I don't know why men in this society are becoming less and less confident now. Technicians in foot bath shops, even flight attendants, waiters and nurses in KTV can't marry. What I want to say is that people with dirty thoughts wear colored glasses. As a profession, is there no bottom line for people who do the above occupations? Should they all sleep with someone? Get rid of it. You have never been in this business. You just face the assembly line every day, or you just listen to others and look at them with your vulgar eyes. You can only judge others by their height, but you can't eat grapes and say they are sour.
Are all the people in the gym dirty and philandering? There are many rich people in the gym. They have both money and time, so they can exercise in their spare time. But we diaosi, who rush about for rent and mortgage every day, don't have much time to go to fitness, because fitness also costs a lot of money. Doesn't mean that a man becomes bad when he is rich. If you really get in touch with those successful people, you will find that not every rich man will think about some messy things all day, but they are more energetic.
Although the society is open now, it is our thoughts that are open. It doesn't mean that women have no bottom line and can sleep with any rich person. If there are sisters in your family who love fitness and are also engaged in sales, you will understand that they are not as miserable as you think.
Men should be confident. Since a woman is willing to follow you, marry you, and have children, don't underestimate her determination. You should have enough trust in her. The less confident you are, the more prejudiced you will be against many women, and you will question her work and environment.