Since childhood, teachers will actively teach us to learn in class, and we are used to cramming. No one will help you after work. Don't ask, don't learn, never. Work, you must take the initiative to ask, take notes, no one will take the initiative to teach you to learn.
When I was in college, the money spent on meals in a month was 1000 yuan. At that time, I had surplus food every month, so I could travel once a year. Now after work, the monthly salary plus part-time income is tens of thousands. Unfortunately, in the face of a mountain of mortgages, I still scrimp and save. Learn to save money and control your desires. You never know when you will need money.
02
Go clubbing, get tattoos, get holes, get drunk, and look cool. In fact, these things are not difficult at all, as long as you are willing to do them. What is cooler should be those things that are not easy to do, such as reading, exercising, making money, and loving someone with your heart. These things are boring and difficult to adhere to in the eyes of ordinary people.
03
Not all your mothers are in the four seas, so you should have a sense of time at all times. Knowledge reserve is very important, and a person's level and information are all exposed in a few words.
Even people who are usually close to each other will remain vigilant and wary of each other. Be neither supercilious nor supercilious, and have a moderate mood, otherwise it will look too clumsy and ugly.
Be careful what you say, or everything you say will become a flag flying with the wind. Don't laugh when others fail. Maybe you'll be next. Don't stay up late, excessive consumption will cause irreparable consequences.
04
People's maturity in social life comes from a certain point-suddenly realizing that most of the troubles and unhappiness are set by themselves. When I was a child, I felt heavier and ate an extra meal. So-and-so said a bad word about me, and the sky fell. Being in society for a long time, knowing and choosing not to listen is a very powerful ability.
05
The longer you stay with excellent people, you will often mistakenly think that you are an excellent person and forget your efforts. Don't instill plain chicken soup into yourself because of your laziness and self-indulgence at the age of struggle.
06
Some people like to take poison from their mouths as if they were fighting against vulgarity, so they must stay away from such people. This kind of people are generally young and feel that they are unique and cannot be tolerated in this world. But after they are fucked by society, there may be two situations. One is to become amiable gradually, and the other is because no one listens to Ta's muttering, and all the curses and grievances are scattered on the children.
07
Never try to bring the prodigal son of love rat back.
Most scum men, the word scum, have become his labels and habits. You told him not to add other beautiful girls? Hard to kill. You take care of him. He has a hundred ways to chat secretly. When he finds it at home, he will let you go.
After many sisters were deceived by rhetoric, they knew that he had so many unforgivable past, and that so many kind sisters fell at his feet. They thought they could move him and tie him down, thinking that he was the fierce horse and that he was the grassland.
Really, save it.
08
Don't please others.
I used to be a "please-please" person, and I was always embarrassed to refuse anyone's request. I live in the expectation of others, and constantly pursue the recognition of others, thinking that only in this way can I reflect my value and significance in the crowd.
However, this way of doing things makes me extremely painful. As the saying goes, "The more I subconsciously please others, the easier it is to be worthless in others' eyes.
09
The marketing myths in the market are basically deceptive. The more people at the bottom are superstitious about marketing myths and get rich overnight, the more people at the top spend money on children's education.
Reading to improve academic qualifications is the fairest, most cost-effective, most successful and easiest way to succeed.
10
Don't buy things just because they are cheap. Don't be moved by someone just because he is kind to you. Stay with him.