1. About PEA (phenylethylamine)

The feeling of falling in love with someone is that phenylethylamine is at work. Generally, within one to three years after you fall in love with someone, the phenylethylamine secreted in your body will be exhausted.

2. Early impression prints

The reason why we are heartbroken for a person: early sexual subconscious imprint (what happened in childhood when we were 5-8 years old)

Second, the six key elements that make people fall in love with you (practical skills)

1. Overview

Six key reasons for falling in love

First impression, similar personality, self-esteem, principle of reciprocity, offensive strategy in puppy love, secret recipe of desire.

2. First impressions

(1) Two Preparations for First Meeting

Appearance preparation and psychological preparation

Women will automatically choose reliable objects with certain strength to support themselves and their children out of primitive instinct, and it is more important for men to wear quality clothes. For women, men mainly pay attention to appearance and figure, and are not too harsh on the quality of clothes, just look good.

(2) Four kinds of eyes that arouse love

(1) Long gaze.

2 stare at the most perfect and favorite part of ta's face with electric eyes.

3 Nostalgic Eyes When you have to look away because of external interference or the time is up, please don't show your nostalgic eyes like slow motion.

④ Visual journey

(3) The art of chatting up people

Hunter: Look at her first. If she pretends to avoid your eyes, but looks up at you within 45 seconds, she welcomes your attention. Try to use simple sentences when chatting up people, such as asking the time, asking the way, praising clothes, etc. The simpler the better.

Huntress: Don't take the initiative. Use "nonverbal seduction signals", such as smiling at him, taking a quick look at him and staring at him for a long time.

Intimate dance

The first step is nonverbal signals, such as smiling and nodding.

talk with each other

The third step is to turn around

The fourth part is slight physical contact.

The fifth step is synchronization, such as picking up the cup at the same time, turning around when you hear the noise, and looking back at each other immediately.

(5) Tips for the first conversation

Expressing you impressed me deeply.

You can use some words, great, perfect, great, instead of abrupt I love you, I like you.

② Observe at any time.

③ Looking for topics of interest to ta.

If a word is mentioned repeatedly in the conversation, this is the key point you should grasp next.

④ Expression of "we"

If this fine weather continues, we should go out for a trip.

⑤ Share private secrets

Please remember, this is a slight and harmless secret.

6. The best first date confirmed by science.

Scientific experiments have proved that two people experiencing a dangerous thing at the same time will deepen their feelings. For example: horseback riding, surfing, watching horror movies, adventures in the secret room, etc.

Women pay more attention to oral conversation, while men prefer to do things together.

For the first time, male hunters should choose gorgeous and high-end restaurants, while Huntress should choose small restaurants with emotional appeal but not so expensive.

3. Similar personalities and complementary needs

(1) echo method

Try to use the words in the ta language system.

(2) Similarity of body language

(3) establish similarity in each other's consciousness

The first kind, the same hobby?

Second, the basic values, life beliefs and behavior patterns are similar to the world outlook.

Third, the concept of marriage and love. Maintain similar inner expectations for what love and marriage should be like and what they should not be like.

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Through words and deeds, I found out what ta cares about most and what it wants to make up for most.

Through ta's praise and admiring eyes, you can find out the most complementary places of ta, and then what you have to do is to make up for the shortcomings of ta as much as possible.

4. Self-esteem massage

(1) silent praise

Tell ta in body language that you are attracted to ta.

(2)*** love, in conversation, showing understanding and recognition.

"I totally understand how you feel", "I totally agree" and "I can imagine"

(3) constantly embellishing identity into daily life.

A clever hunter will give the spotlight to your lover, pay close attention to the smallest details in his life, and discuss these details in conversation.

Remember to choose only those things that the right people are proud of.

In daily life, you should add footnotes to your love words, interspersed with "well done", "not bad", "you are too smart" and "you are really great"

(4) Throwing fatal praise

Implicit praise: "A really smart person like you ..."

Praise that hits the bull's-eye: This kind of praise mainly conveys the feeling that "you are most proud of and I like it best". Think about the self-image of the right person. What is the most proud part of ta?

Heizaizan: What do you like most about ta? What are the things that are not obvious but strongly attract you? Don't throw them away too early or frequently. Once a month is enough. For example, "You are the most beautiful person I have ever met"

Jump on your knees and praise quickly: When TA completes a task, please give a praise immediately, immediately and seamlessly.

When you receive a compliment from ta: Please give a positive response and encourage ta to make such a compliment again. At the same time, I also want to give ta a compliment in return. For example, "I'm glad you noticed this", "That's very kind of you" and so on.

5. Equivalence principle

Six elements: appearance, material or property, status or fame, knowledge or learning, social etiquette or character, personality.

In the happiest intimate relationship, the above elements of two people are more or less equal. Even if they are not equal, their qualities can make up for each other and reach a balance as a whole.

(1) appearance

If the score is less than 2 points, you can keep a good figure and shape through exercise, fitness and diet, which makes people feel that you are a beautiful woman in behavior. Confident people are the most beautiful.

(2) Materials or property

Let clothes show wealth.

(3) Status or reputation

Use words with rich and unique meanings, choose words that you like personally and conform to your temperament, practice using them and internalize them into your own idioms.

(4) Knowledge or learning

Improve your market value and never stop learning.

(5) Social etiquette and personality

You can raise the price quickly in the free market.

(6) Personality

Every kind of food you know and experience, and every excellent quality you develop are intangible benefits that can make others fall in love with you.

6. Tips to avoid capsizing in the early stage of love

(1) Silence is not equal to not loving, and noise is not equal to disturbing.

Girls are naturally fond of chatting, while men are more accustomed to silence.

(2) Male topic and female topic

Huntress: Familiar with various political views, objects, sports and other male topics. Show him your cleverness. Don't be too clever.

Huntsman: Make your language more psychological. Talk more about people, feelings, philosophy and basic principles, and remember that when expressing opinions, you should agree more and refute less.

(3) Ask women how they feel, but leave men alone.

Women like to talk about feelings, but men are the opposite.

(4) When you get lost, ask for directions or not.

Women are used to asking for directions, while men are always obsessed with themselves.

(5) When ta is in a bad mood, do you want to ask what happened to TA?

A woman needs a partner to listen and accompany. To let the right person know that you are by her side, all you have to do is listen.

The man wants to keep silent and solve it himself. Huntress should not force him out of the cave, let him know that you are willing to listen, if he is willing to talk, but give him the freedom to hide in the cave until he climbs out willingly.

(6) Direct speaking and suggestion

Huntress: Don't hint, just say it. "I want to .." "I like it .."

Male hunter: Ask her for more advice and understand the meaning between the lines.

(7) Tips for common words

Huntress: When you need help, "Will you do me a favor ..."

Huntsman: If there is something wrong with your relationship, or you don't know why you screwed up, please just say, "Right?"