1, some people are happy but look distressed; Some people look happy when they should be worried. People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. Because sober people look too real, when they are more real, they are full of troubles; However, a confused person, he seldom cares, because his simple and rough life has found the great taste of life. Therefore, all the troubles in life are caused by yourself, not without you, but without you.
There are two paths in life. A person needs to go with his heart, which is called a dream. One who needs to walk with his feet is called reality. If your heart goes too fast, your feet will get lost; If you walk too fast, people will fall; If the heart goes too slowly, it will make the reality pale; If you walk too slowly, your dream won't fly high. The beauty of life lies in walking well in the heart and walking just right. Control your mind and let it guide you to go straighter and better; Speed up our pace and let our dreams give birth to beautiful wings!
Nothing in this world is exclusive. Don't say God's injustice with the heart you want. People are fickle, and a laissez-faire heart is more like a runaway wild horse. Don't say you can't get it if you don't go back. To stick to the basic things, we must constantly strive for hope. As long as we don't despair, we must look for those things that should belong to us.
4, life is short, compared with the vast history, in fact, everyone is very happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others. The mountain of happiness has no top and no head. You should learn to stop and go, see Shan Lan, appreciate the rainbow and blow the breeze, so that your mind can be satisfied with life when you relax.
5. Wash lead flowers in a plain posture, look at the red dust, and enter the red dust to understand the red dust. People who pass by in a hurry are people who have no chance; What I missed was a brief glimpse. Whose flowers fall on whose fingertips, whose sadness dyes whose brow? It's not about romance, it's about time. In the lovesickness place with low eyebrows, a Zen tea is dull and fruitless. Charm is late, and a Sanskrit sound blows away youth and ignorance; After things have changed, I have learned to feel warm and safe at the corner of the season.
6. Life is like this. With people in the sunshine, the heart will not be dark. When you are with happy people, you often have a smile on your mouth; People who are enterprising will not lag behind in their actions; With generous people, you are not stingy; If you are with wise people, you will not be confused when you encounter difficulties; With smart people, you will become smart. Borrow people's wisdom and improve yourself. Learn from the best others and be the best yourself.
7. Some people say that life is a journey, everyone is on the way, and everyone is unconsciously living the scenery along the way. Many times, life is like water, the stone sinks into the sea, and the waves are stormy; Many times, if life is a dream, look back and dream happily.
8. People suffer because they can't get it and they can't give up. When God gives you a big gift, he will package it with many difficulties. Don't give up the bottom line at any time. Only when your mind stands up straight will life not tilt. Wise people let go of their present progress, fools let go of despair, and the height of letting go is the degree of happiness; The premise of a person's happiness is not that he has the ability to change the world, but that he has the perseverance to change himself.
9. When tomorrow becomes today and yesterday, we suddenly find ourselves being pushed forward by time unconsciously. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and cross with adjacent trains, but that we really grow up on this matter and become another ourselves.
10, time is lazy and life is simple. The biggest confusion every day is whether dinner should be salty or sweet. In the depths of my life, I have forgotten my age, and there is still innocence between laughter and laughter. Actually, we're not that ambitious. We just want this world to be peaceful and bloom indifferently, on the other side of time.
1 1 In fact, everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and they will encounter more or less disappointments. As long as we are optimistic and open-minded, the clouds will eventually disperse; Even if you can't see the clouds or the moon, you won't waste your time and live up to that wonderful time.
12, there are many things you think you know, but you don't; There are many things you know in theory but don't understand in practice; There are many things you can say under your own understanding, not necessarily just understanding; Just because someone says you know a lot of things doesn't mean you do. To put it bluntly, what you know is always nine Niu Yi hairs, so you should study more.
13, the hardest person in this world is a wife, and the hardest person is also a wife. What you think is simple is earth-shattering at your wife's place. What you think is complicated is obvious to your wife.
14, everyone has his own way of living, his own pain is clear, his own sadness is clear, and his own happiness is felt. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is the existence in the eyes of others; Maybe the heaven in your own eyes is the hell in others' eyes. Life is so funny. Don't always doubt that spring scenery is in others, the key lies in the adjustment of your own mentality. Living well is the most important thing.
15, there is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you really want. If you get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.
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17, life, seemingly simple two unfamiliar Chinese characters, ancestors and ancients have to piece them together to form a buzzword that everyone has been saying all their lives. When two unrelated words are combined, they are words. As a word, it should have its profound weight.
18, everyone wants a good life, wants to buy good things, wants to travel at any time, wants to have everything, no one likes suffering, and no one wants to be tired all the time. However, if you want to live a good life, you must first go through hardships. Not everyone can go shopping and travel when they are tired, and not everyone will wake up immediately when they encounter difficulties. But, you know, when you suddenly realize that life is not just what it seems, it's too late.
19, learn to be responsible for your own choices: don't expect others to come back to you when you break up, and don't think that anyone can stand you when you die. Admitting mistakes does not mean being forgiven, and being forgiven does not mean going back to the past. Everyone is growing up, and the slower ones are not qualified to hold hands. All the rhythms are not for you to decide, and the other party has the right to choose. Life is not so sweet for you. Welcome to the world of adults.
20. Only those who know the baby know the baby's treasure. If you give an antique to a beggar, it may be treated as a urinal. If you give a good book to an illiterate, you may wipe it as toilet paper at the entrance to the village. If you give yourself to someone who doesn't appreciate it, you may become a nanny or a punching bag. Pink is for beauty, good wine is for hero, otherwise it will be a violent death, and heaven forbid. It's a fact, it's a job, it's an emotion.
2 1, life is like a coffee table, although it is not big, it is full of tragedies; Love is like a ghost. Many people believe it, but few people see it. People have plenty of background, but I only have one figure. ...
22. A woman's marriage is like a festival: marry the right person and spend Valentine's Day every day; Marry the wrong person, Tomb-Sweeping Day every day; Marry a lazy man, every labor day; Marry a rich man and celebrate the New Year every day. ; Marry a playboy and celebrate Singles Day every day; Marry a naive, everyday Children's Day; Marry a liar, every April fool's day!
23. They believe that gold will shine, silver will run out, skirts will run out, privacy will be exposed, and moral integrity will run out.
24. Are people gambling? Everyone wants to win? However, life always has to give up. We wasted a lot of time doing what we thought would win and loving someone we thought would die together, but we lost miserably. What kind of useless gamblers are we? Until the empty pocket turned away and set foot on the vast way home, I said to myself as I walked: I don't have to win, I just don't like the feeling of losing.
25, women remember: three things can not wait: filial piety, good deeds, fitness. Don't be afraid of three things: age, loneliness and the future. There are three things you can't regret: work, opportunity and birth. You can't insist on three things: spending money, drinking and getting married.
26, the mountain does not mean that it is high, and it does not affect its towering clouds; The fact that the ocean cannot explain its depth does not affect its ability to accommodate hundreds of rivers; The earth does not explain its thickness, but no one can replace it as the foundation of everything. Be low-key, do high-key, and then look at everything in the world with a peaceful attitude.
27. Listen to what others tell you easily, let taboos hinder your vision, set rules for yourself, and live a regular life. I call this a second-hand life. Our happiness or sadness is not because we are men or women, but because we are trapped in a certain pattern and concept.
28. It is false to say that you don't want to fall in love, and it is also false to say that you don't envy others to show love. It's just that they are not serious, so I would rather choose to be single than talk about feelings casually, because I don't want to have exhausted my best when I meet better people.
29, there is a kind of loss, can not be said, can only rely on feelings; There is a kind of sadness that can't be said and can only be relied on; There is a kind of love that can only be concealed by deception; There is a kind of heartache called wordless sex.
30, some things, don't care, it is like a gust of wind, scraped, it is gone; Some things, if you don't make it clear, are like a thorn. It hurts when you make it clear. Some things, don't bother, have the heart, can be emotional; Affection can warm people's hearts.
Good morning: when it is stormy, you can see the truth; Only when you are plain can you see your heart clearly.
Sometimes, people need not material wealth, but spiritual comfort; Not sweet talk, but common understanding.
1, beauty, who can tell what is sweet and what is bitter in a spoony day? All I know is that if I am sure, I will not hesitate. If you want to lose, you will lose to pursuit, and if you want to marry, you will marry happiness.
It doesn't matter how long two people are together. What matters is whether you stay in this person's heart or not. Some people will stay in their hearts for life even if they are together for one day; Some people have never spent a day in their hearts even if they have been together for a lifetime.
When we always complain that the world is dark, it is our own heart that is covered with thick dust. Smart people never live in other people's mouths or eyes. From the heart, from the sexual point of view, can not stand the false fate, unintentional inaction, freedom, freedom of movement, self-knowledge, the present is practice. People can't be too fake, and it's hard to talk to each other if they are fake. You can't see the world clearly, and it's hard to see it clearly.
In life, there are always more audiences than friends. The audience will only make people feel comfortable visually, but friends will move your heart.
5, a person's life, to walk a lot of roads, there are straight roads, but also narrow roads; There are prosperity and desolation. In any case, we must go our own way, and no one can rely entirely on anyone. Don't shy away, don't back down, face it with an open mind, and what belongs to you will come eventually. Sometimes, you think you can't get through it, so be it. There is no road to go, as long as you are willing to go, you have already set foot on this road.
6. Good fate is fate; Good relationships are casual.
7, lift yourself too high, others may not look up to you; Put yourself too low, others may not respect you; No one is perfect, so there is no need to hide his shortcomings. To be a man, you must be able to raise your head and bow your head. Tilting up and down is not only a gesture, but also an attitude and a quality. Looking up in adversity is a kind of courage and confidence; Bowing your head in prosperity is a calm and low-key thing. We must have the courage to strive for the upper reaches and the atmosphere of being willing to bow our heads. Keep your eyes open and refuse temptation.
8, do not force the intersection, force it not to be fragrant; If you don't cherish it, you will cherish it for a long time.
9. Shoes that don't fit, don't get stuck, grind your own feet; If the caller doesn't answer, don't repeat it over and over again. People who cherish you will call the first time. Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
10, a true friend is a pair of hands when you are lost, a shoulder when you are in pain, and a comfort when you are discouraged.
1 1. Some people always say that when you are old, there is nothing left, and then you will chew on memories. However, not all the memories of a person's life are beautiful and memorable. Maybe when you look back, you will find that all the encounters and all the possessions are so insignificant. Even feel helpless and sad, like a clean piece of white paper, stained with ink.
12, a passage enters the heart, just because it touches the heart; A line of tears shed, only because of the fragile disintegration.
13, it is happiness to have friends in life, it is rare to have a bosom friend, and it is hard to find a bosom friend.
14, loneliness means that there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when someone in your heart is not around. Peace of mind, life is a calm water; In the journey of life, everyone is busy getting to know all kinds of people, thinking that this is to enrich life. But the most valuable meeting is to meet yourself again at a certain moment, and then you will understand that traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart.
15, good feelings may be very light, such as water, like tea, savor it carefully and taste it slowly before you can understand it. Heartache when you are injured and companionship when you are sad are worth a thousand words.
16, there are some things you can care about, but don't overdo it, it will wear your mind and aggravate your steps; Some pain, you can immerse yourself in it, but don't stay too long, it will reduce morale and lose your direction for a long time. Don't refuse to give up things that don't belong to you. This is actually a kind of mind and tolerance; Don't let go of those who are destined to belong to you, let self-confidence and persistence become a quality and connotation. If you care more, you will have less fun; Looking down, everything will be relieved.
17, cherish and be sincere; It's worth knowing something.
18, accept what has happened with a normal heart. With a broad heart, tolerate those who are sorry for you. Adhere to the correct concept with an unchanging heart. Happily help people in need. Face those things that are hard to give up with a relaxed heart. Appreciate things around you with a beautiful heart. Treat everyone sincerely. Be grateful for what you have.
19, sometimes what people need is not material wealth, but spiritual comfort; Not sweet talk, but common understanding. It's about love, because it's tempting; Touched my heart, because I am serious.
20, when the wind and rain, you can see the truth clearly; In the plain, you can see your heart.
Good morning: slow down your heartbeat and you can get up quickly.
1, the most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't stick to. Plato
It is more important to have someone to chat with than to watch TV for dinner. For example, if the weather is fine today, I can tell him that it is fine. If it's cold, I'll ask him to put on another dress. It's a pity that such a simple communication can't be carried out. There are so many people in this world, but everyone is lonely.
3, there is a person in my heart, it is a collection, so it fills the gap in life. The sun is far away, but there must be a sun. Seven years Viola
4. A big part of growth is acceptance. Accept parting ways, impermanence, loneliness and frustration, sudden powerlessness, and your own shortcomings. Then change from the heart and find a balance. To get along with the world is to get along with yourself first. Turn on the lights at dark, and take an umbrella when it rains. If you are sad, you will be sad first, but you will not die. Lu sihao
5. Learn to love a person lightly and invisibly, without putting pressure on others. It takes a long time, even a lifetime, to love a person well, to keep enough distance and to have proper humility.
6, chasing all the way, the last thing you want is quiet happiness. Amy Cheung
7. The most abundant and vivid moment in life may be the moment of hesitation, and it is an unresolved moment in life. This hesitation is by no means indecisive, but a taste of the richness and possibility of life.
8. Eat the rice bite by bite and walk step by step. How can you tell the good guys apart without meeting some scum? How can you know what you like and don't like without trying something more? Because of experience, I know You don't know what you really want until you really do it. When the heartbeat slows down, the action can be accelerated.
9. I think the biggest loneliness is walking in such a dense crowd that no one can talk to. Mr.yu
10, parents, for a 20-year-old person, I'm afraid it's like an old house: you live in it, it gives you shelter from the wind and rain, gives you warmth and security, but the house is a house, and you won't talk to it, communicate with it, be considerate of it or please it. I estimate that it will be twenty years before you look back and start looking at this silent old house.
Accept everything, and then the tragedy disappears. Or at least, the tragedy has become less heavy, and you are there, moving freely in this world.
12. Now it seems that it is a good thing to leave a record on the trip. Photos, words, books, feelings. These are the marks that time once existed. Our life is also a long road, with no end in sight and no turning back.
13, the formation of true friendship is not due to the intentional wooing of both sides, some by accident, and some unconsciously. Qian Zhongshu
14, the best appearance of a person is probably to be calm, accept all your weaknesses frankly, stop being anxious because others are doing well, and keep the rhythm when no one can see you. This may be a slow walk, but it will be more practical than anyone else. Don't be afraid to step on the air, and don't be afraid to get into other people's tracks.
15, people do not travel outside, but also travel by sitting still and thinking. Anyone who explores, pursues and touches unknown situations, whether local or spiritual, is a kind of travel. lin qingxuan
16, if you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate it, life is hateful everywhere. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere. If you grow, everything can grow. It is not the world that has chosen you, but you have chosen the world. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly and happy. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.
17, the window is too narrow, the sky is too big, the home is too small, the heart is too wild, the dream is too far, and despair is too early. Brush your teeth, wash your face and look in the mirror. The day is about to start again. A few meters
18, read a lot of books, watched a lot of movies, walked through some places, met all kinds of people, and became more and more aware of the bottom line and pursuit of life. But more clearly, it is enough to be yourself, instead of forcibly kidnapping others morally with your own views. People grow up in different environments, and everyone has their own views and difficulties. I think it is enough to do three things well in one's life. Do what is right and don't force others to do it.
19, the beginning is always beautiful, especially in sunny mornings. Cluster hair
20. nothing. No matter how many times you do it again, you will definitely have regrets in your life.
2 1, stubborn as a stone, but soft as a piece of tofu. Xu
22. If you let go, you won't be lonely. It will be clear when you stand far away. If you don't fantasize, you won't feel anything You don't care if you don't expect it.
23. I believe that in this world, some people have something and some love. When they met for the first time, they were doomed to be bound for life. They are destined to grow in their hearts like trees and live forever.
24. Have the ability not to draw conclusions about yourself when you are confused and depressed; Don't judge the morality of the world in times of pain and despair. You have to believe that everything is temporary, and the only thing we need to do is to quietly show it to the world.
25. From the past to the present, I admire people who can communicate and socialize. I have never been able to learn or feel uncomfortable, and I often blame myself. Now that I think about it, it seems that this is not bad, at least it is much better than finding that there is only one tired, lonely and empty self left at the scene where the crowd is scattered, the lights are dim and the cups and plates are messy. Wu Nianzhen.
It's not a long time that makes people feel distant, but two or three irreversible things.
27. They all love hard, but they don't know how to love. Everyone only knows that I want, I want, but mature love is not taking, but giving.
28. Don't bother others, ignore yourself, squander trust, please, follow blindly, and don't be a moral hero. That's enough.
29. I have been worried about a mistake and a stupid remark for a long time, and I will go through fire and water to get an understanding. But in the end, I found that it is very important for myself, but it is just a passing sight for people. Most of the burdens, worries and anxieties are self-imposed. After all, there are some things that people who should understand will always understand. People who don't understand, in fact, never need to say a word. Free aurora "that's it, it's okay"
30. You feel tired because you talk more than you do, and your desire is greater than your ability. I want to change, but there is nothing I can do. I want to let nature take its course, but I can't feel at ease.
3 1. Who do you admire most in your heart? You don't have to be that person, but use that person's spirit and methods to be yourself. Kevin Tsai
The unhappiest people in the world are those who live every day but don't know what to do. If you want to do more things than time, you will not be unhappy.
The most important thing for adults to live in harmony is not to ask others for their own way of life.
Once the water flows deep, there is no sound. Once a person's feelings are deep, they will appear weak.
35. When you are hesitating, the world is big; When you take the first step bravely, the world is small. When one day you become the person you like, who will question that your choice is unreliable? You become a better person, and you will meet better people. No matter who you are, you will meet.
36. I finally believe that every road I take has its own reasons for having to trudge like that. Every road to go has its own direction to choose. Xi Murong
Don't be afraid that all good things will disappear. Let it exist first.
38. Later, I learned that every time in life, there will be lonely moments, and I will look around for no one but myself, so I have to understand my vulnerability, my desires, my thoughts, my boundaries and my real dreams.
39. Occasionally, we are like dusk and dawn. At some moments, we are so similar, but there is a whole night in between.
Good morning: Life can be changed by yourself.
In daily life, what can be done by the weather can also be done by diligence; What genius can't do, diligence can do.
1. In life, there is always unexpected warmth and endless hope.
2. Most of the pain is the result of refusing to leave. There is no doomed misfortune, only persistence.
There are many good choices in life, but you don't have to make those that look best. Choose something that makes you happy, and it will be your best choice.
In this world, some roads have to be faced and trudged alone. No matter how long the road is, no matter how dark the night is, you should walk alone silently.
5. I always have a "philosophy of life" in my heart: heartless, can live a hundred years; A clear conscience, live not tired; There is a clear water in my heart, and there is no trouble of staying overnight. If I'm not angry about staying overnight, I won't get sick of staying overnight.
6. When a woman tells you that she is ill, she wants you to take care of her and accompany her, instead of perfunctorily asking you to drink more water. Drinking my sister's water will cure all diseases? Even if drinking water cures the fever, can it cure the chills? —— Liu Qi
Thanks to my imperfection, I can see who is really good to me.
8. Always believe this and everything will change. No matter how traumatized you are, how heavy your heart is, and how poor you are, you should stick to it. When the sun goes down, it will rise, and the unfortunate days always have an end. This was the case in the past and will be the case in the future.
9. No generation of young people is easy. Every generation has its own destiny, grievances, struggles and struggles, and there is nothing to complain about. -white
10, the elegance of life is not trained or dressed up, but has experienced thousands of calmness, vicissitudes of wisdom and countless ups and downs. It is to look down on dust, live in a ravine, learn to give up and let go, and go into battle lightly; It is to look at interpersonal relationships in a simple way, with less struggle and entanglement. The greatest wealth is to cherish the fleeting time; It is to look down on gains and losses, come and go unintentionally, and let the heart be quiet and elegant.
1 1. If you are angry, please face the mirror first, and then face your lover. Look at yourself. Do you like this face now?
12, girls can be stubborn and proud when appropriate. Girls in their twenties are the most beautiful. They can laugh as they please and cry stubbornly. Girls in their twenties should be true to themselves, and the most beautiful years should be reserved for a bright smile, dare to love and hate, and dare to pursue. -Yang Lan
13, no matter how good others are, it's none of my business; No matter how bad I am, it's nobody else's business
You never know what will happen tomorrow. If you meet someone you love today, you must tell him today: I love you, I love you very much. Even if he can't respond to you with the same love, at least he is happy at the moment he knows that he is loved.
15, people who really love you, no matter how hard you are, will never let you go.
16, it is impossible to reach the end of happiness without a happy journey. No matter what you are pursuing at the moment, I hope you can keep a happy heart in this process, then what you yearn for will come to your life more effortlessly.
17, don't be too willful, because you live for the future, don't let the future hate you now.
18, in fact, life needs very little, a glass of water, a bowl of rice, a sentence I love you. But this glass of water, he hopes that the person who loves him brought it to him, that bowl of rice he hopes that the person who loves him cooked it for him, and the sentence I love you, he hopes that the person who loves him said it to him personally.
19, in daily life, what only heaven can do, diligence can also do; What genius can't do, diligence can do.
20. I never blame myself for wasting time, not making up my mind to realize my dream and not doing my best to support my potential. Everyone complains about others and depends on others, so they can only accomplish nothing and stand still. If you are willing to bite the bullet, look to the future and rely on yourself, life can be reversed. Wu Danru