Whose youth is not confused? On campus, we should be bold and brave, and let ourselves try more. Although the ending may not be happy, we will benefit a lot from the experience of trying many times. In the face of the unknown, many people will feel afraid. This is our human nature. Facing the unknown, we are lost in the disordered forest, afraid of falling into countless traps. But universities are always full of hope, and the cost of making mistakes is still very small. So, you might as well open your heart, don't set limits for yourself, and try something you like more during this time, so it's hard to be so desperate after work.
Second, time management.
When we get to college, we don't have to live a small life like middle school, the courses are no longer compact, and we have more time to do our own things. Some people choose to spend a lot of time playing games all night and sleeping in the dormitory during the day; However, some people can persist in exercising and learning and constantly make themselves better. Four years is precious, so we need to manage our time well and plan our time reasonably, from four years in college to every day.
Third, refuse to socialize effectively.
Among college students, departments, societies, dormitories and classes often have parties. When they don't want to attend such parties, they usually choose to accept them because of emotional problems. In the long run, I not only failed to gain real friendship, but also wasted my time. There are all kinds of people in the university, and their growth experiences and living environment are different, so it is difficult to reach a completely consistent three views. So, don't choose blind integration because of love. Life is long, and it is enough to have a few like-minded friends.
Finally, if you meet the right person, talk about a sweet love. When you recall your college life again after many years, you can't help but sigh, how good my college life is! Four years in college is neither too long nor too short. While there is still time, get up the courage to keep trying and make your college life full of meaning!