Recently, I chatted with a friend in America, and he complained to me that the level of an American in the laboratory was too low. If he is in China, he is not a P at all. My friend tried his best to join this lab.

Then naturally there will be feelings that the evil American emperor is not good, but one thing is good, that is, everyone has a choice. If you want to get ahead, you should try to realize the "American Dream" like Schwarzenegger or Locke. If you want to be ordinary, do an ordinary job, whether it is a repairman or a waiter, which can make you worry about food and clothing, medical care and education have a good guarantee. This is also the main reason why he left his hometown and was unwilling to return to China.

On the other hand, in the domestic situation, the general environment is not good, and parents should strive to give their children more choices in the future.

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I recently read a book called Molly Wandering. Molly is a post-90s girl studying in a university in Shanghai. After graduation, she doesn't want to follow the rules and plans to travel around the world with her boyfriend. Although her parents didn't agree, they compromised. Before leaving, Molly's father gave his daughter the only advice: don't get pregnant and prepared a condom for Molly.

I used to think Molly was cool. She lives the life that many people dream of and travels around the world with the people she loves. Now, I think Molly's parents are so cool. They have the heart to accept their daughter's life choices and the capital to let her choose. Molly's father said something, and I was moved to death when I remembered it. "Go on, go on, dad will support you when you come back."

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I have a best friend who stayed in Tianjin after graduation and worked very hard. At the age of 30, she has not yet fallen in love and got married. If she is too tired, I suggest that she come back. She only replied, "I dare not." It turns out that her family is poor, her parents have no stable jobs, her father is in poor health now, and she has to go out to do odd jobs, and her mother helps in a breakfast shop. She has a younger sister who was sent to a relative's house in the countryside because her family was poor when she was a child. She said that as the eldest daughter, she should work hard to make money, bring her sister to the city and let her parents retire early. I listened to it, and my heart was sour. This is also a girl's home. A girl of the same age may still be living a life cared for by her parents, and even in her old age, she has to shoulder the burden of her family early.

Many young people who play around when they are single are very practical and reliable after having families and children, because everyone understands that only hard work can make children give up fewer choices because of "fear"; Only when you are strong can you have the capital to say "Don't be afraid, have parents" to your children after trial and error.

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