Some women quit their original jobs after they get married. They only know how to turn around their husbands and children every day, endless housework and laundry, completely ignoring their appearance and image, and feel that they work too little. However, some women are getting more and more wonderful after having their own marriages, and they exude charming charm everywhere. They not only take care of their families in an orderly way, but also never fail in their work. They still have time to go shopping, exercise and have afternoon tea with three or two girlfriends, which is enviable.
Why do some women begin to live backwards after marriage, while others live more and more wonderfully? I think it is mainly because everyone's mentality is different. Mentality determines a woman's life attitude and life ideal. A person who is honest with him and has a long-term vision can handle his work and family well even if he is bound by his husband, family and children after marriage. However, once a woman gets married, there is only room for her husband, children and housework, and nothing else. In their view, work is a waste of time, so that they no longer have enough time to take care of their children. I don't want to dress myself up anymore. I feel that dressing up is a waste of time and energy. Even my husband has seen his ugliest appearance, so there is no need to dress up.
Therefore, some of these women are getting younger and younger, keeping their families and careers in good order, while others are getting sloppy, and they always focus on their families and fail to take good care of them.
I have a friend whose child goes to kindergarten. But when I first met her, I didn't believe that she was married at all, because she looked very young, well maintained, dressed in fashion, put on a touch of decent makeup, and spoke softly, just like a girl who just graduated from college. Later, after getting along for a long time, I realized that she was not only a strong woman at work, but also a hot mom in life.
She lives in a company and goes home for two days every weekend. The rest of the time, she asked her mother-in-law to help with the children. She said she couldn't let her children delay her work and career. This is a life that women should have. Every weekend, she and her husband will take their children out to play, eat delicious food together and look at the photos taken by her circle of friends. A family of three is very sweet. She and her husband look like lovers in love.
A married woman should also live a good life. Life is her own. We should not only live for our families, but also live for ourselves, so that we can live a wonderful life without regrets. Isn't this a success?