can't stand it, and men don't care whether they want to separate. So, women don't be silly.
He has only a good impression on you.
Men and women are naturally attractive, just like confidantes, and want to develop further relationships. In love, if a man happens to be empty, a little lonely and a little emotional, he will be good to women.
But I don't particularly like that feeling. If a man has only a little affection for you, he can only temporarily solve loneliness and loneliness, so he won't be serious about you, so he doesn't love you. Don't be silly.
He doesn't love you enough.
All the feelings that make women feel uncomfortable and uneasy are basically that men don't love women enough. Because you don't love enough, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and you will be hot and cold.
Men may just treat you as temporary emotional comfort. He doesn't want to marry you. You are not his boss or his work partner, so you won't be particularly concerned. So he will only be so cold to you, be nice to you when he is in a good mood, and ignore you when he is in a bad mood. Don't be silly, woman.
He regards you as a spare tire.
What is a spare tire? It means that men think they like women, but they don't particularly like them. They feel that they don't want it, and they don't want to throw it away. They can only keep it.
In love, men treat you as a spare tire. Being in a good mood will naturally tease you and be better for you. When he is in a bad mood, he will hide far away. Anyway, there is no sincerity at all.