1, no cowardice

Girls who are afraid to socialize will miss it. Afraid of the interview, the high-paying offer went to find someone else. Life is an arena, and luck is a cover for success. If you want it, you must boldly fight for it.

2. Be less "good-hearted"

Don't help others when they don't ask you for help. Sometimes your kindness is just to show off to others. Because "I help you" is equivalent to "you can't, you need my help". From the receiver's point of view, sometimes you just feel like you are showing off.

3. Not afraid of losing face

No one will miss your social death forever, but what you really remember is yourself. So don't worry too much about whether others will gossip, relax and be bold. Real boys are the most masculine.

4. You have the final say.

Spending money on new shoes is not about listening to others say it's cool, but about satisfying your own taste and making your feet comfortable. Similarly, when others judge you, don't be unsure that others are qualified to say you.

5. Stop loss in time

Don't cling to the so-called sunk cost. If you hang on a tree, you will lose the whole forest. If you don't do well in your work, cheat your family and friends and people with different views, give up decisively and let go boldly, and don't get deeper and deeper.

Step 6 practice repeatedly

When you make up your mind to do something well, just practice hard, as boys who often play basketball know. The shooting percentage of three-point shooters is practiced repeatedly.

7. Accept the confusion period

No one knows what to do when he is born, and everyone finds himself in constant exploration. When you are confused, don't sell yourself short, give up your efforts, read more good books and communicate with excellent people.

8. Be kind without losing your edge

Boys who don't make trouble and are not afraid of things are the most tolerant. Being gentle and kind is your precious accomplishment. But when others find fault with you for no reason, you should also have the courage to stand up and be fearless.

9. Protect your family

Family is the only person in the world who loves you unconditionally, so boys must strive to make themselves strong. How tall you are, how happy your family will be. If you don't make progress, your family is bearing the burden. ..

10, speak with actions and results

Don't unfurl your flag until it's done, and don't always talk about it. After all, six-pack ABS and vest line are more handsome and charming than taking selfies in the gym every day.

1 1, keep a sense of shock.

Most people who have a bad life have serious internal friction. It is because I think that their mood is always so bad, but many things have nothing to do with you. If you keep a little feeling when you are in trouble, you will be much more relaxed.

12, find your own track.

Like a satellite, you should live in your own orbit, don't care too much about the sounds of other orbits, and there is no need to spend time correcting their thoughts. Your time is precious, so spend more time on learning and improving yourself.