If you like and love a man, you will want to conquer him.

Every woman hopes that the man she loves can be conquered by herself and be loyal to herself forever. After determining the relationship, the two will spend their lives together.

Different women have different ways to conquer a man.

Some women choose to please constantly, while others choose to tease his heart.

Both methods have more or less functions, but the essence is different and the final result is quite different.

Choosing a flattering woman can only win a man's favor for a while, and in the end it will only become more and more humble.

And the woman who chooses to tickle her heart can always catch this man's heart and make him full of love for himself, because the woman who tickles her heart must be very attractive.

Women should not blindly use methods to keep men. It is useless to conquer a person just by pleasing him, but also by means.

Different choices will lead to very different results.

02.

Yu is 28 years old this year. She is a shop assistant in a tea shop. She has a baby face, very cute.

Mix is her boyfriend. She is 25 years old and works as an assistant in a company.

When they met by chance, they both liked each other. After chatting on WeChat for a while, we got together.

Because it is a brother-sister relationship, I am particularly afraid that I can't handle it.

In order to stabilize her feelings, Yu coaxed her in another way: whenever she was hungry, she would get up and cook supper for him no matter how late it was; Mix wanted clothes, and she spent half her salary on them. Xiaoxiao likes playing games, so she will study hard in the only free time. ...

She really tried her best to please him.

I think that if he is so kind to him, he can feel, remember and think about himself all the time, and the relationship between them will be stronger and it will be natural to get married.

However, Yu became more and more humble, as if everything she did was taken for granted. Xiaoxiao would say thank you at first when she cooked and washed for him, but after a long time, he felt that these were all things I should do.

After three years of love, Mix broke up because he fell in love with another woman, a woman who would not please him and needed him to please him.

After three years of hard work and courtship, I was at a loss. She doesn't know how to live in the future, because in these three years, her life has been concentrated in Mix. After breaking up, she couldn't find the direction of life.

She doesn't even know if she will love someone like this in the future. In a word, the damage caused by this failed relationship can't be healed for a lifetime.

03.

Blindly pleasing each other can only bring temporary enthusiasm, but not lifelong affection.

And "scratching your heart" can hold a man's heart tightly and make him think about you all the time.

Therefore, if a woman wants to conquer a man, she should stop trying to please her. Smart women are "funny".

If you don't believe me, please compare the experiences of martial arts and Zhao Xiaoman.

Wu Yi, a 32-year-old likable person, said: In the past five years, I have been living in a state of no confidence.

Wu Yi and her husband Li Zhixian have been married for five years and have a four-year-old son.

The relationship between the two is flat, without too many quarrels and too much enthusiasm.

Li Zhixian is the shopkeeper of cutting in life, and Wu Yi is the one who keeps paying, just like a nanny.

After Wu Yi got married, she tried every means to please Li Zhixian and tried to be a good wife and mother, for fear that something would go wrong in her marriage.

Every day, she washes clothes the size of a family and puts them away. She will get up early every day to make breakfast for Li Zhixian and make the box lunch he brought to school; In order for Li Zhixian not to be late for work, she took the initiative to pick up the children; Obviously, I am very tired at work, but I still go back to cook dinner every day and contract all the housework; She will hesitate to buy something for a long time, but Li Zhixian will not hesitate to buy what she wants as long as he is happy. ...

Martial arts thinks that as long as they are always kind to him and please him, the relationship between them will always be good.

But Wu Yi has become more and more humble in this marriage and has long forgotten to love herself.

When she neglected herself and spent less time on herself, she lost all her charm for Li Zhixian.

She became the most hated woman before marriage, and Li Zhixian was very dull to her, communicating less and less.

Although this marriage is still in existence, it is already an empty shell.

Zhao Xiaoman, a 26-year-old heartthrob, said: Love that flatters won't last long.

Zhao Xiaoman and her husband Wang Xian have been married for 4 years. They have a two-year-old daughter from campus love to wedding dresses. Although they have been married for four years and known each other for seven years, they are still as passionate as ever, and their feelings are very warm. They are a loving couple in everyone's eyes.

Although Zhao Xiaoman is a mother, she still maintains a girl's heart and romance with love.

She will spoil Wang Xian and make him helpless and full of joy every time; She will go to the campus where they once fell in love again in each of their festivals, which will remind him every time; She always dresses up beautifully and annoys him every time; Every time Wang Xian does something, she always keeps bragging, which makes him very happy. ...

After work, she will also go to fitness and study, and her personal charm is constantly improving.

Although he has been married for four years, all these things of Zhao Xiaoman can stir his heart every time and make him always full of enthusiasm for her.

Marriage didn't kill Zhao Xiaoman's enthusiasm for life. Her personal charm kept rising. Wang Xian worshipped her more and more, and her heart was caught by her.

04.

To conquer a man, a stupid woman will choose to please, and a smart woman will choose to start from the root, seize his heart, and make a man inseparable from himself.

Women who please are often swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and they are always afraid that one day the other party will leave them. A woman who stirs a heartstring will never worry, because her heart is there.

After all, the love you get by pleasing others is far from the love you can keep by yourself.

Women who stir people's hearts generally have strong personal charm, and this charm is precisely the best weapon to attract men. Let a man love himself more and live a more carefree life at the same time.

Therefore, in this life, women would rather be provocative women than flattering women.

I hope all women can become smart women. In the emotional world, they can have sweet love, please no one, and only concentrate on being themselves.