High-volume square dance has now become a public hazard, and it is not urgent for a child to take the senior high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination. Why do you have to turn up the volume when dancing square dance? What should I do if a child in your family is admitted?
It is not good to disrespect the elderly!
Seeing this, I also feel wronged for Teacher Shi. The child is going to take the senior high school entrance examination, and the family hopes that the child can have a quiet environment. However, I don't advocate smashing the stereo to solve the problem. This will only intensify contradictions.
The place where the aunts dance is in the open space of a community opposite Teacher Shi. Aunties dance here every day with a loud voice. My son will leave school at 8 when he is studying. When he goes home, he will listen to the music of the square dance aunts, and there is no way to calm down and study. In desperation, I took my son to find my aunts.
Mr. Shi said that the residential property doesn't care about this, because the property also dances square dance here, and it is impossible to help him coordinate. Afterwards, Mr. Shi compensated his aunt 400 yuan for the stereo money, and the aunts had to stop dancing after 8: 30.
My opinion is:
1. Don't deal with problems when you are angry or impulsive.
There are candidates at home and everyone wants a quiet environment. This kind of mood is very understandable. It is no problem to communicate with my aunt, but Mr. Shi didn't control his emotions at that time, which led to a fierce conflict with my aunt. So my aunt threatened to continue dancing.
This is actually an emotional problem. When people have anger, it is emotion that dominates things, and this time can't solve the problem. Only when people calm down and come to their senses can the problem be solved. So people often say: deal with emotions first, then deal with problems. When people are angry, don't rush to deal with problems.
Aunt should also consider others.
In foreign countries, an aunt danced square dance in the square, which was considered by the police as a nuisance. Now many aunts are dancing square dance in the square, and the sound of the speakers is very loud. To tell you the truth, I sometimes feel uncomfortable. Aunt's square dance fitness was originally a good fitness activity. But if the noise is too loud, it will not affect others. After all, this square is not his own. This is a public place. Everyone should be considerate of each other and not disturb the people. Some people want a quiet environment.
When you dance, you don't have to turn it up to the maximum, just turn it down. In Chongqing, some aunts dance square dance with headphones. Each of them has a receiver, and the music is transmitted directly to the earphone without affecting others. They can think of others, and this behavior has been recognized by many people.
Can other overweight take this into account when dancing square dance? Only mutual understanding can reduce some contradictions.
The music noise of square dance should be classified as environmental pollution. It is understandable for the elderly to exercise, but their health benefits at the same time they infringe on the rights and interests of others. Moreover, some elderly people are unreasonable and go their own way, which has brought considerable intrusion to students, bedridden patients, freelance creators and other people in the community and should attract the attention of relevant departments.
In the square dance, it is illegal to smash the old people who are determined not to cooperate, but it is suspected of damaging public and private property. It is best to regulate it through the coordination between the property and the grass-roots government and citing relevant laws and regulations.
Set time, limit duration and other solutions to avoid the rest time of most residents; It is also a stopgap measure to let dancers wear headphones.
Once the regulations are promulgated, those who refuse to agree with the author will be resolutely banned.
Excuse me, ladies dancing in the square dance. Some of your family members are involved in this scam. Do you have the heart to do this to him? Chinese uncles shoot birds and Chinese aunts dance square dances, which is almost a derogatory term now. Although Mr. Tan and his son have gone too far, they are excusable.
Deliberately score loudly and support being directly smashed!
Then the police negotiated and compensated her. You fought and lost, but you ~
It should be smashed! There are candidates at home, and it is not a day or two to be disturbed by the noise of square dance during the preparation. Now that the big exam is coming, people are not allowed to review well. It is reported that Mr. Shi's family in Xiangtan, Hunan Province had previously communicated with the square dance aunt on acoustic noise, but this group of aunts completely ignored public demands. I think dancing is my right, and others can't do anything to them.
In my opinion, the community is not a place for square dancing at all, and the residents in the community are tired of being disturbed by noise for a long time, but no one wants to stand up and be a bad person. This time, Mr. Shi's family smashed the stereo of the square dance aunts, and the residents of the community were overjoyed. Mr. Shi and his father did a great thing.
Aunties have the right to dance, but dancing in the community is absolutely inappropriate. In the early years, it was reported that an aunt in a certain community danced square dance and was thrown away by residents in the community. Therefore, in recent years, most communities have no aunts to dance, and they dare not dance in the yard of the community. Most of these people went dancing in the park. It shows that it is indeed a problem to dance square dance in the community to disturb the people. Not only disturbing the people, but also the public area of the community is so large that it is occupied by the square dance aunts, and other residents have no place to waste.
In fact, as a new culture in recent years, square dance is not only a good fitness project, but also a symbolic folk culture. There is nothing wrong with the square dance itself, but a department needs to make special regulations on where to choose to dance, when to dance, and in what range the sound of the sound should be controlled.
However, if the aunts can improve their self-awareness, try not to disturb the people and occupy land, and entertain themselves at the right decibel at the right time, it is estimated that there will be no such regret as being thrown dung and smashed.
Any right to freedom of behavior is bound by law and morality. The aunts who smashed the stereo this time just didn't take into account the norms of social morality. While meeting their own needs, they touched the legitimate and reasonable rest rights of others.
Thank you very much for your invitation.
With the improvement of people's living standards, amateur entertainment activities are also enriched. I wonder when the square dance started. It is very beneficial for middle-aged and elderly people to dance square dance, which not only exercises the body but also delights the body and mind. It is a very good way of exercise and entertainment.
But at the same time, it also brings many problems, such as the competition between aunts and young men for the basketball court, such as the noise disturbing the people.
In the middle school entrance examination for male students, the noisy square dance downstairs is a typical square dance noise disturbing the people. The act of father and son smashing the noise maker's stereo in the square dance is really refreshing, which can be regarded as making some noise and successfully attracting everyone's attention. It may be solved with the help of public opinion, but the contradiction between the two sides has not eased, but has intensified.
So I don't agree with the behavior of this father and son. This impulsive behavior can easily lead to vicious incidents such as affrays and casualties. Fortunately, it just smashed the stereo here, which didn't cause much vicious consequences.
I think it is better to solve the problem of square dance noise disturbing the people through formal channels. You can communicate first, negotiate from the perspective of emotion and reason, and ask the dancers to turn down the volume or change venues.
If you can't communicate within reason, you can complain to the neighborhood Committee or the environmental protection bureau, urban management bureau and other relevant departments.
If it is really not possible, you can bring a lawsuit to the court. The relevant legal basis can refer to the relevant provisions of the Law on the Prevention and Control of Environmental Noise Pollution and the Law on Public Security Administration Punishment. For example, on May 5, 20 19, five square dance organizers near a hospital in Anhui received the first ticket for disturbing people by square dance in China, because the noise of square dance affected the recuperation of hospital patients.
Therefore, when the communication is not smooth after disturbing the people as in the case, it is unwise to complain to the relevant departments and smash the dancer's stereo by itself, which not only compensates the other party's losses, but also increases the trouble of the candidates. As grandfathers and grandmothers who dance in the square dance, they also have children and grandchildren, hoping to put themselves in their shoes, think more about tired office workers, think more about students who work hard for their future, and dance away from residential areas. This is to respect others and to respect yourself. Not being old has earned a reputation for not respecting the elderly.
Attachment: The Law on the Prevention and Control of Environmental Noise Pollution stipulates that it is forbidden for any unit or individual to use high-pitched loudspeakers in areas where noise-sensitive buildings are concentrated in urban areas. Organizing entertainment, assembly and other activities in urban streets, squares, parks and other public places, as well as using audio equipment that may produce excessive volume that may interfere with the surrounding living environment, must abide by the provisions of the local public security organs.
The Law on Public Security Administration Punishment stipulates that anyone who violates the legal provisions on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life and creates noise to interfere with the normal life of others shall be given a warning; If no correction is made after warning, a fine ranging from 200 yuan to 500 yuan shall be imposed. Moreover, according to the regulations of public security organs in handling such cases, tools for committing crimes, such as audio equipment, can be confiscated.
The senior high school entrance examination is coming, so it is really important to provide a good learning environment for children. But now only in some communities, people feel uneasy, just like Mr. Tan's family in Hunan. His son will take the senior high school entrance examination in the third grade, but the noise of dancing square dance downstairs every day is really unbearable. As a result, these aunts are not only unsympathetic, but also completely ignore the demands of Mr. Tan and his son.
These unreasonable aunts finally angered Mr. Tan and his son and smashed their stereo. In my opinion, this stereo should really be smashed, because these aunts have made a serious disturbance to the people. After pointing out their wrong behavior, they even ignored it. In the face of an ignorant person, you reason with him, just like a scholar meets a soldier, and you can't tell the reason clearly. Finally, I can only let my aunt know that people who smash stereos are not easy to bully.
The wicked need someone to punish them. No amount of good words will help, because these aunts are old-fashioned. What if such a thing is solved in another way? If Mr. Tan calls the police, is it more rational for the police to handle it? This method is conventional and relatively safer. But from the actual situation, these aunts have been dancing there for four or five years, and the police may not be able to do anything about them.
Mr. Tan and his son smashed the aunts' stereos, and some netizens may hold different opinions and think that they deliberately damaged personal property. But I don't think so. Although the stereo is personal, the noise it makes has a great influence. Not only Mr. Tan's family was seriously affected during the break, but many families were also affected. It's just that everyone really doesn't have the courage to stop this kind of behavior that lacks social morality. In this case, Mr. Tan and his son should be praised.
It is everyone's responsibility to maintain social public order and advocate civilized and healthy leisure activities. It is necessary for these aunts who love square dance to learn some lessons.
Although there is some violence, it is wrong to smash things. But at this moment, I just want to say "good, Japanese".
What happened: Mr. Tan's son in Hunan is now in the third grade, and the senior high school entrance examination is about to take place. He studies hard, but the square dance downstairs is too noisy, which affects the children. During her study, Teacher Shi and her children found the square dance aunt together. Not only did the two sides fail to reach an agreement, but the father and son were also angered and smashed the aunts' stereos.
There are two reasons for this result.
First, aunts don't know how to put themselves in other's shoes. They are too selfish. I believe that every aunt has or has had a senior high school entrance examination/college entrance examination. At present, there are still many only children in the families who take the senior high school entrance examination. Parents pin all their hopes on their children, so it is not difficult to understand the importance of the senior high school entrance examination to every family and child.
It is really inappropriate for aunts to dance square dance downstairs in the community for their own health and comfort, regardless of the influence on others.
The Law on the Prevention and Control of Environmental Noise Pollution stipulates that it is forbidden for any unit or individual to use loudspeakers in areas where noise-sensitive buildings are concentrated in urban areas. Organizing entertainment, assembly and other activities in urban streets, squares, parks and other public places, as well as using audio equipment that may produce excessive volume that may interfere with the surrounding living environment, must abide by the provisions of the local public security organs.
The Law on Public Security Administration Punishment stipulates that anyone who violates the legal provisions on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life and creates noise to interfere with the normal life of others shall be given a warning; If no correction is made after warning, a fine ranging from 200 yuan to 500 yuan shall be imposed. Moreover, according to the regulations of public security organs in handling such cases, tools for committing crimes, such as audio equipment, can be confiscated.
Therefore, it is suggested that aunts do similar exercises and exercise in public places such as parks and squares.
Second, the property and related departments have poor services and poor management. As a property, we should do a good job in the service guarantee of the whole community, and all behaviors that affect the quiet and hygienic environment of the community should be stopped immediately. For example, dancing in the square dance with high volume music, walking the dog without tying the rope and cleaning up the feces. ...
As the relevant department of this city, it should provide convenient entertainment places for the citizens, enrich the life of the elderly, let the middle-aged people have no worries and let the children have a quiet learning environment.
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First of all, both sides are at fault in this matter.
The children are about to take the senior high school entrance examination, and both students and parents will be anxious. At this time, what children need most is a good rest. It is also true that the square dance aunt exercises, but who doesn't have children? The senior high school entrance examination is very important. So as an aunt, you can keep your voice down or change places.
The father and son can understand their feelings, but destroying property is a bit extreme. Do you think if the other party insists on not giving in and buys another stereo, will you smash it again? The purpose is to solve the problem, so we can find a more peaceful way to solve it, such as finding a local neighborhood Committee or police station.
To tell the truth, according to my previous personality, I can not only smash the stereo, but also smash people. But if it is punctured, it will be vented, but if the problem is not solved, it may have unexpected consequences. I am a legal person. In reality, there are too many cases of death and injury because of a little thing. Once, an old man took the elevator, and the contradiction escalated. Finally, one son was sent to prison, and the other son was seriously injured and disabled. Sometimes it's not worth it because of small losses, and it's even less worth it if it affects the children's senior high school entrance examination. What did you say?/Sorry? There are really too many major criminal cases because of small things.
We can't control what others do, but we can decide what we do and manage our emotions.
Only by meeting the needs of both parties can the problem be effectively solved, so if you are calm, you will always find a win-win solution.