This phenomenon is very common, and there are many opposites. With the improvement of people's living standards, people gradually pay attention to fitness, health preservation and improving the quality of life. Dance, as a part of fitness and entertainment, has increasingly entered the lives of ordinary people, especially ballroom dancing, which is easy to learn and jump (it can be danced in squares, dance halls and other places that are not strict with the venue environment), so more and more people like to love ballroom dancing, which is a good phenomenon. However, the problems you mentioned will appear, generally because you don't want your husband or wife to "hug" with other opposite sex every day. In fact, because you can't dance and don't know how to dance, you won't understand or object, mainly because you lack the cognitive level of dance, and you just use your own thinking to guess. Having said so much, how to solve it? To put it simply, 100% may not be effective. Some people can accept the same truth, while others disagree, which varies from person to person. 1. Establish a correct dance concept for your spouse or friends. We can dance with each other several times, so that he can see with his own eyes that we are dancing in the sun, not embracing men and women. Ballroom dance is different from modern dance. When we went, we held hands and had little physical contact. Her own experience will gradually correct her misunderstanding. 2. Dancing ballroom dance, Latin dance and modern dance means that men and women dance hand in hand. This is common sense, such as table tennis. Can you let two men or women go up? Holding hands is the requirement and characteristic of dance. It depends on the activity environment. It is not normal to hold hands with the opposite sex (spouse or girlfriend, boyfriend, of course) when walking on the road, but it is normal when dancing. For example, in the diving competition, all female athletes wear swimsuits. Do we think this is abnormal? Jumping without long pants is to keep your thighs from showing? On the contrary, you can't go to the market to buy food and wear swimsuits. People will say that you are sick, which means that the nature of things will vary according to different circumstances. 3. Establish a correct personal dance concept. We dance for hobbies, fitness, entertainment and personal health, not for fun with the opposite sex. We should have a sunny attitude, the so-called honesty is not afraid of shadows, and we should break rumors and misunderstandings with our own practical actions. It is undeniable that there are few people who dance without purpose. They did something that destroyed the dance itself and caused misunderstanding among people who didn't dance. Everything has two poles. Are officials honest and corrupt officials related to official positions? Knives can be used for cooking or committing crimes. Is it related to the knife itself? The same is true of dance. Whether the dance is sunny or gloomy depends on what the parties themselves do. I don't know if you understand. In daily life, pay more attention to her, do more housework, walk with her and say something she likes to hear. In short, make her happy. If she is angry, how can she support you to dance? If you make her happy, not only will you not object, but you may also support you. Space is limited, and mobile phone typing is too slow, so I won't say much, and the opposition of the other party will not be easily eliminated. This is a long-term and gradual process, so we should be mentally prepared. I wish you a better and happier dance. (dancer)