Someone always said to me, "I envy those people who are glamorous in the circle of friends, as if their lives are so glamorous, as if they don't need to worry about their lives, as if they are living a life envied by everyone." And my circle of friends, without any modification, is the kind of circle of friends that others don't want to look down after reading it. My life is as monotonous as my circle of friends. I really envy those people who live in glamour. "

Today's circle of friends has developed into a way to know someone. Some people may misunderstand the circle of friends, and always feel that people under the glamorous circle of friends also live a glamorous life.

Some people decorate themselves through their circle of friends, showing only the good side, but the bad side is borne by themselves alone. Sometimes it's just a very ordinary picture, but it's much taller after processing, which makes the circle of friends beautiful.

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Have you ever seen glamorous people in your circle of friends in private?

A friend of mine, Linlin, always takes pictures when we get together. We are eating, she is taking pictures carefully, we are playing with nature, and she is also dealing cards tirelessly. She is often the last to send photos of our parties. Usually it's a party today, and photos will be sent tomorrow.

For more than ten hours after the party, she was just picking photos and then began to retouch them. We can usually make friends just by retouching, but like a professional retoucher, she has to ask us again after each photo is repaired. Is this ok? Isn't that weird? Is this good? Does it look very advanced? ...

In a word, she cares about what others think of her. She always wants to be the most perfect in her circle of friends, not the most real. She is trying to cover up her true self, which is getting fat because of work pressure, and also trying to cover up her wrinkled self because of age.

The glamorous circle of friends is actually the result of highly processed photos. It is better to hide your real life than to expose yourself.

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"The charm in the circle of friends may not belong to you."

I went shopping with a friend. I visited a luxury store, and a bag cost tens of thousands of dollars. After her back, let me take a picture of her with my mobile phone. I haven't forgotten the way the shopping guide looked at me at that time.

After taking the photo, she looked at the bag from left to right, took a few more detailed photos, and then the shopping guide "grabbed" the bag back. At that time, she gave the shopping guide a dirty look and stamped her feet with anger. After we walked out of the store, we found a place to sit down, and she began to process the photos she had just taken.

Soon after, there was such a circle of friends: "In order to treat myself for such a long time, I bought myself a bag. Women just want to be refined and work harder in the future! " The picture was naturally just taken for her.

Many of her previous circle of friends were also about her fitness, but in fact she went to the gym and took some photos. The real purpose is not fitness, but to create a feeling that she loves fitness.

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Some people's circle of friends is really glamorous, and we may be deceived by it. What you need to know is that not all exquisite friends are exquisite people. Some people's glamorous friends may sacrifice reality, and some people's glamorous friends may really not belong to her.

Even some people insist on creating a glamorous circle of friends for themselves under great pressure. Is there anyone in your circle of friends who looks glamorous, but in fact this person is very ordinary?