A circle of friends is like a kaleidoscope, having seen all kinds of wonderful lives.

There are often people in my circle who show love, enjoy food, enjoy scenery, take selfies, exercise, read books and enjoy achievements. Every time I look at my circle of friends, I am full of envy and anxiety.

This friend just eats and takes pictures every day. He is really rich and idle, so envious!

This friend studies in the sun every day. He must have made great progress and started to blame himself!

This friend now has a good harvest of love and work. He must be very happy and anxious!

I believe this is also the idea of most of our friends.

Later, I heard from a teacher in a circle of friends that she was busy with her work almost every afternoon 1 1. When I was chatting with a friend, I realized that she also had her own troubles.

The circle of friends is like a beautified photo, embellishing all the flaws, leaving only the glamorous one for everyone to envy.

I read an article before. The author is a freelance writer and all her friends envy her. Once she went out for dinner with friends, she always took a notebook to record some materials and improve the manuscript at any time. At the same time, she has to shoot and shoot all the time to accumulate picture material for the article. In the original leisure time, she can't completely relax. With this experience, friends also said that they no longer envy her.

Behind all the scenery, there are countless sweats and efforts. Even in the WeChat business, people have learned how to run a circle of friends.

In the movie "detective chinatown", Wang said: People think you are hanging out, but in fact, your teeth fell down your throat, and only you know how to cry.

So, don't envy other people's lives too much. If it is false, there is no need to envy it. If it is true, it must be the great efforts of others.

As you know, Madina and Jo Jiang are very eye-catching programs, all kinds of fancy programs. Weibo was on the show, Tik Tok was on the show, and I am their fan. It's interesting to watch these two stupid programs often.

I believe that most people will not be jealous of them, but only think that such love is really good. These two people are great!

Because we are far away, we don't compare their lives. If an ordinary friend appears in the circle of friends like this every day, it is estimated that he will be blacked out.

People should always be tolerant of people they don't know, but compare people around them everywhere, otherwise it will be a shame.

In this case, we might as well let these people become our forward force and treat them with appreciation.

When others show love, it turns out that falling in love can be so beautiful, and you add an expectation to the appearance of love. When others take pictures of the scenery around you, you realize that you can still live like this, and you quietly set yourself a goal. Seeing friends who exercise every day, you realize that these are not so difficult, and you finally have the courage to lose weight.

Instead of comparing with others everywhere, it is better to lend yourself more support by the strength of others.

Of course, the most important thing is that you can't pursue it just because others have it. You must know where you belong in it. After all, life is your own, and it's not a loss to live like others.

Each of us is the soul painter of our own life, whether it is splash-ink landscape painting or bright watercolor painting, the brush is in our hands.

I remember what an old iron said when I joined the club before: everyone has their own life process. For some people, some things come quickly, but for others, they are slow.

Maybe he surpassed you at this stage, and maybe you will surpass him at the next stage. There is no absolute winning or losing until the last moment in life. In that case, why don't we create and experience our own lives?

In the recently hit TV series "Standing at Thirty", Zhong and Zhong are both about to enter the threshold of 30, but their lives are different.

Gu Jia has a husband and children who love him. They have better living conditions. He is our real envy. However, she still bears the burden of humiliation to let her children receive a better education and use resources to carry slippers for her wife. She tried her best to help this family, and her husband cheated on her.

Zhong is a nice person. Everyone in the company can help her with her work. Even if she is pregnant, she doesn't know how to refuse. As everyone expected, she got married early. But her marriage is just like what she said: I keep cats and he keeps fish. Two people always go their separate ways. After the divorce, they also understood the meaning of marriage and started their lives again.

Wang Manni, like Beipiao, struggled in Shanghai alone. Because it is too outstanding, it is constantly pitted by colleagues. She was always urged to get married by her parents, but she didn't meet the ideal object. Later, she met the perfect person, and she was really an unmarried person. Finally, she chose to go abroad for further study and improve herself.

We really can't judge whose life is better. We can only say that only we know the ups and downs.

As long as you can keep your feet on the ground and move forward at your own pace, taking your time is fast.

I hope you can live to be the envy of others in your circle of friends!

This article was first published by a girl on the official account of WeChat.