In marriage, the status of men and women is very equal. If your boyfriend is hot and cold to himself, you must try to make him obey. Here are the tips for dealing with Taurus.
Hot and cold tactics to deal with Taurus men 1 Deal with a man as he deals with you.
Since Taurus is hot and cold to you, don't stick a hot face on someone else's cold ass all the time, otherwise it will look particularly fall in price, and after a long time, Taurus will also have a high psychological state. So the best way is to deal with them accurately in his way.
For example, Taurus male takes the initiative to find you once every three days, so you also look for it once every three days; He didn't reply to your message for two days, and you only replied to him once every two days. This will make Taurus men unable to control your thoughts, feel uneasy and finally bow their heads completely.
Make yourself strong and excellent.
Taurus is hot and cold to you because you are not beautiful enough, not good enough to be the ideal other half. Imagine, if you are the daughter of the richest man, and you are particularly beautiful, let alone hot and cold, Taurus man must be eager to stick to you for 24 hours.
Therefore, the trick to deal with Taurus men's sudden change of heat and cold is to strive to become excellent and powerful. On the one hand, we should try to lose weight, but also learn makeup and wearing skills to make ourselves look better and better. On the other hand, we should read more books and study more, and strive to enrich ourselves and make ourselves more capable and courageous.
Being close to other boys will make them jealous.
If Taurus is cold and hot to you, you should take immediate action to fight back, and don't let yourself be a lamb to be slaughtered. You can deliberately narrow the distance with other boys, such as going out for dinner with friends of the opposite sex and shopping with male colleagues.
Of course, you can't have too many intimate actions, otherwise Taurus will frame you for cheating. It must be fair and clear, so that Taurus can't find any handle, but it can accurately hit them and make them jealous. In this way, Taurus men will not dare to be hot and cold to you again, because they are afraid that you will run away with other men if you go on like this.
Be especially filial and considerate to parents.
Taurus male is a particularly filial person and has no disloyalty to his parents. So if Taurus is cold and hot to you, you can hang them for a few days or just ignore them.
. On the contrary, you can visit their parents more often and don't go home empty-handed. You can buy some special thoughtful gifts, such as massage chairs, clothes and so on. You can also clean the house for your parents, walk with them in the community and so on. These practices can not only win the favor of parents, but also make Taurus men have a good impression on you and think you are a wife candidate. After a long time, they will even feel guilty and will never continue to be cold and hot to you again.
The trick to dealing with Taurus men is to be hot and cold. Emotionally, Taurus is not very confident. Because they are not good at words, do not know how to please girls, and have limited self-knowledge, they are always very insecure in their feelings.
Especially in the face of the right girl, Taurus always takes a hot and cold attitude in order to show his importance in the other person's mind. For example, he is particularly enthusiastic about girls for a while, and then he will be particularly cold. This attitude is often very hurtful, but they don't realize it.
If you want to deal with the attitude of Taurus, the best way is to ignore them. Because once you are cold to Taurus men, they will be at a loss and full of anxiety. At this time, Taurus men will be eager to show their enthusiasm and goodwill.
After repeating this several times, Taurus men will realize how much cold and hot hurt their feelings, and will try to change, and will not treat girls with an attitude as before. So in fact, dealing with Taurus is very simple, as long as it is deliberately left out.
Taurus men's attitude towards feelings
Taurus boys are insecure in their daily life, which may be related to their childhood growth experience, and their own abilities are not outstanding. Sometimes they are stupid and don't know how to please girls, so they are easy to suffer. However, Taurus male is very willing to pay emotionally. As long as they like something, they will try their best to satisfy it, which is very gratifying.
Because Taurus thinks that since girls follow themselves, they can't treat each other badly. They must work hard to give each other a better life in order to live up to this sincerity.
Taurus men sometimes belong to the more realistic type, and there is no room for a grain of sand in their eyes. They don't allow the girls they like to get too close to other opposite sex, and they don't want too many opposite sex friends around their lovers. If the girl doesn't do well in this respect, Taurus will choose to give up this relationship.
What kind of girls does Taurus like?
Taurus boys are very traditional and conservative at heart. When choosing lovers, they will give priority to girls with self-discipline and strong sense of family responsibility. Because in Taurus's view, there are more and more temptations in life now, and the things that everyone faces are becoming more and more complicated. If a girl is irresponsible, or her attitude towards feelings is not specific enough, then she will be easily tempted by the outside world and even do things that betray her feelings.
Therefore, in order to avoid too many problems in their marriage and feelings, Taurus hopes that the other half is a person with family responsibility. Moreover, after marriage, girls are generally encouraged to teach each other at home, earn money and work hard outside, and do their own work. In their view, life can get better and better in this way.
There are several ways to deal with the hot and cold of Taurus men.
Some people don't know what to do to deal with men giving you the cold shoulder. We can do this:
(1) coquetry: We often hear the saying that a woman who can coquetry is the best, which means to attract her own man by coquetry. Many men feel that some women will have great satisfaction when they are spoiled in front of themselves. In this case, they will also have some desire to protect girls. But we must pay attention to the degree of mastery, there is a degree, if there is excessive coquetry, it will make men feel that you are very annoying and clingy.
(2) Communication: Good communication is the most effective way to solve the problem between men and women. If there is any problem, two people must communicate in time to understand what the other needs, and at the same time let the other person know their own thoughts.
(3) If the problem lies with men, you must establish your own bottom line: if a man is cold to you, it is because of some reasons, or he feels worse than before, or even has no feeling at all, so as a girl, you must have your own bottom line, and never put down your posture and tolerate it too much.
Second, there are two ways to deal with men's hot and cold.
Some women don't know how to deal with men's hot and cold, so they should learn their own unique skills:
First, don't choose entanglement and beating: After breaking up, many girls' first reaction is to choose entanglement and beating, because they subconsciously feel that they are going to lose the man they love.
In fact, this is not a wise move at all. When a man agrees to break up with you, he has been thinking for a long time, so even if you save him, what can you do? One thing you have to do at this time is to cut off the connection between you two. Men will miss you a little when they see that you don't contact him.
Second, learn to invest in yourself: woman, you must understand and remember one sentence: If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come! Only by learning to invest in yourself will men look at you with new eyes and be attracted to you. Men are rational animals and will never refuse beautiful girls, and some intellectual women will never refuse such boys. Therefore, when girls change their external situation, they must learn to improve their connotation.
You also have a good introduction on how to deal with men's neglect, but it depends on whether you understand or not. Many girls will be left out by the other half. If this happens, there must be some treatment at this time. You can't do nothing After a long time, there will be some barriers. Two people don't know how to care about each other or how to greet each other.
This is not good. If you are left out, you should deal with it in a cold way. Slowly, the two will be the same as before. There's a reason to ignore the other side. If we find out the reason, it will be solved soon. If you solve it together, you will solve all the difficulties one by one. In fact, it is not easy to form a family and it is not worth it.
The trick to dealing with playboy
Beat the tiger around the mountain-warning the relevant personnel by making a move
Taurus male, even if "having an affair", is also a man-show playboy, ruthless and fearless. They will secretly look at their new dream lover, flirt with her in their minds and date her, but if they really want to do something, they dare not mess around. For Taurus, the so-called marriage (love) is the most enjoyable thing, and there is nothing to steal.
At this time, as long as you show up at the right time and cough, it means that you have noticed his inner thoughts, and Taurus will immediately fade away, just like a student caught cheating, dumbfounded!
Taurus people are very demanding of beautiful things. As the girlfriend of a Taurus man, you should always pay attention to your image. When they cheat, you should not only pay attention to him, but also pay attention to dressing yourself. It's best to change styles frequently, give him a fresh feeling every date and satisfy his pursuit of new things. So he will look forward to seeing you again, looking forward to another date with you every day, paying attention to you, and he will gradually lose interest in other women, and you will succeed.
The emotional death point of Taurus men
The days are getting poorer every day.
When a Taurus man finds that his living standard is declining, he has left the well-off society and is close to food and clothing, maybe the red light of love will light up. What's more, if this Taurus is still a little woman with no improvement in her career, then this Taurus will definitely go crazy.
He will continue to find fault with this woman. Although the cow is naturally unwilling to break up, under the temptation of money, he will definitely paralyze his love and hang a red light for a "well-off" life.
Don't always talk about your ex in front of me.
Taurus men have a strong self-esteem, and girls who don't like to date with them keep taking up their posts in advance. Because it will not only hurt their face (why do you always bring up old feelings when you date me? ), it will make the sensitive Taurus man wonder if this woman is still obsessed with her old love and has no sincerity to develop a lover relationship with herself, otherwise she will not be stupid enough not to know who she is dating at present, so she should know more about who she is dating. It's stupid to always hurt each other with early appointments and love stories!
Avoid impulsive behavior most.
Taurus, who values the law, will feel uncontrollable and insecure if something is not planned. Free-wheeling girls will not be surprised, but will only feel full of uncertainty and don't like this uneasy feeling.
Have money
If you have no money in your pocket, you will panic. He likes to smell money and then sleep with it. Tickets must be close at hand, and his wife should understand. Business should be negotiated, funds should be turned over, and things to be bought should be paid by credit card. A man can give money to a woman, but he can't ask her for it. This is a question of subjective inferiority. He doesn't want his wife to be a greedy pickpocket, a black-hearted mother's night and a family vault. Of course, he must be the housekeeper. Never use the passbook password to test how much he loves you. That kind of "confession" can only be heard under hypnosis or in his last words.
The best way to deal with Taurus men How to deal with Taurus boys?
Pretend to ignore him
Taurus is a bit poisonous. Their poisonous tongue is not to stimulate their girlfriends, but Taurus men tell the "truth" that their girlfriends can't refute, especially when they think that their girlfriends are wasting money or finances and want to stop their girlfriends from spending money indiscriminately, they will adjust their girlfriends like this, which will make their girlfriends a little angry.
Fighting with Taurus can only be the second best to reverse the trend. Pretending not to care about what he said, he also expressed considerable recognition for his very "correct" words. Or you can just leave him alone. He will come to you when he is angry.
Take him for a foot massage.
If you treat Taurus like a cow, you are wrong. They are definitely not people who can easily give in and be cattle and horses. Taurus is basically a man's show, and the expression of lust is coveted, colored and ruthless. At this time, a rounded body, a slow touch (physical touch must be indispensable) and a gentle voice can make them devote themselves wholeheartedly. Taurus is naturally sensitive to the body. If it's not easy at first, take him for a foot massage-many Taurus have skin hunger!
Ask him for help and praise him.
If you chase Taurus, you can ask him to help repair all kinds of things and ask him all kinds of questions. Praise him more and say that you really don't know what to do without him in your life. After several times, you can invite him to dinner to express your thanks, ask him if he has a girlfriend, and hint at him in many ways, and he will be ignited by you!
The most patient people in the cold war, make trouble for them, and they will come to you.
Taurus men are typical of male chauvinism. If we don't pay attention to some methods, it will be difficult to end the cold war with them and win with them.
However, although Taurus is the most resistant, this is an advantage, but in their hearts, they will actually care about you, so you have to make some trouble to make them care about you and put down their airs. So you can't compare the strength of Taurus in the cold war, you are more intelligent. However, you can use your tricks at will. It's no problem for them to find out later, because such things as the cold war originally only need a simple reason.
Cultivate one's life sentiment
The stubborn Taurus man is actually very gentle in his bones. If you want to control your Taurus lover, you must first cultivate your own lifestyle. The more elegant your taste in life is, the more destructive it will be to Taurus men, who will think you are special. Once a Taurus boy obediently gives you his heart, you can show him your housekeeping skills, because Taurus boys like girls who can keep house very much.
Show maturity and stability
Bring out your mature and steady side, help him analyze his financial situation, what kind of investment is suitable for him, make plans for his future, and take good care of his diet and daily life. In short, he must be omnipotent, which will make him more tempted.
Taurus likes a stable and capable woman, not everything depends on her little girl, but be careful, you can't be too strong. You should be capable, but you worship him, listen to him and satisfy his male chauvinism, because Taurus is very traditional and conservative and can't accept women who are better than men.
Gourmet killer
Don't say food has nothing to do with sex. Taurus's sexual concept is closely related to food. Taurus man's belly has nothing to do with his sexual desire, but Taurus men like virtuous little women. After a hearty meal, perhaps your ambiguous eyes have aroused the inner fire of Taurus men.
Emotionally, Taurus is very masculine, but sexually, Taurus is well-deserved and lasting! Looks like you need to get ready!