I still remember the domestic youth struggle dramas I watched before, such as dwelling in humble abode and ant tribe. At that time, I just felt that youth was bitter, love was helpless, and work was hard.
Recently, a very popular drama "We Can't Be Beasts" comes from Japan, which claims to have the highest suicide rate in the world. Actually, it's not hard to understand. Let you and I, the office workers who are struggling in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, not relax. Some netizens said that "the content is too real and causes discomfort" because it reflects the workplace and life of "social animals" families.
Understand the definition and characteristics of "social animals".
"Social animals" refer to those "employees who work well in the company and are crushed like livestock". Their characteristics are:
People haven't arrived at the company yet, and the work content is very full; The subway during rush hour is so crowded that there is no love; Forced to do all kinds of work that is not within their duties; Modify customer plans in different locations; Clean up the mess for colleagues; Arrive at the company early and get off work late ...
You are in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, you sit on it, which ones?
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For most "drifting north to Beijing" and "drifting south to Guangzhou", if you are thousands of miles away from home and work hard outside, there is food everywhere, and you can't squeeze in. You can also order takeout at any time; The traffic is inconvenient. I take the bus to the subway, and then take the bus. Anyway, I got up earlier than the chicken, and I can step on the company without deducting my salary. However, when you sleep, you can't sleep everywhere.
No matter how busy you are at work every day, you need a nest to put down your body and let your body and mind get a moment's peace.
This nest is one of the rooms rented by office workers. You can't avoid it if you want to. Not the rich second generation, the official second generation, and the second generation, local tyrants have the right to speak. Only the "social animals" who have really rented a house can understand the life and life of renting a house.
From the sneaky intermediary I had to face when I was looking for a house, I asked if it was the real landlord or the N landlord, urging me to pay the rent. Finally, I was driven out of my house by the ferocious "landlord" and asked them to rent the nest to others at a higher price.
Renting a house for a long time, but also putting up with all kinds of weird "roommates". People from all corners of the country are apt to disagree, quarrel and slam the door. Who calls this sharing? If you want money, who needs it? Sharing it is cowardice!
A 90-year-old boy in the company said that he gets up at 6 o'clock every day on time. Everyone thinks this boy is very active. Ask him to get up so early to exercise and study?
International trade in catching the subway in the morning rush hour
He replied that he had to catch the bus when he went to work in the company, and he lived in Tongxian County (Tongzhou District Beijingers called Tongxian County), so he had to catch the bus before 6: 30, or he would be late.
He said to take a minibus from Liyuan Mansion to the subway station 10 for a few minutes, and then take the subway. For the shortest distance, he wants Batong Line to transfer to the subway at 1, and then take Line 2 to Line 5 to Line 13, which belongs to Metro Company 2, and then ride *** 1 half an hour.
If there is a small situation on the road, such as the subway is broken, the car is broken, or people are crowded, they will definitely be late.
Therefore, every day on his way to work, he spends five or six hours in the car.
Everyone made fun of him, saying that you broke into Beijing from east to north and from south to west every day just to go to work.
Asked why he didn't live near the company, he said:
I want to. It's a long commute and a long journey. It's just that the rush hour is so crowded that I can only sigh.
At eight o'clock in the morning, it happens to be the peak period of several transfer stations such as the subway international trade. At this time, there is no "flow". Only people who get on and off the bus, sometimes with their faces pressed against the glass and having a few mouthfuls of breakfast before going out, are all risks and possibilities of being squeezed out.
If there is any internal emergency, you have to stop halfway and go out to WC quickly, or you will line up!
After that, wait for the next subway and pretend nothing happened.
Let's look at the rent near the company. Think about it. Forget it. How can you let a rookie with a pre-tax salary of 4.5K settle down and spend more than half of his salary just to rent a palm-sized nest here? !
Subway Batong Line returns late.
Also, everyone was silent.
There is a colleague, everyone thinks that he has gradually changed, and he no longer loves to be with everyone. "Pledge vows, deep seafood, big fish and big meat, barbecue supper."
Before we put it on, my buddy wants to order something together. After working for so many years, the food is still affordable!
So everyone asked this colleague, why is it so quiet now, and you don't eat with everyone, which hurts your feelings?
He said:
Buy a house in Beijing and deduct the mortgage every month. That's all. There's not much left. Now I feel backache after eating a lunch of 15 yuan. I have to consider comparing the price of a piece of fresh chicken in the supermarket. Therefore, I now bring my own food at noon every day, cook it myself the night before, and eat the rest by myself. I won't sit at your table in the future.
Judging from his tired crow's feet, I am even worse after buying a house than when renting it!
However, after all, he still has a real nest of his own in Beijing, a first-tier city, far from sponsors, which makes us envious!
Regret, I am young and frivolous, why didn't anyone teach me to buy a house and a car first in college?
At least it has been realized long ago, and I can also make myself less worried and be a sincere "social animal" with a little happiness!
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In the workplace, if the work is not smooth, I can only tell myself. It seems inappropriate to tell anyone, and I don't know how to speak.
It's hard to make it to the weekend, but I have to be "harassed" by my superiors in the work group, asking questions from east to west, arranging this arrangement, and the excellent weekend time is fleeting in the busy.
It turns out that the plots in the youth drama in the workplace are all deceptive. There are few scenes of chatting at work and shopping happily after work. Even if I go, feel in my pocket and think about it. Forget it. Don't overdraw your credit card. You borrowed it, and you have to pay it back sooner or later.
After a year of hard work, I did a lot of unnecessary things for the project, the team and the company. In the end, the year-end bonus was not much, but less. Ask the leader and answer: Your performance is a bit wrong.
Why didn't you say so earlier?
So I muttered in my mind that it is an open secret to ride a donkey to find a horse. I think job-hopping is always possible. I can let myself go before I leave my job. The greatest luxury is to lie in your own nest until you wake up naturally and sleep as long as you want.
However, the most irritating thing is to open your resume, but you don't know what to write and there is nothing to add. What a pity!
People in the workplace, both states are normal, being laid off and waiting to be laid off. Sometimes, waiting to be laid off is more painful than being laid off, just as long pain is better than short pain. If you are fired, you should leave at once. If the company is more formal and better, you have to pay several times the salary as liquidated damages to get rid of it. Those who have not been laid off, their wages have not risen year after year, and they have to bite the bullet.
Friends say that some colleagues are too easy to take credit, some are particularly talkative, and some just like to report me. They did the work themselves, but they all robbed me.
The predecessors said that in the workplace, the bigger the company, the weaker its ability. Someone will always do those jobs.
The elder said, honey, you were born without a golden key, no money and no power. You should study hard and get a higher degree, so that you can find a way out and work better.
Everyone knows the truth, and the reality is cruel. Even if you have koi fish's physique, you can beat your study and job hunting by lying down. Can a real job be won by lying down? !
Some people say, don't be too melodramatic If you don't like it, leave. Yes, but it's not so easy to jump for midlife crisis and baldness. You may not find anything better outside, but you have to take risks. After all, there are old people in the world and little people in the world.
Some post-90s and post-00s disagreed, saying that post-70s will have power and post-80s will have economic independence. You see, I don't have a midlife crisis, and I don't have to think so far. Now I only care about myself, and I'm still unhappy at work. You call it life, I call it survival!
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The old man said that work is work and life is life. Don't give yourself too much pressure.
A friend of mine who works in an Internet company said that in our place, women are servants of men and men are servants of animals, so you soak your feet and get ready for bed. We are still in the company looking at the bright lights and having a daily review meeting. I also want to go to the park and lie on the grass, face the sky, relax my eyes, watch the old people run and listen to the children's laughter. I also want to go abroad, make friends and polish my eyes. But not next time.
This is no longer the era of unemployment after graduation. If you don't work hard, the university will be serious and it will be difficult to get along. You will drop out of school before graduation.
Hunan Vocational College of Environmental Biology withdrew 22 universities.
Being in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, no matter whether you are a "social animal" or how long you have to be a "social animal", don't forget your initial heart and core (competitiveness), because this is a cruel and realistic world!
It is late at night. If you want to cry, cry loudly. If you want to laugh, please laugh impudently, if it can give you more motivation!
Finally, if there is anything bad in the workplace, please come here and spit out your bad luck. You don't need superstition, and you don't need to go to koi fish. The comment area here is always open to you!
Finally, after a long talk, don't forget when you are struggling:
Always be kind to yourself and your family; There will always be endless work, overtime is not worth it, spend more time with family or friends; Don't let the pressure control you, but you control the pressure!