Among these guests, there is a strong Song Dandan, a single-minded Nate, and a taciturn king who can make a scene. These people are more or less far away from ordinary people, but Li Xueqin's performance has made many people see the shadow in their lives.
First, reality show, reality show, both real people and shows. In an interview, Zhao pointed out that the script of this variety show was too complicated. The audience knows that these seemingly choppy reality shows have designed emotional traps that make people jump.
Li Xueqin photographed the scene of Taohuawu getting off the train many times, but the performance in front of the camera was not entirely the true performance of the artist.
But reality shows, reality shows, besides programs, there are real people.
Although most reality shows have fixed scripts, they are all executed by a real person. From tiny details, the audience can always get a glimpse of the artist's personality.
Li Xueqin in this program is the mode of social terrorism.
Second, the typical social model of social phobia, it is a common habit of young people in modern cities to avoid social phobia in interpersonal communication, which is embodied in doing everything possible to avoid social interaction.
In the first episode, all the guests gathered at the dinner table to play games, while Li Xueqin chose to stay in the kitchen and wash the dishes for two hours. After washing the dishes, Yoko Spicy, who slept with her, found an excuse to sneak back to the dormitory. This set of social escape boxing, netizens call it a profession.
In addition to this detail, Li Xueqin tried to reduce her sense of existence at other times in the variety show. No one prompts her, and she won't steal the camera. This is a typical pattern of social fear.
It is really shocking to say that Li Xueqin is afraid of society. She is a talkative talk show actress on the stage.
Third, the survival rules of social terrorists, though shameful, are useful but unsociable. This is actually a huge misunderstanding. Social fear is just unwillingness to socialize.
The trend of personality types put forward by Swiss psychologist Jung can be divided into extroverted personality and introverted personality. The former is good at socializing and can get energy from socializing, while for the latter, socializing is a kind of consumption.
With the development of society, the social scope and socialization of modern people are constantly expanding, and young people need to face more and more social circles. Among them, ineffective social interaction does great harm to introverts, which also makes the problem of social fear increasingly prominent.
But people who are afraid of society can always find a social mode that makes them comfortable, such as washing dishes in Li Xueqin's work, replacing social time with labor and avoiding social needs. For example, many people sit and play with their mobile phones, even if they just brush the screen of their mobile phones, it is better than staring at each other.
I have to say that this method is shameful but useful.
When modern people can't find a place suitable for young people's social fear space, it is better to brush their mobile phones than socialize.