How to find out if the husband is having an affair?
1. Take a shower after you go home.
The first thing a man does after work or a party is to lie in bed and rest. Because he is tired enough from going to work or socializing, a normal man will not take a shower first after work. Even if you don't stay in bed at home, you will have a cigarette or a cup of tea before you do anything else. If the first thing he does when he goes home is to take a shower, there must be something wrong with him. Only cheating men take a shower as soon as they get home. He is afraid that the little lover will leave traces on him for you to find.
2. Suddenly pay attention to clothes
Not only do women love to dress up after cheating, but men are even more exquisite than women after cheating. If my husband didn't care about clothes before, and suddenly began to care about external things, and he was very careful about some small details, then he must have another woman. He wants to show his handsome side to that woman. In fact, whether men or women, once they start to pay attention to clothes, there must be something. This is the simplest and most practical way to judge whether a husband is cheating.
3. Be nice to you suddenly
In fact, married men blame themselves after cheating. After all, they are all married people. They always feel guilty when they do something wrong to their families outside. After feeling guilty, he will try to make up for it, but he won't feel this way. As a wife, you can feel your husband suddenly getting better. If he has been hot and cold to you, and suddenly he is especially nice to you, then he must have done something wrong. It can make a man suddenly become very obedient to a woman from cold to hot, only when he feels guilty about you. He owes you something, so he will try to make it up to you. So when your husband suddenly becomes nice to you, you must get to the bottom of it and find out why.
There are many parties and entertainments.
As a man, it is inevitable to get together or socialize occasionally. But too much frequency will cause problems. When a man doesn't want to go home, you will find that he will get together with his friends almost every other day. No matter how busy he is at work and how many friends he has, as long as he has you in his heart, he will put off some unnecessary meals. When eating frequently, even if you don't cheat, your position in his heart is not too important. The only way to solve this problem is tracking! There may be men who don't want to see this, but only tracking can reassure their wives. After all, seeing is believing.
Common signs that husbands are having an affair.
1. Never exercising, he recently fell in love with sports, such as running, swimming and fitness.
2. Start carefully "protecting" your mobile phone and wallet. Take your mobile phone into the bathroom even if you take a shower.
I don't take you to the parties and activities of friends, relatives or colleagues like before.
He doesn't modify his appearance at ordinary times, and almost never goes shopping. Recently, he began to pay attention to his image and bought many new clothes.
Instead of praising you as often as in the past, start criticizing your appearance. You make him more and more unhappy.
6, mobile phone bills soared, so did credit card spending.
7. Even if he sleeps in a bed, he always turns his back on you, keeps his distance from you and is about to fall off the bed.
8. Go to the bathroom to take a shower and brush your teeth as soon as you get home.
9. He never does housework at ordinary times and starts washing clothes, saying that he is "afraid that you will do too much housework".
10, proposed that two people sleep in separate rooms, on the grounds that "work and rest are different, for fear of disturbing you".
1 1. The frequency of going home for dinner is greatly reduced and the time is delayed. The reason is to stay in the company to work overtime or have social intercourse.
12, no longer take the initiative to tell you his whereabouts as in the past; If you ask him, he will show impatience and say that men need more space.
13. Even on weekends, I prefer to stay in the office for a long time instead of staying at home as before.
14. When surfing the Internet at home, lock the door, or say that you are working, please don't disturb.
15, you found that some of his clothes (including underwear) suddenly disappeared, or clothes of unknown origin appeared.
16. Enthusiastically arrange entertainment programs for you, suggest you "go back to your parents' house" to visit relatives, and even sponsor you to travel abroad.
17, more fatigue than in the past, more sleep time than in the past.
The best way to check a man's infidelity
In fact, for today's society, the evidence of cheating is really easy to find. Communication tools such as mobile phones bring us convenience, but at the same time, the traces left behind also allow us to follow this person's life. So when you suspect that your man is cheating, you can quietly check his mobile phone and look at the other person's phone records and chat records. Of course, no matter how clever a man is, he won't let these well-known problems appear, so you must remember to check his consumption records and taxi records, or if you like online shopping, check his Taobao consumption records. As long as it can relate to ordinary life, you can check it. If the other party is really cheating, there are always some clues to look for.
1. Configuration
If your husband uses an Apple phone, it will be easier to find it. One of the functions in Apple's mobile phone is to query the location. He will automatically record the places where his mobile phone often stays to see if there is anything fishy in it.
2. Consumption records
In fact, if you really want to find evidence that you cheated in the exam, then checking consumption records is the way most men will show their true colors. Because you are husband and wife, people who need to spend are basically familiar with it. When a month's consumption increases abnormally, there is definitely something wrong.
3. Time and daily life
For a cheating man, he spends little time with you, and even gradually ignores your existence. The daily communication between you is gradually decreasing, and even everything is perfunctory. He likes to be happy with his mobile phone every day. Such a man must have his own little secret and can't tell you.
Several possible infidelities of husbands
1. You'll never see him again.
If he is suddenly absent, he may be really busy with his work, or he may be busy with others. Although he can provide all kinds of reasonable excuses for his absence (he is working overtime, he is on a business trip, he is receiving training and so on). ), they may just want to cover up his outdoor activities, which involve another woman. He can stay with his wife. Although another woman usually accepts any time that a man can give her at first, she usually starts asking him for more and more time. On the contrary, he may just not want to go home. Because he felt guilty.
2. The phone is often disconnected or turned off.
Do you suddenly find it difficult to contact other important people? Did his cell phone turn off during the time when you can reach him, or did he claim that there was no signal for several hours? Or he said there would be a business meeting all weekend, so instead of calling him, he would call you? If he is often absent, it may be because he is with someone else. This is his way to spend time with another lady without going home, and it is also his way to make sure that you don't have to worry about seeing him.
Your intuition tells you that something is happening.
If you think he is acting strangely, hiding something or not wanting to meet acquaintances, don't ignore your intuition. Women's intuition is the most accurate. When she is angry, happy and lonely, when his body is here and his heart is not here, she knows that something must happen to her man. In fact, this is your intuition, which can usually help you identify the signs of an affair. There are always clues, because it is a complicated matter, whether mentally, physically or emotionally. So it needs a lot of adjustment to complete. These adjustments are different for your partner and may be subtle. You must trust your intuition.
Compared with before, it has changed a lot.
A growing lack of interest in sex may indicate infidelity. If he suddenly refuses your intimacy, he lets you down, and he can satisfy his sexual needs elsewhere. Although the sexual behavior of many couples will change over time, if your spouse is no longer interested in sex, you should consider the possibility of having an affair. His mistress may give him some satisfaction. At home, or because it is secret, it is more exciting, so he goes all out to have sex with her. At the same time, his sudden increase in sexual desire may also be the result of infidelity. Having sex with mistress can accelerate testosterone and improve his overall motivation.
A new woman came into his life.
If your husband repeatedly says another woman you have never met, she is likely to become his new lover, especially when you ask him about her, and he says "she is just a friend", but his enthusiasm is too convincing. Although you may think that no one will foolishly mention his wife and girlfriend in front of each other, experts say that many men do, and sometimes people who cheat will adopt semi-realistic strategies. Please note that if you observe any of these signs, it doesn't necessarily mean that your husband is really cheating. Experts say that if these behaviors deviate from the normal state, they will only show disloyalty. If your sex life has never been so prosperous, or he has never left his mobile phone, then he may not cheat. However, if you often have less sex and people who used to wear sports shoes suddenly put on brand-name clothes, then other things may happen. If the atmosphere at home is good, you can play together and have sex regularly, then the situation may be better. But if you don't have the above situation, then there may be a problem.