Case 1 Teacher A: The child is five years old and the husband and wife are busy at work. Old people take care of their children, let them watch their mobile phones when cooking, and let the old people free up their hands to cook with peace of mind. When dating us, I was afraid that the children would be noisy, and I also put an cartoon on my mobile phone to make the children become "angel babies" every second.
Children's language has improved to a certain extent, and there are more problems.
(1) I don't like reading, writing and reciting poems, but I like playing with my mobile phone to watch pad；. (2) Sleep is very irregular. I take a long nap in the afternoon and don't sleep at night. (3) A little impatient and weak in communication skills.
Teacher Hu has something to say:
(1) The mobile phone is not an artifact with a baby. Saving time and energy for children now will bring time and energy in the future, with little effect.
(2) The mobile phone has bright colors and fast switching, which interferes with the stability of children's attention. Teachers' lectures in class are not as attractive as cartoons, so children will be inattentive and impatient, which will affect the efficiency of classroom learning.
(3) Excessive use of mobile phones (not recommended before the age of four, no more than 30 minutes in primary school and no more than 2 hours a day) has a great impact on children's health.
First, the impact on children's vision (see children's myopia for details);
Second, the impact on brain development, children's skulls are in the development stage and relatively small, they will absorb more electromagnetic radiation than adults, increasing the risk of brain cancer;
Third, it affects children's sleep quality. The light on the screen of the mobile phone will make the brain excited. According to a survey, children who play mobile phones before going to bed sleep 2 1 minute less than those who don't.
Fourth, playing mobile phones for a long time, lying down and playing mobile phones is also very unfavorable for children's bone development.
Fifth, many interactions on mobile phones are static. Children who play mobile phones for a long time and don't communicate with others will be reluctant to play with friends, and their social skills will be impaired, which will seriously lead to mental illness.
(4) Comics let children have a solid thinking about the characters in the story, which is beyond the picture book, and they need to realize their own imagination. A survey once showed that the characters in a book are very similar to those of students who watch cartoons, but the students who don't watch cartoons are very different. It can be seen that comics are destructive to children's creativity and imagination.
Case 2: Teacher M: There is a baby boy at home, 10 years old. A few days ago, I found that my child used his account to charge the game fee, owed several thousand yuan and was beaten. At ordinary times, she has more children and average grades. She is mainly caught by her mother after class, and she can't sit still in class. She always plays with things, likes to interrupt, and her handwriting is scrawled, so she can't calm down.
Teacher Hu has something to say:
? Some analysts believe that some games that form habits are good for children to understand the world. For example, monopoly needs to work, buy things, exercise and take care of pets, which helps children improve their management and planning skills and know what the world is like.
? Others believe that in the future, a lot of human labor will be undertaken by machines, and products such as games and entertainment will keep people busy in their leisure time, which will contribute to social stability. An important source of income for Internet companies such as Tencent is games, so they also invest a lot of resources in game development. They collect a lot of data, and according to the preferences of gamers, just like the current web pages, they will push a lot of content that we are interested in according to our browsing records, so you can brush your mobile phone for hours if you are not careful, so be careful.
? Children's self-awareness and self-control are relatively weak, so it is very dangerous to contact games prematurely without guidance and supervision. Games? China people are more likely to find a sense of existence and accomplishment. For example, you can get a gold coin in one jump, plus points, sounds and animations, which give people a lot of excitement. If you buy a lot of equipment, you can beat many people or become a team leader. These achievements, which require a lot of efforts in real life, are relatively easy to get started and realize in the game. This game mechanism of timely satisfaction is contrary to the delayed satisfaction of completing academic needs, so the game will not only consume a lot of time and energy for children, but also make children impatient.
Case 3 W: In the past, my student W was addicted to the glory of the king because his parents were busy and lacked his company (every afternoon when it rained, his parents came to pick up his children from class, but no one picked him up, so he had to go to the guard room to wait for his mother, considering that the children were also poor). I got good grades before, but then I always mumbled something, and my words were written in a dragon and phoenix dance, and my calculations often made mistakes, and my grades dropped significantly.
Then the mobile phone has no advantage?
? Yes, the knowledge reserve of this generation of children is much richer than that of us then. There are countless libraries hidden in a small mobile phone. If there is a comprehensive and extensive homework, the mobile phone is our good helper.
? In addition, many parents spend a lot of money to enroll their children in training classes. As we all know, many free courses on the Internet are contributed by famous teachers and special teams. If you find the right one, you must feel that you have met each other for a long time and earned millions.
? How do parents guide their children to get along with mobile phones?
(1) When you are young, you should tell your child the ownership of the mobile phone. It belongs to mom and dad. If you need to see your mobile phone, you need to ask in advance and get permission before you can take it away.
Moreover, the mobile phone is a communication tool, so parents need to handle a certain amount of work, and the baby can't use it for too long, otherwise the battery of the mobile phone will delay the work.
If a child cries for a mobile phone, it will never succeed the first time. Take him to his room and let him cry alone. Wait until he is calm enough to reason with him.
(2) When I was a child (preferably before junior high school), I used my mobile phone as little as possible and read more paper books. My colleague's daughter sits next to her every time we have a meeting, reading paper books without looking up and getting good grades. In a math contest, she only got a perfect score in the grade. Have teachers, parents and training classes talked about the topic? She saw it in the book series of mathematical stories written by teacher Li Yupei. From then on, she loved reading more. Some countries stipulate that children are not allowed to use mobile phones before junior high school, and Jobs does not allow his children to use electronic products at an early age.
(3) There are more interesting things for children to do than mobile phones. For example, let your friends come to your home to be guests, draw, origami and spell Lego together; Decorate the home, and then play with the children, the game will be more situational; Take children to play ball games, swim, have a picnic and so on.
(4) Mom and Dad should also set an example. In addition to dealing with work and necessary communication, try not to play games and entertainment through mobile phones for a long time. It is ineffective to control children only by parents' authoritative orders, but it is more convincing to be more equal and harmonious and have a harmonious relationship.
(5) Like adolescence, you can study special courses with your children to improve your understanding of mobile phones and games. It seems that Tsinghua University has set up a game course. Only when you know them well enough and know what you can and can't do, what's good and what's bad, can you become the owner of your mobile phone.
(6) Children should have specific requirements before owning a mobile phone. If you spend no more than two hours online every week, you can't watch your mobile phone next week after two hours. Strictly implement it at first, and reward it a little later according to the situation. If the performance drops sharply, you need to recycle your mobile phone at the first time. It is very important to make an agreement in the early stage (have a family meeting with the children and negotiate well) and monitor in the middle stage.
(7) You can regularly push good movies or interesting knowledge to children to guide their curiosity and make them feel interesting and free.
(8) The child's fingers are weak and the sliding range is small. I heard that there is a special app to supervise children stealing parents' mobile phones to surf the Internet. The situation is serious and can be used. Usually not recommended.
? Children's excessive infatuation with mobile phones is a wrong family education, a long-term lack of your attention, a lack of companionship and comfort for his little heart, and a result of your failure to recognize his sense of value and existence.
? More attention and companionship, more interaction and communication; More guidance and affirmation, I believe that every child has the power to fight against mobile phones. Don't let a small mobile phone ruin a child's beautiful holiday and a child's beautiful life!