1. The following is an article from Xinhuanet.

Title:

How to make men love you?

In the world of love, pay and return are always unequal. However, the one who always gives in love will also give the other a strong sense of superiority. If your boyfriend always tells you what to do when he is in love and puts on an arrogant posture. Then you should reflect, not him.

Improve self-psychological quality, encourage and praise his Excellence.

Everyone has a good side. And these extraordinary things should always be encouraged and praised by close people to stimulate men's desire to conquer. And women need to constantly improve their psychological quality. Let men feel their good upbringing and quality when facing the superiority of men.

Implement an uncompromising and unyielding policy towards men.

This is an era when everyone is equal. Especially in front of boyfriends, it is very necessary to show confidence from time to time. What's more, there are more and more arrogant men now, and most of them will tease their girlfriends to support themselves. And women should implement a policy of uncompromising and unyielding to such men.

Men say sarcastic words, usually just to hit their girlfriends and satisfy their sense of superiority. So as to hypnotize you psychologically and make you feel that it is your own problem. What women must know at this time is that this has nothing to do with your own ability. As long as you have confidence, smile at him. Compromise and failure are not the best way to defeat people.

Master some talents that the other person can't, but he is good at.

Such a killer weapon can make women feel superior in love. It is not only men who can have the superiority of love. So can women. Just learn some talents that the other person is wrong and you are good at. And you can't let the other party know.

Then when you go to the party together, your boyfriend has been chatting and bragging with others, and then you can suddenly play the cello and play a favorite tune. Let everyone present cheer for you, and your boyfriend will be shocked by your actions and then slowly defeated by you. As long as you work hard, you can learn all kinds of talents well.

Always stay awake and occasionally play hard to get.

No matter how much you love someone, you must be sober and keep yourself. Don't be too persistent. Especially when you are not ready to talk about marriage, you should leave some private space for each other. After all, you have your own family, career and friends.

And this is to let him know that your world is not just him. You don't have to revolve around him. Even if you do this, you may pay a great price, and even suffer from lovesickness, but the truth that "it is better to get married than to leave" is well-founded. When you love him and believe that you will accompany him, say: I still have something to do, which is very cool. I can't be with you. At this time, it will be a great blow to him. Of course, this tactic cannot be used often. Because using it for a long time will make the other person feel unimportant. Then your playing hard to get is invalid.

Second, the following is an article from the People's Daily Window in Tianjin:

Topic: How to make men fall madly in love with you?

Benefit from strangeness

Leave the circle of daily life and go to a strange place together-for example, a distant country without language. In such a strange environment, mutual trust will greatly increase the intimacy between you.

"Although it can't be said that it is dependent, it was really dependent at that time. We have never forgotten this feeling of cooperation and sharing until now. " Miss Xia, who just returned from a trip to Greece with her boyfriend, said.

No words are needed now.

Women are more talkative than men. No matter what kind of topic, women are often the talkative party in the conversation. Unfortunately, perhaps when they are chatting cheerfully, they are thinking about how to stay away and how to be quiet.

Miss Mo, 25, said, "I had breakfast with my boyfriend one day. We didn't talk at that time, probably because we were still sleepy.

When my orange juice was almost finished, he got up and filled it for me. We smiled at each other. That smile is full of love, we don't need to say anything. Language was superfluous at that time. "

Express lovingly

Not all intimate behaviors should be carried out in the bedroom, and not all caresses are related to sexual behavior. When our new good man washes vegetables, you can hug him gently from behind like an innocent girl and lean your cheek on his broad back to feel his breath.

You can also massage him while watching TV, rub his back and shoulders to get rid of the fatigue of the day. Don't be stingy with your caresses, he will fall in love with the warm feeling between your caresses.

Please say his name.

Many lovers in love are used to calling each other "baby" and "dear", which is in line with the public, but not very targeted.

Think about it, how long has it been since you called his name? Of course, I'm not talking about calling people by their first names and surnames, but calling them by their first names in a friendly way. If you find it difficult to say it suddenly, you can take the lead in writing emails. Because it means that this title belongs only to him, not to anyone who can be a "baby".

Dance and have fun.

Whether it's tango or veneer, dancing always makes people feel comfortable to swing and touch: two people seem to be integrated, your movements are closely related to your other half, and physical contact when dancing always looks romantic. If you are not skilled enough, it doesn't matter that you can't perform in front of everyone-the living room, red wine, candles and music are enough.

Feel his needs

Do you understand his needs? Can you do it for him before he asks you? This is a big weight for him to rely on you. He likes watching me wake him up with coffee. He said that this kind of coffee smells like home. Satisfying his needs with your heart can show your concern and consideration for him, and he will thank you for it, so that your relationship is more like a family.

Hug each other naked

As a healthy fashion, naked sleep has gradually become popular among young people, not only because throwing away the shackles of pajamas will give the body a fuller rest, but also directly feel the tenderness of skin dating.

Share your secrets.

Show him your little-known side-even if it is not perfect-and let him see what few people can see, and you will give him the feeling of being trusted.

You can let him start by sharing your little secret, such as quietly telling him that you like pink underwear, and at the same time, let him keep this secret. Doing so shows that you value and trust him. Men like this feeling of being trusted, especially from couples.

Love what he loves.

Another skill to increase intimacy is to care for and support his hobbies. Ashan's boyfriend likes classical novels. He has some classical novels collected from all over the world, some of which are very shabby, and some of which are collected without covers. I browsed for him online and finally found a website with many such posters and novel covers.

I printed it out with a color printer and cut it out as a birthday present for him. He said it was the most thoughtful gift he had ever received.

Synchronize with him

Whether it is sight, hearing or touch, everyone will have a sense of dominance. Mastering your partner's sense of dominance and bringing it into the conversation will get twice the result with half the effort, and you don't have to repeat it many times to get his attention.

Find out which sentence he often says-"I think we should still ..." "Are you listening to me?" "I think ..."-Well, I think you already know whether he belongs to the visual category, the auditory category or the tactile category. The next step is to bring his category into his own language as much as possible. A tone similar to his will make him feel kind and treat you as one of his own!

Let us together

Many couples get along with each other day and night, but how many things have you done together besides eating and sleeping? Two people running things together, whether it's a one-month plan to save money or going to the gym together, will make you feel more like a "partner".

Listen, I'm working.

People at work are always full of charm, and the self shown at work is brand-new to your other half. Most of us don't know what our other half looks like at work. When a man sees his girlfriend at work, he is often surprised by her ability and tough style, and he has some impression of this woman.

(of married couples) respect each other as if they were guests.

We are often humble in society, but at home? There is a TV series that deeply exposes our duplicity.

Mr. Wang has a successful career and is respected in his work, but when he returns home, he becomes an out-and-out villain, and he doesn't forgive his wife for a little mistake, even her mistake!

Of course, this is just a TV drama with exaggerated art, but we should also reflect on whether we are very tolerant of our friends and colleagues, but extremely harsh on our partners. If you find that you are really not good enough for him, you must seriously review and correct your mistakes.

Keep happy moments.

In this "electronic" society, too many things are electronic, even love letters are no exception. Love is over. When all the emails are deleted, it seems that this person never existed, and it is difficult for us to accidentally dig out the yellowed memories from the stationery after many years. But at least one invention is highly respected, and that is the digital camera! When he is on a business trip, he'd better take a selfie, stick out his tongue or send it to his mobile phone to remind him of you wherever he is!

Make him a VIP again. Let's do it together.

Many couples get along with each other day and night, but how many things have you done together besides eating and sleeping? Two people running things together, whether it's a one-month plan to save money or going to the gym together, will make you feel more like a "partner".