2. Lasting love comes from true love in each other's hearts and is based on equality. Anyone who only cares about crazy love and doesn't care whether he is loved or not, or who only enjoys being loved and doesn't know true love, will not have a good ending.
No matter how old you are, no matter how urged by your family and friends, don't treat marriage casually. Marriage is not playing cards, shuffling cards will cost a lot.
4. There is basically no right or wrong in emotional matters. He (she) wants to leave you, and there is always something you can't satisfy him. Looking back on the past days together is always beautiful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional liars, whose sweet words are completely aimed at defrauding each other and sleeping with themselves. Such people are still very few.
It doesn't matter to fall in love with a person with many different living habits. Be careful when getting married. Think about whether you can tolerate each other's differences for a long time.
6. Some people say that finding someone you like in love and finding someone you like in marriage are all one-sided. Lovers don't like themselves. What is there to love? My wife doesn't like how to live.
7. If you really love someone, you should try your best to make him. If he says you will, then both sides will have passion.
8. Don't get married for responsibility. You know, marrying someone who doesn't love them is the most irresponsible. Even if you let the other person feel sad at that time, it is better than letting him feel sad for several years or even for a lifetime.
9. Don't sleep with others casually, or you will regret what you did in the past when you meet a man who really loves him but lives an honest and principled life.
10, don't give up your pursuit because you look worse than the other person. The appearance is only a temporary impression, and the real decision on whether to combine depends mainly on the personalities of both sides. I've seen handsome guys with ugly girls, and there are too many ugly girls with handsome guys.
1 1. Women should learn to dress themselves, don't use simplicity as a shield, don't use housework as an excuse, and they can't be complete without fashion.
12, love lasts as long as it lasts. This has at least two advantages:
First, fully enjoy the pleasure of falling in love for as long as possible. The feeling of marriage is very different.
Second, the longer you get along with each other, the more you can test whether you are sincere or not, and the more you can see whether your personality is compatible. In this way, the feelings after marriage will be much stronger.
13, men are not bad and women don't love them. This bad does not mean cruelty, selfishness and ruthlessness. Of glib words, sweet words. Generally, a good man thinks that saying sweet nothings is a frivolous expression, so he doesn't want to do it. It's wrong to say that to others, but be glib with your wife. Why can't you be a man with a good heart and a smooth mouth?
14, the high divorce rate reflects at least two differences: the good thing is that people's ideas have become humanized, and they no longer imprison themselves for feudal ideas, and the bad thing is that they are reckless about marriage. I haven't decided what to get married.
15, it is said that marriage is the grave of love, because it is already on the way to the grave before marriage. Even if you don't get married, you will break up at the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?
16. A woman who can only read is a dictionary. No matter how good things are, people will only see them when they need them. A woman who can only dress up is just a vase, and she will look like that for a long time. Dressing up beautifully is a necessary condition to be a good woman, not a necessary condition. You need to read more books. In this way, you will find life better.
17, insipid is true, yes, but it should be insipid after passion, then passion, then insipid. Passion should appear alternately in waves. What's the point of living a dull and passionate life? As long as you really love him, you will have passion until you die.
Do you love him? Love tells him why he should hide the pain of missing in his heart. Afraid of appearance, status and identity mismatch? Don't be afraid, it is beautiful to love someone.
19, don't fall in love because of loneliness. Time is the devil. If you are an affectionate person, you will have feelings even if you don't love each other. What will you do in the end?
20. It is wrong to get married hastily. Never divorce hastily again. Try it first, it's really not good, and it's not too late to leave.
22. What is the charm? Charm is not beautiful, beautiful women are not necessarily attractive, dignified and elegant women are what others like. So you don't have to worry about not being beautiful enough.
23. The first love is unforgettable and it feels wonderful. Why? Not because he (she) is beautiful or handsome, nor because what he (she) can't get is good, but because when he (she) just fell in love, he (she) was naive and didn't have any selfish ideas, only knowing to love each other with all his (her) resources. And the love in the future is not so pure. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. It is her that we long for.
24. Most people who first love don't understand love, so their first love fails a lot. Less successful. Get married with an unmarried person, because everyone likes the original one. In love, it is better to find someone who has been in love. Because people who have been in love know what love is and how to love.
25. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men do. However, a man who becomes bad when he has money is not much better even if he has no money.
26. Whether a man can give you a sense of security does not lie in his height at all, but in his high heart. I have met many tall and timid men. I've seen short and high-spirited men. You have to be proud to be a man. Of course, the premise is to be talented.
27. Will it last forever? Of course there is! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they haven't found the one that suits them best in their life journey. That is, the one who is destiny takes a hand. Why can't you find it? The vast sea of people, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? You may find destiny takes a hand at 40, but can you wait until you are 40? I couldn't find it in my twenties, so I had to get married. I found it in my thirties and forties, but I had to give it up. This is the sorrow of life.
28. Why do you seldom see the legendary everlasting and touching love story in your life? Because such feelings are precious, are precious things so beautiful? Do gold and diamonds look good?
29. Emotional when in love, rational when living, and sexy when wearing clothes.
30. What is sexy? Open your chest? Is that naked beggar girl sexy? Sexy means not only wearing less clothes, but a completely different quality from another sex. A well-dressed, dignified and elegant woman is as sexy as me.
3 1, naive people have no problem, mature people have no problem, and mature people and naive people have more problems.
32. Sometimes, leaving is not a simple turn, but a lifetime of happiness.
33. It will be very happy to fall in love with smart people, because they are humorous and can talk, but there is always a crisis, because such people change their minds easily. Falling in love with honest people will be very reassuring, but life is also boring.
34, women should not be too strong, some women have too strong self-esteem. It's someone else's fault. She is very strong. It's her own fault. She is also very strong. She always thought it was despicable to beg others, and she would never beg a man. Such a woman is a headache. A smart woman will know when to be strong and when to show weakness. You are so strong, you should be kind to others. If you are so strong to the person you love, do you want him to take care of you?
In order not to be overwhelmed by tears, women have learned to tolerate sand in their eyes.
36. It depends on whether a person has connotation, internal speech, external dressing and writing. Talking can reveal a person's knowledge and accomplishment, dressing can reveal a person's taste, and writing can reveal a person's character.
37. To know whether a person loves you or not depends on whether he is energetic with you. Yes, there is love, and there is no love.
38. Some people always complain that they can't find good people. It doesn't matter once or twice. Too much is a problem. First, you should review whether you have any problems. If not, you should check your own eyes. Why do you meet bad people every time?
39. Some people say that once a man changes his mind, nine cows can't be pulled back. If a woman changes her mind, can nine cows be pulled back? There are only physiological differences between men and women, and they are almost the same psychologically.
40, desperate to be brave is a man's romance; Being strong is a woman's habit.
4 1, the carousel is the most cruel game in the world. The two people sitting on the wooden horse turned round and round, so close, but they couldn't touch it.
42. If you really love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you and ignores the behavior you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if you don't care enough about him or he doesn't care enough about you, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you. Don't think you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. Cowards will become brave when they meet people they really love, and similarly, careless people will become cautious.
43. Being interested in the other person and not saying it is the highest state of love. Because at this time, both of them are enjoying the glad eye, the fiery psychology of eye contact and the thrilling feeling when touching their fingers. Once you say it, the taste will be much lighter, because after two people agree, all behaviors have been recognized, and with psychological preparation, they will gradually become numb in the end.
44, a radish and a pit, talk about marriage. In fact, for love, it is not established. Excellent people, regardless of gender, will be a radish with several pits. So every day there are stories of joys and sorrows in this world.
45. Feelings, like time, can't go back. No matter who turns around first and then looks back, it is no longer the original time and space. Instead of saying to yourself: always shallow, but deep; It is better to say to yourself: let go of the past and let yourself go.
46. There are two kinds of women who are cute. One is the mother type, very considerate, very caring and considerate of men. With such a woman, you will feel strong love. There is also a sister type. Very timid, very shy, very dependent on men, and such a woman together, will stimulate their men's personality. For example, beating mice and lifting heavy objects. I often think about protecting my little woman. There is another kind of woman who doesn't care about others and never gives in to men. Such a woman makes men helpless.
47. Love is like knitting a sweater. When it was built, it went through a lot of hardships. Just pull it aside gently when you dismantle it, and the person you once loved most will become the most familiar stranger. The thread of this sweater is in the hands of two people. Happiness or pain is often between thoughts.
48. Being stingy is a taboo for men. Don't be poor even if you are poor. Some people complain that women only love men's money, but it's not necessarily true. Some women like men to spend money for her, sometimes to prove their position in men's minds. When a man likes a woman, he will be willing to spend money for her.
49, men and women match, work is not tired. Because in front of the opposite sex, men always like to show their manly side. Only in this way can you be like a man, so male chauvinism is sometimes necessary.
50. Pursuing the opposite sex is a common saying. In fact, the other person doesn't like you, and it's no use chasing you. The other person likes you, there is no need to dig deeper. Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not touching, you are not his ideal partner, even if you are accepted for a while, you will leave you when you meet someone he likes in the future. Of course, for someone who likes you, you still need to spend some time trying to please him, because it's like dating and romantic.
5 1, you are often asked to choose between friends and lovers, which one would you choose? Actually, I think this question is superfluous. A friend or lover who truly understands you will be considerate of your behavior. If they don't understand you, don't worry too much about losing them. Friends or lovers should help each other, not give in.
52. What is romance? Is it a flower? Walking in the rain? Can't you stand in front of the building? If two people fall in love and do nothing, the quiet opposite will feel very romantic. Otherwise, even if two people sit on the moon for a date, they won't feel romantic.
53. Love will cool down. A dull day, the most important thing is to always warm two hearts close to each other. Love will precipitate. In the days of getting along, remember to shake the cup of love from time to time
54. It doesn't matter whether you are suitable or not. The most important thing is to be interested. Otherwise, if we don't have the same language, we will still feel lonely even together.
55. Some women let their boyfriends spoil them when they are in love. After marriage, they still want their husbands to pamper themselves in every way, but forget to do what a woman should do. Such a woman doesn't know love.
56. Learn to look at each other with understanding and appreciation, instead of taking care of each other with self-righteousness.
I miss the time when I can't go back.
Everything has a price, and the price of happiness is pain.
Parting and reunion are the dramas that are constantly staged in life. If you get used to it, you will no longer be sad.
The only thing that can forcibly occupy a man's memory is to live better.
The expression of real surprise is fleeting, and it is fake after more than a second.
Loneliness has become a habit. In the swallowing of life, like opium, you can't quit.
In the old days, it was a running account, and some things could not be recalled.
We are all so concerned about our wounds that we forget to hold the outstretched hand of others.
When we know happiness, we know how to cherish it.
Time is like an anchor entangled in weeds. It clings to the bottom of the sea and refuses to say goodbye.
Clouds keep changing, seasons alternate, and time never stops.
Time is wasting. There are inevitable variables in life.
When you love someone, it is absolutely just right to love to eight points.
Love is such a thing that time is of the essence. You can't know too early or too late.
You are not in my world, and I am not in your world.
My life path is straight, turning in order to meet you.
It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up the person you love.
When we know happiness, it is because we know how to care.
What you lost, in fact, never really belonged to you, and you don't have to regret it.
The vague memory of time legs goes down, playing in the shallowest place of memory, and constantly wandering.
All unaccustomed things will become habits, which I always remind myself.
Life is a pure white clearing, and lonely people wander repeatedly.
Love is because of love, and there is no reason for love.
I always thought we could be together forever, but that was just my idea.
The love that once made me cry like that is like a dream in retrospect.
Don't bear it alone in obscurity, I want to hear your sadness and loneliness.
Day after day, I learned to miss different people with the same heart.
I can see you and sunshine when I wake up every morning. This is the future I want.
What withers is the beauty of flowers, what falls is broken tears, and what is irreparable is the sin of past lives.
Women are good at love, but forget the pain.
Love is not a corpse soaked in formalin, it will rot and disappear.
I can afford it, I can let it go, it sounds very open-minded, but only I can understand the pain.
If love can be expressed in words, then everyone can talk about love.
There are many kinds of happiness, and your world can totally take me away.
Memory is like water in the palm of your hand. Whether you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow clean through your fingers.
Falling in love with a city is probably because someone you love lives here.
I tried my best not to make people around me sad, only to find that it was myself who was injured.
If one day, I am No Country for Old Men, please bury me in your time.
Although we haven't known each other long, love is beyond imagination.
Recalling those beautiful memories, those long years, everything related to youth belongs to us.
How can I explain to you that when I love you without hesitation, my fears are equally boundless.
The most powerful thing in this world is time, which can heal all our wounds.
I want to stick to one thing that I think is important: ideal or love.
If we can hide, it proves that we can forget the past.
Sunshine jumps at your fingertips, just like your smile, my memory.
I am just a dispensable part of your life. Chasing the shadow of your backlight has nowhere to stop.
Maybe I still miss it, but I miss the time when I can't go back.
Don't use caring as an excuse to force others to express their sadness.
Old love is an unforgettable emotion, while new love is an irresistible passion.
A promise is what a liar says to a fool.
Time has taken us a lot, and in the end, we only have memories.
Where there is a flower of love in full bloom, there is vitality.
I am a moth running to the blazing flame, and after burning, I will be reduced to ashes.
Only mediocre people will bother themselves, so we should know how to make ourselves happy.
Suddenly found that constant is sometimes the most rare happiness.
If there is an afterlife, I don't want to be sad or sad, I just want to be with you forever.
Buried alive by time, from blooming to corruption, to love, from pure white to pale, from pale to dust.
One love, two hearts and three words, I love you.
I know that at the end of the day, I just feel that everything should be firmly faced.
Sunlight shines into your bright pupil through the cracks in the leaves, and the thoughts inside are clearly visible.
The days with you, although bumpy, are also happy times.
I have the past me and the present me. I am not lonely, so I am not lonely.
Always born in a casual year. Even if it is found that the situation is longer. Look back at the other side.
Maybe God is testing me and making all happiness farther and farther away from me.
Sorrow gives us courage, and memories give us hope.
When a person no longer has it, the only thing he can do is not to forget it.
Don't look at things that will make you cry, that's the only way not to cry.
How can there be people like you in the world, people who smile at me without reservation like you?
Some words can only be said to yourself, and some things can only be really put down if you understand them.
The best time is the time you can't go back.
1, what people need to change is often not the environment, but their own heart. Life is not perfect, life is very limited, life is a series of karma. We should experience a deeper life and develop inner spirituality, instead of tirelessly pursuing all external material life.
2. Try to get out of the circle you hate. Reading is to stay away from scum and garbage people. Fitness is to make fools talk to you calmly. Only by becoming a better self can the world be yours.
At that moment, I never doubted the sincerity of my promise, but human nature was so profound and complicated that I could understand everything and didn't believe anything after Qian Fan died.
If you live beautifully, the world will treat you gently. People live a lifetime, and their mentality is more important than anything else.
5. Not regretting is to do three things well: first, know how to choose; The second is to understand how to persist; The third is to know how to cherish. No matter how steep the mountain is, it will always leave a climbing path for those who are not afraid of difficulties. The most important thing in the world is not where we are but where we are going.
6, life is the heaviest, but full of love; All I want in my life is warmth and a lover; Love for a lifetime is just guarding and accompanying.
7, know how to advance and retreat, in order to achieve life, today's efforts will become more gains tomorrow! Let what you miss be missed forever. I want to cherish my present life, live a high life and cheer for my life!
8. Your sense of security should come from the weight you want to keep on the weighing scale. There is enough balance in the bank card and the mobile phone battery is full; Three or two true friends; It should never come from a few sweet words and illusory promises.
9. Life is an endless wandering. Some people, some things, can only be more truly understood if they appreciate them with their hearts. In the journey of life, we will inevitably stumble and wind and rain. But on the road of life, there will always be a bright light of the soul shining on us and moving forward step by step.
10, for me, the luckiest thing in the world is not that you happen to like me, but that your efforts will be rewarded, your efforts will be recognized and your kindness will be taken care of.
1 1. If you have experienced a lot, you will know that if you don't have a skill, no amount of social interaction is just floating dust.
12, don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. No matter when and where, learning to walk independently will make you walk more calmly.
13, I haven't seen or sent a circle of friends for a long time because you chose not to be expected by anyone, and you don't expect anyone.
14, half a month, cloud and ink dye, faint acacia, faint tenderness, peach blossom shore, willow entanglement, faint sorrow, faint sorrow, where is the end.
15, as long as life still exists, please believe that the sun is new every day. You never know what will happen tomorrow. If you meet someone you love today, you must tell him today: I love you, I love you very much. Even if he can't respond to you with the same love, at least he is happy at the moment he knows that he is loved.
16, if you are not ripe, you will not be cooked to the end. I'm afraid I'm half-baked, and I'm even more afraid I'll be unfamiliar when I'm cooked.
17, only after that can I understand that the past is used for memories, happiness is used for feelings, and pain is used for growth. Keep your heart warm as always when you are busy. Do it with the most beautiful smile and cherish it.
18, indifferent heart, from the world. Clouds are light and leisurely, while water is light and nurtures everything. Things in the world are confusing, right and wrong are gains and losses, and it is difficult to be perfect. If you are single-minded, you will get stuck in the quagmire of disputes. Everything wants to be innocent, regardless of gains and losses, and naturally ends up at leisure.
19. It's easy to say that you like you, but really few people will take care of your emotions, understand your life and put themselves in your shoes.
20. The best place is where you have never been. The best time is the time you can't go back.
Bian Xiao: I hope you can end your life the way you like. Bian Xiao: Grace is easy to forget, resentment is hard to disappear, and human feelings are natural. Bian Xiao: When you see things, you think of people, but things are people's non-emotional debts. Just like the ocean of time, it is something we can't cross.
Put the tears in your heart first, and the brave flowers will bloom. When you are tired, you can close your eyes and smell the fragrance.
Second, if you are good to yourself, you will become better and more valuable in the eyes of others. And if you give too much to others, you will become weak and your use value will be finished. So, learn to love and spoil yourself, and leave more opportunities for yourself. Don't always be too kind to others, but always try to please others. The more you care about others, the more humble you will be. Only by pleasing yourself and pleasing each other with him will you become more valuable.
Third, cry when you are in pain and laugh when you are happy. As long as it is the true feelings of the world from the bottom of my heart, it is a cliff stone carving on the wall of life, which can withstand the scrutiny of years and wind and rain and deserves our long-term cherish.
Fourth, why do people live? Different stages of life will have different answers. The pay and gain in love are often out of proportion, but after all, we gave all our hearts, and we said the bleakest sentence in the world with tears in our eyes. Zhang Xiaoxian.
In people's passbook, no matter how many zeros there are, health is always ahead 1. Without that 1, it doesn't matter how many zeros there are after.
Sixth, emotional debt, like the sea of time, is something we can't cross.
Seven, I have never been known by anyone, so I have not been forgotten by anyone. Living in other people's memories is not my purpose. Gu Cheng
Eight, if a person has not experienced suffering, it is not easy to feel sympathy for others. If a person does not feel happy, it is not easy to be grateful for things.
9. The romance of a good man is to take you to work rain or shine, slip money into your wallet without explanation, watch you swallow pills and drink water when you are sick, order a table full of your favorite food without asking, and tuck you in quietly when you sleep at night. Don't swear by sweet words and oaths. A good man can be full of romance without opening his mouth. Lucci
Ten, a person's beauty, not appearance, but all the past experiences, leaving scars in the heart and fading, making people strong and quiet. Therefore, elegance is not trained, but an experience. Indifference is not camouflage, but precipitation. In a sense, people will never get old, only appearance will get old, and time will make a soul more and more moving.
Eleven, treat a relationship, you should learn not to be afraid of being hated, you are not afraid of being hated. When you determine your principles, don't give in again and again, learn to say no, learn to be yourself, and learn to implement your principles. You can't break your principles in order to try to please people.
12. Happiness is actually very simple. When I am depressed, when I am sad, when I cry, you will come to me and give me a hug without hesitation.
Thirteen, this is the thing in the world. Many familiar people, if you don't take care of them, they will gradually disappear. Many familiar things fade if you don't remember them. The wind of years can not only dilute the feelings in your heart, but also cool your heart. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also forget you in my heart.
The strange thing about life is that it is easy to forget what you want to remember, but not easy to forget what you want to forget.
Sometimes I envy goldfish. In fact, they only have a few seconds of memory, so they can't follow a certain train of thought. All the experiences are the first time. Every time, if they can't realize their own shortcomings, life will inevitably become the only sunny story. A feast, from morning excitement to evening, until late at night. Alan Lu, I am a young man, and I am in a bad mood.
Sixteen, time is so beautiful, light and shadow are so beautiful, why forget the bright moon shining in your heart in order to blindly follow impetuous.
Seventeen, be an indifferent woman, wander in interpersonal relationships, stay out of it, refuse all kinds of temptations and win people's hearts; Be a silent woman, laugh away a thousand worries, talk lightly and get drunk in the spring and autumn, although she is not good at words, she has her own scenery; To be a passionate woman, when she is silent, she seems to be meditating. When she is in love, she dreams of love, and she doesn't hate her ignorance. To be a woman with a cold plum blossom is only to warm the winter, not to fight for spring, just to walk through, not for the past.
At the age of eighteen, you have to climb your own mountain, one by one, born as a man, that's all. However, you have to believe that you are not alone, because everyone is lonely. You will be happy, because everyone has learned to be happy and regards all misfortunes as tuition fees.
Nineteen, all stories have endings. But fortunately, in life, every end will become a new beginning.
What does it mean to be alone? This means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier and get happiness from it.
21. Some people are good at getting along with others, while others are good at getting along with themselves, so there is no need to evaluate each other. People who can stand loneliness will not envy those lively interpersonal relationships; People with lively interpersonal relationships may not envy a person's endurance, and it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad.
22. One of the manifestations of not knowing yourself is that you don't know how to treat yourself correctly, or indulge yourself or blame yourself. In short, you cannot get along with yourself in a peaceful way. The Second Blossom by Arombo Kemp of Xi.
Twenty-three, I heard that it is best not to miss two things in one's life, one is the last bus home, and the other is someone who loves you deeply. In my opinion, there are only two things you can't miss, one is you and the other is me.
24. Happy people like silence. People who keep saying how happy they are must be very fragile inside. When a person's heart is strong enough, it is useless to say or not to say. The most important thing is to choose the direction that suits you best and go it alone. Find the most certain information in life. Those similar people or things will eventually come together, and those who are not similar will eventually run counter to each other.
25. I exist because so many people know my existence. I am very happy because so many people understand my happiness. I cry because someone understands my pain.
About love, if there is any law, it is: when you don't love him, he loves you.