He will use your tears and grievances to grow up better and love other girls, and that girl has the same temper and hobbies as you. So many girls leave messages expressing their approval and accusing their ex-boyfriends, but is this really the case?

Let me tell you, except for a few girls, most girls are in another situation: you think your boyfriend is not willing to give you money, not handsome enough, maybe a little fat, or not motivated enough, not humorous enough, which makes you feel that he is not perfect, so you break up with him;

After breaking up, he began to study hard, work hard and exercise hard, while you were looking for the perfect partner. After a while, you still haven't found the perfect partner, but he has become better and found the girl you like. Maybe this girl is a lot like you, but he just likes it anyway.

So you jumped out and said that it was my grievances and tears that brought him growth. He became better because of me, but fell in love with someone else.

But why do you say that? Do you run with him to lose weight every day? Did you study hard with him? Did you comfort him when he was unhappy at work? All you do is leave him when he is in the most difficult time, that's all;

I remembered a comment I read on Zhihu before. A girl with blond hair and big waves sent a selfie, saying: Running around all hospitals can't cure my affection and singleness. So many people praised it, but one day the following comments were like this: If you were affectionate and single-minded, you should have married and had children with your first love and lived happily, instead of taking selfies at the subway entrance with blond hair and bright lipstick;

I don't know what true love is, but I believe that true love is deep and passionate, and it is by no means the capital you use to show your circle of friends and comment everywhere after breaking up.

Finally, I hope all sentient beings will not be disappointed.

May all ordinary people be treated gently by the world.