Being proactive will also bring you new challenges. If you stay in your comfort zone for a long time, try to take the initiative and bring you some different feelings.
I felt it on the stage of Qingyi lecture last night. Before, I was good at hosting and evaluating community meetings, and I always felt that these two roles were confident, could do well and would produce results. In fact, the subconscious thinks that this is safe and will not be found wrong by others. This time, I want to try again, actively face the opportunity to go on stage, seize the opportunity to go on stage and challenge myself. In fact, I thought of a A Lang member at the summit. I remember that in a workshop at the summit, she raised her hand to answer questions and share her feelings. What she said moved me very much. Actually, I don't know what to answer. I just want to try it before the opportunity comes. As long as I ask questions, I will raise my hand, and I will do it anywhere.
At the moment I raised my hand, I felt the inner self who didn't want to go on stage, but I also felt the little excitement brought by breaking through my own limitations. Finally came to the stage.
What I want to say here is that when you try, you will find that opportunities will give you the feeling and growth you want. I won the opportunity to give my first speech, and felt the feeling of speaking extemporaneously for a long time: being in the loop, focusing on myself, giving a speech and expressing my feelings. "Each of us has many wonderful childhood memories, but there are also some memories that make us sad. Please look back on your childhood. What do you think of the sad memories of childhood? "
In the process of my own speech, at my own thinking level, I opened the door of memory and started my own speech. When I said it, I felt a little bit of self-opening: my world seemed to have opened a gap. I don't pursue perfect presentation, I don't worry about the audience, and I don't worry about the logical structure anymore. I just think I want to share a true story with you, because I am already standing on this stage. This is how the chatterbox started to walk under the drive of his own heart. Do you think the initiative brought me these feelings at that time? No, there is,,,
From the moment I stepped off the stage, my brain was racing and thinking. I am striving for self-improvement. How to make an impromptu speech: What does the audience like to listen to?
1, tell a true or interesting story, full of fun and emotion, which will arouse their interest even more!
2. Tell me about the great changes in personal growth, what stimulation and impact can it bring to the audience?
Finally, I have summed it up a little seriously recently: I want a kind of sublimation, which should be life-oriented, not irrelevant, and make people feel real, powerful, valuable and meaningful.
At that time, I recorded my own experience while listening at the venue, and my mind was constantly clicked by the speaker on the stage. Inspiration is constantly emerging. Especially Alex's CC7 "Why Are We Always Out of Control" AntijaCC 10 "Curiosity and Teenagers".
I took the initiative to click a lot of small buttons in my mind. The brain also began to think that it was no longer a quiet and safe audience. Because we have to act in society after all. Why not start now? Writing here reminds me of an interesting story of Vanke Wang Shi:
Wang Shi insists on five habits every day: quit procrastination; Fitness habits; The habit of reading; Get into the habit of getting up early; The habit of writing. Speaking of habits, he said his career was long. For an enterprise, it needs you to be a specialist, but from the perspective of career development, you need to be a generalist to adapt to social changes. An initiative from beginning to end! Try to find an uncomfortable environment and challenge yourself! This is actually a way to actively mobilize all kinds of small buttons on your body!
There may be some adverse reactions after taking the initiative, but you never know what pleasure he will bring you unless you try!