Everyone thought that she would say this when she was young in her twenties, but I didn't expect Carina Lau to say this now.
The present work, living conditions and world relations all make her feel more comfortable and confident than before, and she doesn't want to feel helpless when she was young.
Carina Lau is undoubtedly a successful woman. So when she said that she likes herself now, she said it as a successful person, so no one would question it, which is convincing.
However, if a woman is in her fifties, with frequent physical illnesses, poor memory, flabby skin and, most importantly, nothing, she says she likes herself better now, who will believe her?
Because at that time, I didn't have the capital to make myself proud. I didn't lay a good foundation when I was young. At that time, most people would only sigh that they were not as young as they were. Now that people are old, they are useless.
30 years old is a watershed. When I was young, I was free and casual. The days when I was supported by my parents are gone forever. After 30, you are on your own.
Women after the age of 30 should not be trapped in the circle of getting married and having children, but should know how to invest in themselves. Take care of yourself before you can be a good wife and mother.
What should a woman do when she is over 30?
Read and study.
Knowledge is the best preservative. I am poetic, I have read too many books, and the breeze comes naturally.
Lin, who is married to Liang Sicheng, is not rich at home. She is not only engaged in the research of architectural science, but also studies hard and tries to create literature in her spare time. He has created many well-known works, such as You are April Day on Earth, Lotus Lantern, Ninety-nine Degree Middle School and so on.
Even though she was displaced during the War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression period, she did not stop studying and making progress, but still insisted on reading and writing.
Lin, full of poetry and knowledge, is elegant and beautiful despite his illness in his later years.
Fitness.
Fitness and reading are the lowest cost investments in the world. Fitness is the most effective way to resist time corruption.
Last year, 50-year-old Aunt Ye Wen from Henan became a hot topic in the circle of friends. This year, another one came.
Under the influence of her son, 50-year-old Lu Li began to exercise. After half a year's systematic training, she won the championship in the master group of bodybuilding competition. Nowadays, when she goes out with her 26-year-old son, she is often mistaken for a brother and sister, or even a couple.
Some time ago, the photos of the 70-year-old grandmother's fitness spread all over the circle of friends, and a pair of "comic legs" made people envious. Who can say that she is 70 years old without looking at that white hair?
Fitness is the only thing in the world with a return rate of 100%, which is absolutely fair. The coolest thing is to show your muscles in your fifties and sixties.
Cultivate a skill.
Skills here refer to the capital that you can be proud of outside of work. Or, be a slash youth.
Outside of work, cultivate an interest and make it a specialty. It can be photography, writing, and hobbies in any field.
Sometimes, if you are interested in planting flowers, but not willows, maybe sticking to a hobby today will become an unexpected surprise tomorrow.
Zhao Xing, a young writer, insisted on writing 150 every day after work for ten years, and eventually became a million-selling author. Now she has turned into a professional writer. Without ten years of uninterrupted persistence, she is still the little white-collar worker who works in an office building in obscurity.
The world is changeable. If you can, please cultivate one more core competitiveness.
Women after the age of 30 strive to cultivate themselves. When I am 50 years old, I can confidently say: I like myself now.