Wen Yi Jun Jun

Frankly speaking, when I first started watching the American TV series "Our Days", my feelings were different from the rave reviews on the Internet.

This play has been really popular recently. Many people say that it is not only a bowl of delicious chicken soup that everyone is willing to drink, but also "tastes very realistic". But what I began to see in that play was that among the protagonists, the father loved his wife and cared for his family, the mother was beautiful and virtuous, the children loved each other, and even a fat gentleman who was killed halfway was optimistic, generous and powerful. The love in the play is always sincere and reliable, the husband and wife are always respectful, and the parent-child relationship is always wise and harmonious.

In short, it is extremely satisfying that chicken soup is served by some people. It may be really touching, but I don't agree with "close to reality"-at least when I watched the previous episodes.

Almost half of people's hardships and entanglements in life come from deep or shallow friction and collision with people around them. Why is everyone so "full of love"?

It was not until the last episode of the first season, when the unexpected reversal was completely staged, that I really realized that this life drama, which was just released on 20 16, created the highest viewing record of NBC on Tuesday night in ten years, with 50,000 people participating in the evaluation, with a score of 9.5.

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Jack, the "perfect" husband and father, is not so perfect. He also has the trouble of being born in a family. He also has a criminal record of gambling and even trying to steal. He is also excessively jealous and controlling. The worst thing is that he can't stop drinking.

Mother Rebecca loves her husband and three children who have caused her countless troubles. But in fact, she was also afraid of the arrival of children before, and even hated the identity of housewives. She kept it from her biological father for 36 years.

Rand, the adopted black brother, was trapped in the complex identity of being black and being adopted, the self-cognition obstacle caused by the middle-aged crisis, the unsatisfactory work, the family responsibilities, and the pressure brought by his dying biological father who finally met him, all of which made him collapse and become blind.

The love in the play is not always intimate and sincere, they are also half fire and half ice, one sweet and one salty. Warm, sweet and greasy mixed with sharpness and crisis.

The characters in the play are really like us. No matter what kind of life they end up living, the process is uncomfortable.

For example, the lonely feeling of being left out by the glamorous brother Kevin even made him lose the ability to love others. Kevin, the glamorous younger brother in the play, has a beautiful appearance, a perfect figure and an actor career. Often two or three years later, a beautiful woman wakes up comfortably from the big white soft bed in front of the French window in the early morning sunshine.

He loves his father the most among the three children, but he cares least about his father among the three children.

He almost drowned in the swimming pool when he was a child. He waved his arms, hoping that his parents would save him. But, after all, there is nothing but struggling to save yourself. When he finally came out of the water, he was shocked and looked at the world around him. His father is comforting Kate, who is laughed at by other girls because she is fat. His mother is learning how to take care of Rand from other black mothers. Nobody noticed him. The moment of suffocation just now began to become a little dreamy in his mind, but his breath was still breathing, but his heart beat was still accelerating.

Another example is the inferiority complex of my sister Kate who is marginalized because she is too fat. The man who pursues Kate is really a "good man" that many girls can't come for a long time. He is optimistic, humorous, intelligent and deeply in love with Kate. On the road of "discovering the beauty of your girlfriend and trying your best to show her beauty", people are full of tricks, sincere and touching, and even propose marriage according to the rules.

But Kate, who loves this man, is unwilling to respond to his love. Kate has never lost weight in her first half of her life, from chubby to big, and has been laughed at since she was a child. In the gym, next to your treadmill, there will always be girls walking around their hips with a waist circumference of 60, which is the painful feeling that fat people feel heartbroken at a glance. So the perfect body is just around the corner, but it will never grow on itself; In the weight-loss class, I heard a girl of/kloc-0.05kg crying in front of the mirror and saying that the meat on her waist was horrible. Anger in her throat can tear her daughter to pieces.

We laugh even at the theatre. We feel it because of the sound of * * *, and the sound of * * * feels it because we all have the same taste this day.

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It always seems like this, there is always something, there is always something wrong. In the past, no matter whether it was hot in summer or cold in winter, I had to get up at seven in the morning to squeeze the subway to work. At that time, my old dream was not just to wait for the weekend, but to sleep in the morning and wake up naturally, and I was not afraid of unemployment. Who knows that I really got off work and had the freedom to wake up naturally, but I miscalculated the time to wake up naturally. I still get up at seven or eight in the morning and sit at home for six or seven days a day. Except for opening the door to take takeout, it seems that the air outside can't smell a bite.

I was tired of dealing with people before, but now I just want to deal with people.

From fatigue and anxiety before to depression now. Life has become what I expected before, but I lack the happiness and fun I thought was good.

Suoxing's illness of "how to live is uncomfortable" is not limited to you and me, or a few dramatic characters in the script. We are all like this. People are like this. They hated getting married in 2078 and regretted getting married in 3056. Worry about money when you are poor, and want to be happy when you are rich. ......

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In the play, Kevin once told Rand's two little daughters about life with a picture: "We are all one. Even if a person dies, it doesn't mean that there is no place for them in the painting. Without death, without you or me, or them, we are all one. There is no beginning and no end. This painting, this is us. "

Everyone is stained with other people's colors.

Sterling K. Brown, who plays Rand, said: "This drama tells everyone that there are some things that everyone will experience, and some things that we have done with others. When you find that you are not alone, you will get great comfort. "

Those who don't know how to enjoy life can't see the flash of life, and those who don't know how to enjoy life are poor. Regardless of the conditions and environment, anxiety and depression have always been the most tormenting core. The bitterness of life is really obvious, but fortunately, this world has never been a person's world, and life has never been a person's life. There are countless ties and connections between people, * * happy, * * sad.

De Botton said in The Anxiety of Identity: Once we fully understand the superficiality and emptiness of others' thoughts, the narrowness of others' views, the triviality and boredom of others' feelings, the absurdity of others' thoughts and the impossibility of preventing others from making mistakes, we will gradually become indifferent to all activities in others' brains.

To others, we are also "others". In fact, as long as we want to understand that everyone is unhappy, we can regain our courage to fight against life.