My colleague Xiaoya came to our small place with the army. I heard that she used to be a primary school teacher. In order to follow love, she came all the way to this border town and took a job that she didn't like very much.
Loneliness: there is no canteen in our unit, so the meal ticket is reissued for eating. Lunch is booked in a nearby restaurant, so you can choose. Meal time is the best place for communication. Everyone got together, talking and laughing, and the laughter was very lively. Xiaoya basically doesn't participate in our communication. She eats quietly, then turns on her mobile phone and reads silently. Sometimes she brings kingle to read a book, which is very quiet.
Space: I once went to see Xiaoya for something. Her home is in the family hospital of the army. The house is small, unified two-bedroom, very neat. The master bedroom is the husband and wife room, and the second bedroom is the daughter's residence. There is a small study in the corner of the living room, and books are neatly placed on the bookshelf on the wall. The essence of poverty, the three of us, make life different as soon as possible, and the minimalist life rules. ...
Music: Xiaoya explained that she likes listening to music at ordinary times, listening to music when doing housework, washing clothes and mopping the floor in the rhythm of music, which is not so contradictory to housework, but rather a kind of enjoyment.
Reading: Speaking of reading, Xiaoya smiled and explained that after she joined the army, she and her husband also lived apart and spent most of their time on the border. Xiaoya kills time by reading in his spare time. After having children, she didn't stop reading. Under the influence of Xiaoya, the child began to read at an early age. It is a very pleasant thing to read, discuss and exchange reading experiences with children now.
Planting flowers: There are many green plants in Xiaoya's small room, mostly foliage plants, all of which are green. Xiaoya likes the feeling of being surrounded by green plants, as if she were in her hometown.
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Most people are different. Some people like to brush the sense of existence everywhere, while others like to be quiet. They have their own hobbies in their private space, such as listening to music, exercising, reading, writing, growing flowers, not gathering people, and even less like gossiping. These people all have their own unique hobbies and pursuits, such as my colleague Xiaoya, whom I classify as.
I would rather admire myself than go along with it;
Make a living in fireworks and make love in the moonlight;
The soul in language, the soul in music.
You can only see the appearance of her life, but you can't blend in with her heart.