I can see that you are really not a smart person. You said that your education and looks are not very good, but your monthly salary is tens of thousands. In fact, as long as you are not ugly, there is no problem. Girls care more about the man's inner self, and money is only one aspect. Most girls are still more concerned about whether they can get care and warmth. They like romantic feelings, which can only be reflected through internal changes. You should show your love to girls, and you can't be appropriate to one person because of your desire, but not to others.