Why did Zhang Yimou divorce for Gong Li and Xiao Hua? What happened between Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou? How is Xiaohua today?
There are many old stories, and everything has to start from the beginning.
The origin of the 400-page confession letter and bloody book was known by Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua when they were in the second day of school. At that time, Xiaohua's parents worked in Xi 'an, and Xiaohua was transferred from Beijing to Xi 'an, and became classmates with Zhang Yimou.
On campus, Zhang Yimou is a master of painting, and it happens that Xiaohua can also paint. As a result of painting, the two became friends. At that time, Zhang Yimou asked the teacher to change his position in order to chat with Xiao Hua more conveniently. When a boy bullied Xiao Hua, skinny Zhang Yimou was in charge. Even he quietly followed Xiaohua, knew her home address, and then sent a letter to Xiaohua.
The relationship between Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua improved gradually after the educated youth went to the countryside to exercise. He invited Obana to queue up in the countryside. Zhang Yimou wrote a letter to Xiao Hua, in which he wrote: "Because of my family composition, I have been living with no confidence and being cautious. The pain in my heart can't be expressed with a pen! I look forward to your understanding and friendship for all this. ..... is my ability to work, and I firmly believe that I will make great achievements in the future! If I can get married one day, I sincerely hope that you can enjoy this success with me! " After reading this letter, Xiao Hua chose Zhang Yimou who believed firmly, and she followed him to the grassroots. They were sent to the rural areas of Ganxian County, Shaanxi Province to queue up for the workers.
In the countryside, they defined their love relationship. They cook, study and farm together, and their lives are generally warm.
At that time, Xiaohua's relatives would send her ten yuan of living expenses every month, and Xiaohua basically spent it on Zhang Yimou. And Zhang Yimou also cherishes Xiao Hua. At that time, as long as someone dared to gossip about Xiao Hua, Zhang Yimou must have rushed over and beat each other up, whether he could win or not.
After the queue, Zhang Yimou went to work in Shaanxi Cotton No.8 Factory, and Xiaohua went to another processing factory 25 kilometers away. Zhang Yimou and Sheldon silver have to walk for five hours to meet.
For young Zhang Yimou and Xiaohua, a five-hour interval is not a problem. Xiao Hua often goes to Zhang Yimou's house to wash clothes and cook for Zhang Yimou. Xiao Hua was chosen to be with Zhang Yimou, whose family composition is not very good. Xiaohua's father resisted at that time, but Xiaohua was already dead and wanted to talk to Zhang Yimou. Dad was very helpless at last, only expecting Zhang Yimou not to disappoint his daughter.
With Xiao Hua at that time, Zhang Yimou was either very serious. On Xiaohua's birthday, he spent a year's savings to make a photo album. The photo album is full of photos of Xiaohua from childhood to adulthood, and also made commemorative stamps by hand. He not only sent photo album pictures and bloody books, but also stuffed three pieces of paper, which made Xiaohua very moved and made her more determined to be with Zhang Yimou.
There is a very interesting theme song. At that time, because Xiaohua was good-looking, other boys pursued the perfect Xiaohua. Zhang Yimou knew this, and he was scared silly. He is afraid that Xiaohua will be taken away by other boys. In order to better "retain" Xiaohua's heart, he wrote a confession letter of more than 40 pieces to Xiaohua, which moved Xiaohua to cry, and Xiaohua had already rejected friends of the opposite sex.
From Love to Marriage Although Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua had a good relationship at that time, Zhang Yimou was frustrated at work. Because of his poor family composition, he was not highly valued in Shaanxi Cotton No.8 Factory, and he failed to gain a foothold in applying for joining the League for seven consecutive years.
Zhang Yimou, who has been striving for perfection in her work for a long time, turned her attention to shooting. He has read many books about shooting and copied more than a dozen books in his notebook. Xiaohua managed to get many shooting books. When he had a colorful basic theory of shooting, Zhang Yimou especially wanted to buy a camera. But the camera was too expensive, which was a very big expense for Zhang Yimou and Xiaohua at that time. But in order to make better use of Zhang Yimou, Xiao Hua gave all his money to Zhang Yimou, while Zhang Yimou took out his three-year savings and added his blood money to buy a camera.
I have to admit that Zhang Yimou is really talented in photography, and his photography works are often praised by friends.
It was also during this period that Xiao Hua came to a crossroads in his life. Because of her good family composition, 1975, Xiaohua was strongly recommended to study in Shanghai Jiaotong University, so she didn't have to take the college entrance examination this year. In view of such an opportunity to improve himself, Xiao Hua gave up. The reason for giving up is to keep the relationship with Zhang Yimou better. At that time, Zhang Yimou told her: "You and your college classmates will change slowly without saying anything, and then you will have the same topic and then dislike me." Zhang Yimou said frankly that if Xiaohua went to college, her family's contact would be over.
Interestingly, two years later, China abolished the rules and regulations strongly recommended by universities and reconstructed the reform plan of the college entrance examination, but Zhang Yimou himself wanted to take the college entrance examination. In view of Zhang Yimou's participation in the college entrance examination, Xiao Hua is fully supportive, because she knows that boyfriends are not things in the pool. As long as they are given time, she will eventually get married.
But at that time, Zhang Yimou was 27 years old, and he was very old, beyond the age line of colleges and universities. Dealing with such a difficult point, Xiao Hua is trying to deal with it for Zhang Yimou. Finally, with the help of his cousin Wang Dihuan, Xiao Hua gave Zhang Yimou's photos and some raw materials to Huang Zhen, former Minister of Culture. After reading Zhang Yimou's works, Huang Zhen felt that he was an excellent talent, so he sent a letter to let Beiying hire Zhang Yimou. But at that time, Beiying was also very confident, but it was not hired. It was not until Huang Zhen's second letter that Zhang Yimou successfully entered the study and training of Beiying.
Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua also got married before Zhang Yimou went to Beijing Film Academy for training.
Zhang Yimou didn't waste time in Beiying and missed a good opportunity! He eagerly studied and trained, while Xiaohua took care of everything at home in Xi 'an, which made Zhang Yimou have no worries. She also became a woman who silently contributed to her family behind Zhang Yimou.
Zhang Yimou is also ambitious. After graduation, he became a cameraman for the film One and Eight, won the excellent cameraman award for domestic films, acted in the film Old Well, and won the title of best actor in Golden Horse. For Zhang Yimou's exam results, Xiao Hua was very happy. She knew that she had not misjudged the wrong person.
But because the work is getting better and better, Zhang Yimou is getting busier and busier, and he goes home less and less. Once when he came home, he saw all the letters Xiaohua wrote to her at that time. He said to her, "Burn them all. They are an old couple. Why are you still watching this? " We are all so busy now. When you have time, you will be old and not in the mood to watch. Besides, it's not easy for everyone to get divorced. "
Xiao Hua felt that Zhang Yimou was right, so he burned some letters and left some. It's just that he never imagined that the man who told himself that divorce was not easy actually cheated.
Zhang Yimou announced her divorce after an affair. Xiao Hua found out that Zhang Yimou was having an affair. That was after Zhang Yimou filmed the film Red Sorghum starring Jiang Wen director Gong Li. One day, Zhang Yimou returned to Xi 'an, chatted with Xiao Hua at home and went out. Xiaohua washes Zhang Yimou's sheets as usual. As a result, she found a letter in Zhang Yimou's clothes and trousers bag. Xiaohua opened the letter and wrote, "When you left, you took my heart with you." "I think if people want to be complacent, they should bravely realize their own life values and feelings, and you should also get happiness and feelings. Want to get married, look forward to a response. I hope God will give me happiness ... The way you have been in my arms is very pleasing. In a few days, everyone can be together again. We have endless words and endless things to do together. " Signed at the end of the letter: Gong Li.
After reading this letter, Xiaohua is going crazy. She couldn't believe that Zhang Yimou would do such a thing, but the objective facts were in front of her, and Xiao Hua had to deal with them. She tried to adjust her mood, put the letter back and pretended not to know anything, thinking that Zhang Yimou was probably just a mystery.
But this wishful thinking of Xiao Hua alone, Zhang Yimou came home from work and found the letter in a passive impression. He knew Xiaohua had read the letter, and when two people had dinner together in the evening, Zhang Yimou made it clear to Xiaohua that he and Gong Li were in love. He expected that Xiao Hua didn't need to spread this story, because he was in the period of work development. If such a thing was known, it would ruin him and Gong Li. To Xiao Hua's great amusement, Gong Li had a boyfriend at that time.
In order to better develop the future of Zhang Yimou's works, Xiao Hua chose Will You Miss Me? But he was either hurt by Zhang Yimou. One day, Zhang Yimou suddenly went home and questioned Xiaohua. Zhang Yimou doubted what she said to Gong Li's boyfriend, so that Gong Li's boyfriend hit Gong Li, while Xiao Hua didn't know Gong Li's boyfriend at all.
During that time, Zhang Yimou was very old because of emotional affairs, but Xiao Hua, who loved Zhang Yimou deeply, was heartbroken. She also advised him: "Go to bed early and don't break down."
Even if Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou knew each other so well, Zhang Yimou must have filed for divorce. Xiao Hua cried and said to Zhang Yimou, "You are 38 years old, because I am 37 years old. It's not easy to be together, don't be so rashly separated. " However, Zhang Yimou is determined to get a divorce. He said, "I know people will call me Chen Shimei, but I don't live for others. I want to live my daily life. " He also told Xiaohua that if she didn't look back, he would leave his hometown and live in the world.
Knowing that Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua divorced, Zhang Yimou's father found Zhang Yimou, knelt before him and begged him not to divorce Xiao Hua, but to no avail. After that, Zhang Yimou's father went to Beijing to find Gong Li, hoping that they could stop contact as soon as possible, but it was still not possible. At that time, it was suggested that Xiaohua go to Gong Li and let her betray her relatives. However, fully considering the future of Zhang Yimou's work, Xiao Hua still didn't do that.
Xiaohua really wanted a divorce because she received a phone call from her boyfriend in Gong Li. Gong Li's boyfriend told her that he had asked Zhang Yimou that Xiaohua was not good enough. Zhang Yimou said that his marriage with Xiao Hua was a misunderstanding in line.
They deeply hurt Xiao Hua's heart in Zhang Yimou. She didn't expect that she and Zhang Yimou had been together for more than 20 years, but it was a misunderstanding in Zhang Yimou's heart.
1988, Zhang Yimou and Xiaohua announced their divorce, and their daughter Zhang Mo lived with her mother Xiaohua.
Don't marry Gong Li, marry Chen Ting who is 3 1 year younger than you. After Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua divorced, they were very kind to their daughter Zhang Mo and attached great importance to her culture and education. As everyone knows, this does not mean that divorce hurts Xiaohua. At that time, Xiao Hua thought Zhang Yimou would go home. Sometimes shopping, she will continue to subconsciously buy clothes, shoes and daily necessities for Zhang Yimou. But when she got home, she found that Zhang Yimou had left her.
Zhang Yimou's parents were very sad to see Xiaohua in such pain. In their view, Xiaohua is a good wife. Zhang Yimou's mother said to Xiao Hua, "Son, although you are not lovers, everyone is still a family. If you like, everyone will treat you as their own daughter." Hearing this, Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou's mother burst into tears.
Interestingly, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua divorced for Gong Li's sake, but Zhang Yimou didn't marry Gong Li. After Zhang Yimou's divorce, Gong Li mentioned marriage to Zhang Yimou several times, but Zhang Yimou was indifferent. Later, Gong Li's own brother pretended to chat with Zhang Yimou and asked him why he didn't marry Gong Li. Zhang Yimou responded that married life is just a piece of paper.
Zhang Yimou's words hurt Gong Li's heart. She knew that it was not easy for Zhang Yimou to marry her. They broke up and ended their relationship for eight years.
Knowing that Zhang Yimou and Gong Li broke up, Xiao Hua was not cynical. When Zhang Yimou looked at Zhang Mo, she said to Zhang Yimou, "My daughter is very dependent on you and always expects to have a complete fatherly love and maternal love." In fact, she has tolerated Zhang Yimou. If Zhang Yimou wants to go back, she wants to accept him again, but Zhang Yimou doesn't want to go back.
Xiao Hua gave up Zhang Yimou completely on 200 1. This year, Xiao Hua visited Zhang Yimou's mother. Zhang Yimou's mother told her that Zhang Yimou had a family and children. She expects Xiaohua to get married as soon as she meets the right person, so there is no need to expect anything from Zhang Yimou. At that time, no one expected that Zhang Yimou, who left Xiao Hua and didn't marry Gong Li, had quietly given birth to three children with a girl named Chen Ting who was 3 1 year younger than herself, and didn't apply for registration until 20 1 1 to marry Chen Ting. When we knew the existence of Chen Ting, we all said that Chen Ting, like Xiao Hua, was a woman who had made selfless contributions behind Zhang Yimou.
When Zhang Yimou and Chen Ting were together, Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou met only a handful of times, but Xiao Hua did not resist Zhang Mo and Zhang Yimou studying and training together. She said to Zhang Mo, "Your father is very talented. You can learn a lot from him."
20 13 years 10 months, 13, Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou had a rare meeting, and this was because of Zhang Mo's marriage. On this day, at the wedding scene, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua had a friendly and quiet play, but Zhang Mo was crying when he saw this scene.
Today, Xiaohua has no second marriage, lives in a community in Beijing and leads a simple daily life. All the love and hate before were swallowed up by the river of time. Among them, right and wrong are judged by later generations.