1. Solemn greetings
Chatting with the blind date, the first sentence has no special content, you can briefly introduce yourself and your basic situation. I hope that through easy chat, the other party will be willing to chat with you, and then slowly let the other party have no sense of distance from you.
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2. Describe the link point
When I first joined the girls, the two sides were still in a completely strange state. At this time, you can quickly break the ice by describing the connection points between the two sides.
"I was introduced by XXX, and I feel that you have a lot of temperament. You can communicate and be friends. "
"I am your colleague, and people in the XX department can exchange and study together."
"We met in XX, remember me?"
3. Find a topic from a circle of friends
People are always most concerned about themselves, and the response rate of talking about girls is also the highest. You can find a topic through the circle of girls' friends, but if you expand with the trend, you don't have to worry about chatting.
"You also travel to XXX, the scenery is good, and the monkeys on the mountain are also very skinned."
"So you are also a foodie. It seems that we have something to talk about. "
"Look at the circle of friends, it should be busy with exams and playing such important things, but it can't be delayed by study."
4. Expression opening, simple opening
An expression and a hi are the simplest opening remarks, which do not provide any topic or value in themselves. But it can test the real interest of girls. Girls who are willing to chat with you are naturally willing to reply to you.
This way of opening is suitable for people who are already familiar with girls or have been chatting for a while.
express oneself
Only simple hello, no new meaning. By expressing your own state, you can attract the attention of the other party. For example, "I just got out of the gym and I'm in a good mood. Do you like fitness? " "Just after dinner, diced Chili chicken is delicious. Do you like spicy food? "
The above is an analysis of how blind date started chatting with girls for the first time. Just be sincere when chatting with girls on blind dates.