Parents should not say that there is no way. This is very irresponsible. If the child is ill, he can't recover without taking medicine and injections. Will you not treat him because he doesn't want to take medicine or injections? Definitely not. Such a small child relies heavily on mobile phones, which is no less harmful than getting sick. In any case, parents should change this problem.
The harm of children watching mobile phones for a long time.
1, which affects children's language function.
The child is one and a half years old and can't speak yet. For this one-month-old child, his language ability is a little weak.
Before the age of three, children are sensitive to language, especially when they are one to two years old, which is the most critical stage for children to learn language. Speaking sooner or later is related to the language training received at this stage.
If you want a child to speak, you must have input before you can have output. Watching cartoons on mobile phones or TV is only a one-way input, and children only listen, without the desire and opportunity to say. Being in this state for a long time, family members rarely communicate with their children, which will lead to the slow development of children's language ability and have a far-reaching impact on children.
2. Affect children's brain development and intellectual development.
Before the age of three, the child's brain is in a period of rapid development, which is also the golden period of the child's brain development. It needs external sensory stimulation such as vision, hearing, taste, touch and smell to promote children's brain development.
Watching cartoons on mobile phones all day, children's sensory perception is lacking, and the information they receive is also very occluded, which will hinder their brain development and affect their intellectual development.
3, seriously endangering children's vision health.
The ophthalmologist's advice is that children under the age of three should try not to look at the electronic screen, but should look at it moderately over the age of three.
Why should we strictly stipulate the age? It is because the younger the child is, the less developed the eyeball function is and the more vulnerable it is.
Children looking at the screen of mobile phones for a long time will damage their eyesight. Once they suffer from myopia, it is irreversible.
4, affecting the child's physical development.
Watching TV for a long time, not exercising and not going out will also have an impact on children's physical development. Proper exercise, especially outdoor activities, can promote children's physical development, help their height and protect their eyesight.
One-and-a-half-year-old children still watch their mobile phones in the middle of the night without sleeping, which will lead to insufficient sleep. Sleep is very important for children's growth and development, which not only hinders the secretion of growth hormone, but also affects their height. It also hinders the development of the brain.
How to change children's dependence on mobile phones?
1, adhere to the principle of prohibiting children from touching mobile phones.
Parents must make up their minds that even if the child is crying, they are not allowed to watch it. Keep your mobile phone away from children.
If we don't change it now, it will only get worse. Habit formation is not a matter of one or two days. It is also a long-term habit for children to rely on mobile phones. Parents need to be patient and correct.
Parents should take care of themselves and don't play mobile phone in front of their children.
Because children have been so dependent on mobile phones and influenced by parents, parents must deal with their own problems first.
Work is not as important as children. Put down your mobile phone when you are with children.
3, high-quality companionship, keep children away from mobile phones.
Many children who like to watch mobile phones also lack love. The long-term neglect of parents forces children to seek happiness and comfort in mobile phone cartoons.
When I am with my children, I will accompany them with my heart, play games, toys, read books together, and go out for outdoor activities when the weather is good. When parents give love, children will feel that they will not choose a mobile phone with their parents.
Congratulations, you have a smart and healthy child!
Don't worry, let him see it if he wants to. You don't need to teach anything. You can learn a lot from watching cartoons, and you can also play games. And he's a master of games.
Little nephew started playing mobile phone at the age of one and a half. At first, I bought him a toy mobile phone, which had no screen, only buttons, and could listen to songs, music and stories. It broke down in a few days.
The second one is a fake screen for him. In fact, he will still listen to songs and stories. After playing for another month or two, I stopped playing, and then I robbed the adult's mobile phone. At first, I asked him to watch cartoons or listen to songs, and before he knew it, he played a little game.
I used to play with a toy cat named Tom Cat. One day, he found a small program of Tom Cat on his mobile phone. I played with Tom Cat for over a year. I feed it, wash clothes, cook, bathe, change clothes and take it abroad every day. Not to mention, I really learned a lot. I really know a lot when I really travel by plane. For example, I was very cooperative when I passed the security check. In the past, the security check was also to help adults pack their bags. I'm like a little adult.
Unconsciously, I am now four and a half years old, and I have long been an expert at games, competing with some primary school students in China. Although I have lived abroad for a long time and haven't learned a few words of Tang poetry and Song poetry, my English is very good. The cartoons I watch every day are all in English.
Now people can not only play games, but also install and uninstall games. It's amazing. We can't play many games. Because I broke two mobile phones while playing, I couldn't get through at first. I asked his father. Sometimes his father is not at home and asks us, and we don't understand. So I broke my mobile phone in a hurry, but it didn't work once. I had to pick it up and drop it again.
In fact, it is not a bad thing for children to play if they want to. You can learn a lot on your mobile phone. Just give him some time every day and don't play mobile phone for more than an hour. You can take him to play with other toys as appropriate. Just alternately playing with mobile phones and toys.
In addition, take him to the hospital to have his eyes examined regularly. If not, stick an eye chart on the wall at home, take a look at the eye chart every day, and remind him in time if you find any problems. Over time, he will take the initiative to check his eyes with an eye chart. He will also take the initiative not to play with his mobile phone when he finds it blurred.
No, my nephew is addicted to fitness and dancing recently. He didn't go to cram school, but he learned it from his mobile phone. Some pieces of Tik Tok can be connected by many kinds of dance pieces, which are self-contained and very similar to music!
Now I go to school for half a day every morning, play in the gym for more than an hour in the afternoon, dance, play with toys, watch TV and play with my mobile phone for a while, and arrange my own work every day, leaving adults alone. Just take care of the children, eat and drink well.
A generation has its own way of life.
The childhood of our generation is "upstairs and downstairs, there are lights and telephones" and "every village is equipped with wired speakers".
The childhood of our generation was "TV" and "repeater", trying to learn foreign languages. "It is better to have a good father than to speak a foreign language."
The little nephew's childhood was a mobile phone and a computer, running around the world.
We don't know what will happen in the future.
Personally, I think it doesn't take two or three days for children to rely on mobile phones every day. Please ask Ma Bao to spend more time taking him to shopping, shopping centers, parks and playgrounds. They are all children's favorite places, and children have poor self-control. They secretly deleted the things that children like to watch in their mobile phones, one by one, to see if he would lose his temper when he found out. I want to accompany him, play games with him and take him out for a walk. It's mainly that mom is playing with her mobile phone and dad is playing with it, so he also plays, and no one bothers anyone. Sometimes I feel that I can't live without my mobile phone. You ask your children not to rely on mobile phones. I think it's beautiful and the reality is cruel. Adults, please take time to accompany your children. I believe that children prefer to rely on their parents.
Put on the password, take her to play, empty everything in the phone, and turn off the network. There are many ways. My baby started talking on his cell phone and watching TV when he was 3 years old. Later, a relative's child came to play in the summer vacation and brought my baby in. But fortunately, I show him my mobile phone for 20 minutes every day, not more than half an hour. After the end of this year, his addiction to mobile phones increased, and he was less than five years old. He kept pestering me and stole my mobile phone. Then I got angry and changed my password. He refused to forgive me, and finally threatened to smash his cell phone if he didn't play. I dropped my mobile phone before he could speak (I bought 6 thousand mobile phones at that time). I told him clearly that if you continue to make trouble for 20 minutes every day, it will be a big deal for me. My idea is that if he is still obsessed with mobile phones, I will not hesitate to change to an old man-machine machine. I don't believe that I can't subdue a child.
Hello, everyone, this is a big brother and a little sister.
Many irresponsible parents, in order to make their babies obedient, watch TV and play mobile phones when they are young, which will make their babies develop bad habits. Once this habit is formed, it is more difficult to correct it later, which leads to the baby watching TV and playing mobile phones every day. So, what about a one-and-a-half-year-old baby watching TV and playing mobile phone every day?
For a baby who is only one and a half years old, playing mobile phone is very bad for the baby's eyes. When the baby has to play with the mobile phone, parents try to divert their attention or take the baby to play. This way, the baby will naturally not be noisy to play with the mobile phone.
1 to 2 years old is a critical moment of growth, so being lively and active and exercising more is in line with the law of children's physical growth. If children indulge in smart phones for a long time and play games with their heads down for a long time, it will do some harm to cervical vertebrae, especially their eyesight. Nowadays, many children wear glasses at an early age, which is proof. Therefore, parents should teach their children how to use mobile phones correctly, and once they find that their children are addicted to mobile phones, they should do it in time.
A story was told in a news story not long ago. A boy in Xi 'an started playing mobile phones at the age of 3 and suffered from spinal diseases at the age of 9. The illness is so serious that his spine has degenerated like a 40-year-old middle-aged man. How can a nine-year-old child get spinal diseases? When children play mobile phones, they often keep the same posture, either lying down or nesting, and play for hours at a time. It is the parents who excessively indulge their children to play with mobile phones, and do not pay attention to their sitting habits, which leads to the occurrence of spinal diseases in children!
I have a cousin whose mother was not around when she was a child. Usually, her mother always gives her mobile phone to him if she wants to be closer, but the result is the opposite. My cousin is one year old now and doesn't want to talk to others. He just wants to stay quietly in his own game world and has a bad temper. As long as the mobile phone is taken away, he immediately gets angry and doesn't want to eat. Now myopia is more than 200 degrees. At school, the teacher also said that he didn't want to get in touch with other children or even fight with them. Usually, his
As the saying goes, Rome was not built in a day. We often wait until the problem is serious before trying to solve it from the source. At this point, there is no source. Even at the beginning, we didn't have a very clear understanding, and when we had time or energy to deal with it, it was too late.
"Don't cry, I'll show you the phone."
"Listen, I'll give you my mobile phone" ... The widespread use of mobile phones, not only for adults, but also for children, has become heavily dependent on mobile phones under the influence of adults. A baby who is only 1.5 years old, do you still want him to leave the mobile phone through his own self-control?
One-and-a-half-year-old babies should watch less TV, not to mention mobile phones. They are in the period of exploring the world and need to explore the world through their senses. You can imprison your baby by showing him cartoons. When he is quiet, you will be relieved, but the harm to the child cannot be ignored.
1. Affect vision. The development of infant's visual nervous system is not perfect. Long-term radiation of mobile phone or computer TV is very harmful to eyes, which can easily lead to visual fatigue, even myopia and strabismus.
2. Affect language development. 1.5-3-year-old babies are in a period of rapid language development, and they can't understand the TV content they watch at all, even if they imitate it occasionally.
3. Affect health. If children watch mobile phones for a long time, they will lack exercise, which will easily affect digestion and appetite, resulting in children being too fat or too thin.
4. Dependence on mobile phones. Watching mobile phones or TV for a long time can easily lead to children's dependence and it is difficult to quit.
A friend of mine, sometimes children are naughty and fidgety, so she plays mobile phones, watches cartoons and plays games. Then she was afraid of hurting the children, which was very contradictory. In fact, for infants and young children, parents can't be afraid of trouble, so they throw mobile phones at their children. As the netizen said, "If you want to ruin your child, just give him a smart phone."
If children don't rely on mobile phones, spend time with them. Although it will take a little time, it will certainly gain a lot. When the child is older, he can play by himself and you can do your own thing. I will play with my baby, and then I say I have to work, and she will build blocks, read books or play with other things she likes. It's much more interesting for us to do our own thing than to give her a mobile phone. Therefore, parents should realize that they should not regard mobile phones as an artifact to tease their babies.
For babies before the age of 2, try not to give them mobile phones or electronic products. Even if you give it, you have to limit the time. Babies before the age of 2 should not watch electronic products for more than 15 minutes. Meanwhile, parents should brush their mobile phones less and spend more time with their children.
Underestimating the baby's ability is the real reason why young mothers make mistakes.
Today's smart phones have many functions and are easy to operate. With a little finger, you can play games and watch videos. Adults and children like to play mobile phones when they are free.
Children have poor self-control, so they forget the time when playing mobile phones. Without parents' reminding, you can really play for hours without stopping, which will have an impact on your eyesight and health for a long time. Moreover, children are used to playing mobile phones, which will also have an impact on the cultivation of reading habits in the future. When reading, they will be restless. After all, reading requires thinking, while watching videos only requires passive acceptance. But in this case, it is unrealistic to completely prevent children from touching mobile phones. Especially in the online class last year, many courses and homework had to be completed on the mobile phone. Usually, many notices are sent by the school through mobile phones. Therefore, children's dependence on mobile phones is gradually increasing, and it is impossible to absolutely prohibit children from touching mobile phones. In this case, parents can only pay more attention to their children, spend more time with them when they are free, play with them, do manual work, read books with their parents, etc., take their children to outdoor activities, try not to leave them alone, reduce the time for children to contact mobile phones, and don't use mobile phones as a tool to coax children. There are also blue glasses for children. Wear glasses when watching TV and watching mobile phones to provide some protection for eyesight (which may have limited effect).
How to control children to play mobile phones is a difficult problem, and many parents are faced with such troubles. We can only try our best to make children play less. If you have any good ideas, you can also communicate with each other.
There is no doubt that this must be a child without parents.
0 1 "I'm too tired to accompany you. Give you a mobile phone to play, and I can rest! "
Some parents throw their mobile phones to their children because they are busy and tired at work and have no time and energy to accompany them, so that they can watch cartoons. The stimulation of sound and light can easily attract their attention, and children will soon stop pestering their parents.
This is the so-called lazy baby-sitting method. You don't need the help of a nanny or anyone else. You can do it with your mobile phone.
02 "Look how smart my children are! Watch your mobile phone at a young age! "
Some parents show their one-or two-year-old children cartoons on their mobile phones, and find that children like them and are obsessed with them. When they watch cartoons, they are very devoted and attentive, and they will respond accordingly according to the plot of cartoons.
They will be happy that their children can watch cartoons and feel that their children are so smart. They will watch mobile phones from an early age and even show off to others, but they don't realize what harm watching mobile phones will bring to children's body and mind.
In fact, in the final analysis, the most critical issue is parents' ideology. If parents can realize the importance of companionship and the harm of mobile phones, spend time communicating with their children and playing with them, children will not be addicted to mobile phone animation. What a one-year-old or two-year-old child needs most is the company of his parents.
I also work in the media, and I have been watching other people's courses online some time ago, including reading textbooks. My child is as old as you. Let me talk about my method, hoping to help you.
1. As long as I look at my mobile phone, I always read. Without videos, I don't watch TV dramas myself, so children won't have a strong desire to watch TV dramas.
About 2. 1.5 years old, she suddenly found that Peggy the pig was beautiful and couldn't stop. She talked about Peggy every day, and we only showed it to her for a while. No, we must see it.
At this time, we will divert her attention, take her downstairs to play, or accompany her to read and play. The child's concentration was not so high, and he shifted at once.
I bought her a set of Piggy Peggy's books. Later, she found that books can be read at any time, and the story is the same as cartoons. She watches cartoons quietly, but she still remembers them occasionally.
4. Start strengthening reading time every day. Before going to bed and getting up, as long as she can touch all kinds of interesting picture books everywhere, she is slowly attracted and rarely mentions TV dramas.
We bought a projection at home, and as long as I was cooking, I gave her a cartoon of Peggy the pig. Later, I found out that she didn't look at it at all and stayed with me in the kitchen. Gradually, I found that she didn't mention Peggy, and I didn't want to watch other cartoons.
6. I don't take my cell phone when she is awake. I bought a smart watch in order not to miss important information. I don't watch the computer either, so I read with her. After she went to bed, I began to work hard. Therefore, my daughter is not obsessed with mobile phones. She will show it to me when she sees it, but she is obsessed with picture books. I think the persistence of this habit is quite effective, which makes me feel very gratified.
I hope I can help you. The most important thing is that you are not with her every day, nor with the children. Efficient companionship means playing with her and feeling all the beauty and happiness together.