My acquaintance with my best friend is amazing. 20/kloc-joined the work in may/February, and had a good relationship with a colleague in the same college (later we became good friends). I was talking to her, and she would talk about this best friend. I know they have a good relationship and grew up together. I know this best friend has the same name as me. I know this best friend has a low education and dropped out of high school. At that time, I would wonder why this colleague had such a good relationship with this best friend.
Later, she had dinner with her colleagues, and she brought her girlfriend. At that time, I felt that my girlfriend was unremarkable and had no feelings. Later, more and more contacts were made. Slowly, my relationship with my girlfriend became better and better, and we began to "abandon" our colleagues and date alone.
Because my best friend and I have the same name, she is one year older than me, and she is also the first to get along with friends. In order to distinguish us, we decided that her name was Da * and my name was Xiao *. She suggested that she could be called by an English name, but we grounded people were not used to using English names, so we called her Da *, and then occasionally she said that she also wanted to be Xiao *.
I started to go to the beauty salon for skin care last year. The beautician always can't tell us apart. They always thought I was a big girl and she was a little girl. I understand because I look like my mother after giving birth, and she is still a beautiful girl with invincible youth.
She also took me to skin care, and every time we went together, two people chatted and felt that two or three hours passed quickly. And if she can't meet my time, I may choose not to go this time.
Learning to swim is also a coach we invited together and learned together. I used to go to the gym together. I was too lazy and she was busy. Finally, the gym expired after several visits.
When I first met her, she lived in the northern suburbs. She rented a small house by herself. I live in the southern suburbs and share a room with others. When I am free, I will go to her house to find her. I will stay all day and even sleep at her house at night. She said, at that time, I slept well. Sleep until eleven o'clock during the day and take a nap at three or four in the afternoon. My best friend feels very little, so she often gets up silently and sits on the sofa watching TV. My impression is that I don't often cook.
Later, she said that I went to her house at that time, and she sometimes wanted to chat with me, but she felt that I was not interested in chatting. I often sleep alone, and when I wake up, I play with my mobile phone on the sofa alone.
At that time, I always went to her house empty-handed, including now, I went to her house empty-handed, but she came to my house casually, and often empty-handed. Occasionally, she will come to my house for dinner, and the food cooked by her mother-in-law is especially to her appetite.
But whether I go to her house or she comes to my house, everyone at home will take out all the snacks and fruits at home to entertain each other. She doesn't like snacks I went to her house for a while and found that there were not enough snacks in her house. I also brought a bunch of snacks to her house.
Since I had a child, I suddenly felt less free time, so I never cooked or washed dishes when I went to her house. It's just scraping rice every time. Every time I take my children to her house, I will make a mess of the house and the peel will fall all over the floor. My girlfriends are in charge of cleaning up.
When you meet something delicious, you always think of giving it to each other. All the fruits she gave me were boxed, such as kiwi fruit, apple and pomegranate. At the beginning of February this year, she went to the strawberry garden and picked me a big basket of strawberries, which is the biggest and most delicious strawberry I have ever eaten. At that time, strawberries were still very expensive, and I was reluctant to buy them at all.
Mr. Gao has lamented several times that "your girlfriend is really good."
My best friend once took me to a bakery to eat cupcakes. I like it very much, but the place is remote and it is too expensive for the US group to run errands. My best friend knew I liked it and bought it for me twice. Every time I get it, my eyes are moved.
I was lovelorn for a while. She's afraid I'll be sad. She asked me out to eat, go shopping and sing karaoke with me almost every other day, trying not to leave me alone.
15 years 10 months, she invited me to visit her home and asked me to stop by her shop to buy something for her on my way to her home after work. I was very tired at work that day, wearing high heels, and going to the mall to buy something for her after work. When I got to the mall, I couldn't find the store, so I was tired of walking. I complained a little that she was giving me trouble and finally found the store. The result that she let me get is.
Because my salary is low, we get along with her and have more money. Later, I got married, and with Mr. Gao, a man who can earn money, I gradually paid more. She was embarrassed. I said I don't need to care. It's nothing. I should.
15 years, I cut my double eyelids, and my mother came to accompany me. Because it was inconvenient to live in the room I shared, we stayed at my girlfriend's house at the invitation of my girlfriend, and I forgot for a few days. My mom was sorry. She and my best friend are always fighting to sleep on the sofa. I also comforted my mother in various ways I said nothing, never mind. Now that I think about it, I really want to thank my best friend for her tolerance. This is not an easy thing.
16 national day, I have nothing to do. She wanted to go home and asked me if I wanted to go back with her, so we took the high-speed train back together. I didn't expect to go to her house to buy gifts. She bought red wine and other things in the supermarket, and asked me to carry it before going home, telling her parents that it was a gift from me.
After staying for two days, Miss Gao picked me up by car. We had just fallen in love at that time, and this was the first time that Miss Gao met his best friend. Because Mr. Gao's emotional intelligence is low, the first meeting with his best friend is not pleasant, and the smell of gunpowder is very strong. I was at a loss and didn't know whose side I was on.
Fortunately, my best friend and my husband both know that they must live in peace. They all know that each other is very important to me, and they got to know each other roughly through this meeting. In addition, I also played around in the middle, and later they got along well, but I know that my best friend must be less knowledgeable than Miss Gao because of his face.
17 moved to a new house, and my best friend gave me a great, big and complete set of tableware. Later, by chance, there was a room for rent in the opposite community, so my girlfriend moved to the opposite community, which made it more convenient for us to get along. But after I got married and had children, I actually spent less time with my girlfriend and didn't have much time to play with her. She should feel lonely.
Last year, my child's birthday, I invited her grandparents, aunts, uncles, and girlfriends. She said she was very moved and I invited her to a family dinner. At that time, I felt very sorry that I had neglected her too much. I decided to invite her more in the future. Today, I remind myself again not to neglect my best friend. She is still single and easily feels lonely.
/kloc-I got married in 0/7, and my best friend is my maid of honor and has been taking care of me. I'm very relieved. I still remember that I was taken to my husband's house by a wedding car, but the strange local custom of my husband's house is to close the door and let me call. I stood at the door at a loss, a little sad, thinking that I was married, how could you close the door? It's my best friend who keeps calling me. At that time, I thought my best friend was really awesome.
Before the wedding, I was wearing a wedding dress, but I wanted to go to the bathroom. I forgot what my best friend did at that time. The makeup artist was right next to me. She kept saying that she was with me, but I didn't know her. I just want my best friend. Miss Gao got angry because she was in a hurry and asked me why a makeup artist couldn't do it. Why do you have to find a best friend? We quarreled when we were children, but it didn't affect the wedding scene. Mr. Gao couldn't say a word. That was the only time I saw Miss Gao cry. During the Spring Festival, we watched Hi, Mom together. I cried bitterly, but Miss Gao didn't cry. I said you are heartless.
Of course, in the end, I insisted that my best friend accompany me to the bathroom.
/kloc-in 0/8, when I gave birth to a child, my best friend went to the hospital to see me and gave me a gold necklace from Chow Tai Fook. I always wanted to buy it, but I was reluctant to buy it. I was really touched at that time.
A few months later, the children held a one-hundred-day banquet. My best friend was very busy that day, but she still took time out to attend the centenary banquet. She said she couldn't miss such an important occasion. She also took some photos of the banquet with a heavy SLR and gave me a big red envelope.
Since I met my best friend, almost every time I go shopping to buy clothes, my best friend is with me to help me choose clothes that suit me, and I don't bother.
Since I got married, my best friend has always told me that she is my family and she is my support in Xi. She also told Mr. Gao and my mother to reassure her that I was not alone. I have her family.
Anyway, my best friend is really a good best friend. Many things are vivid in retrospect. My best friend is really good to me. I seem to have always accepted her kindness to me with a clear conscience, and I don't think it's anything.
But I don't remember what I did for her. There should be something. If two people can get along for a long time, they must pay for each other. Unilateral efforts can't go far. I am a little curious about what I look like in her eyes, but I am a little afraid to face it. I'm afraid she can't think of a few things that touched her. How embarrassed I am.
One of the things that touched my best friend most was that when she wanted to buy a house on 17, she hesitated because she didn't have much money on hand. I have always said that I want to buy it, even if I buy a small one, to accompany her and the intermediary to see the house. I lent it to her when I bought the house. Finally, she bought a nice school district house, and then the house price went up a lot. She always said that if I hadn't forced her, she might not make up her mind to buy a house.
She had a hard time on a blind date. I think some of my unfriendly suggestions are too harsh. I shouldn't say it, it will hurt people, but I think she should face the reality, so I choose to say it every time I hesitate to the end. Fortunately, she has never been angry. She said that she knew that I was really good for her and that I always tried my best to find a blind date for her. She understands my efforts.
Amanome's first two girlfriends, I'm still a little unsure if it's her birthday. Yes, I have never been able to accurately remember my best friend's birthday, but I only remember that it was March. Every year I remember the birthdays of my family and my Buddhist friends, so I remember and forget. It seems that we don't deliberately celebrate each other's birthdays and buy gifts every year-because my best friend seems to have given me a few birthdays.
This time I prepared a birthday present for her, a tooth washing machine, gave it to her on her birthday, and ordered a birthday cake. Tomorrow, I will get together with my best friend and two other fairies for dinner, cake and birthday.
Last year, I forgot my best friend's birthday. Someone ordered her a beautiful sea salt cake. She knew I like sweets, so she gave me the rest of the cake. I said thank you. I forgot your birthday. She didn't say anything. The cake is really delicious. Later, on Miss Gao's birthday, I ordered the same cake.
On my best friend's birthday the year before last, I gave her Lancome's little black bottle.
Three years ago, on my best friend's birthday, I ordered a cake and invited her and Miss Gao to eat in a walnut. I really didn't know what to buy for my birthday, so I wrapped a red envelope from 300 yuan for her. After a long time, she showed me this precious red envelope, saying that she had never been willing to use it.
I can't remember it anymore.
If my best friend likes my clothes, she will offer to take them back for a few days, and I will readily agree. When my best friend buys new clothes, she will let me try them on at her house to see if they look good on me. She bought a new small bag with a camera. I said it was beautiful, so she gave it to me directly, saying that she would buy it herself, and she hasn't bought it yet. I go to buy masks, fruits, etc. When I see something suitable for my best friend, I will buy one for her. I'm trying to think back now, and I can't remember what else I'm "good" about my best friend.
My best friend is thoughtful and meticulous. I am careless. I don't seem to have done anything for my best friend seriously. I haven't done such a thing as "paying attention to what she likes but doesn't buy, and then buying it for her on holiday".
I comfort myself: I must be good to my best friend, but I always remember others' kindness to me and don't remember my own efforts. This is good, that is, sometimes both sides feel that they owe each other and will make compensation, so the relationship is getting closer and closer.
A few days ago, I gossiped with Miss Gao that a male colleague of mine was very lucky and found a very good girlfriend. Today, I have to say that I am so lucky to have such a good girlfriend.
I didn't feel anything before, but when I wrote these things today, I suddenly felt that I owed my good friend. I must send this article to my best friend when there is a suitable opportunity in the future.