Then that night he sat alone in his room and sat in silence for a long time. I didn't ask him or bother him. I think children themselves have fluctuations ...
And that night I lost sleep and thought a lot until dawn. It has been five years since I returned to Xishui in a blink of an eye. Too many things have happened, too many people have been met and too many things have been done. I always feel lucky, so everyone around me is excellent and good. I'm here to thank each and every one of you! Thank you!
As an accompanying mother, the focus of my life must be children, and I may ignore myself, and companionship has become all I have. In order to better accompany me, I began to constantly try to change myself, such as listening to Fan Deng's reading, attending parents' classes, reading books, paying attention to some social hotspots, telling inspirational people and things, watching movies and brushing Tik Tok.
In recent years, I often go to public welfare activities and volunteer services with my sisters. I will also go hiking and running for fitness. It's nothing. I like to take photos and record the wonderful life now. A tense and indomitable life is more fulfilling and meaningful. Of course, all this is thanks to my husband, because I don't need more than "making money to support my family".
Besides taking care of his diet and daily life, the only thing I can do is to adjust my mentality and keep a good mood. Isn't there a good saying, "Mom is a barometer of the family ..." What I can infect my children may be my good mood and good state.
Today's weather:
Clear, clear, clear. ?
I don't care about what children learn at all. At most, just sign your name in the exercise book. If "someone" sees me, they may call me "irresponsible", which is exactly what I did. No way, stupid people, stupid methods …
However, "Mom is very precious to children" ... The last sentence, children give you a long face. There is not a saying: "Middle-aged women are not compared with their husbands or their families, but with their children." This is a bit vain, but it is true.
With children, my greatest weakness has become my greatest advantage. It is because I am too "clumsy" … "low in requirements" … I don't ask much of my children. I fully trust and appreciate him, because I always believe that my son must be better than us.
Some friends will also say that children nowadays are not easy to accompany!
I think: we can do our best to accept it unconditionally! Believe it 100%! Let me go. Authorization! Draw a line! Respect each other! Trust each other! Compliment each other!
In fact, children and we are independent individuals. It's normal that we don't bother each other and respect each other.
Of course, just live a simple life and be happy.
In fact, children and we are independent individuals. It's normal that we don't bother each other and respect each other.
Just live a simple life and be happy every day.
Of course, I am a man without pursuit, with low configuration and easy satisfaction. Simple and rude life, I feel happy to live. ?
I hope that in the next three years, my son will work hard, my mother will grow up and manage family life well. Let's save energy together and get ready! Awesome! ?