Parents can't ignore their children being bullied because their psychological endurance is limited and their thoughts are not mature. If bullied by the school bully, it is easy to have psychological barriers, become silent, timid and grumpy. If bullied for a long time, without correct guidance, children may take detours, become unwilling to study, skip classes, fight in groups, and even aggravate the bullying of other students.
Therefore, if we feel that our children are being bullied, or the children tell us that they are being bullied, we should give them correct guidance.
First, tell him not to be afraid. It is normal for students to have conflicts and disputes. If they fight because of contradictions, they can't solve them themselves. You can tell the teacher, tell your classmates and speak out boldly. If they continue to bully and threaten blindly, you can tell your parents or even call the police. Because the police uncle and the law are our strong guarantees, tell your children not to shrink back blindly and make those children who are used to campus bullies more proud.
Tell him to look at himself correctly. Others have no right to bully others. He should bravely say no to those people, ignore them as much as possible, stay away from people like them, try to get close to good children, make friends with good students, and tell them that their parents and teachers are behind them, as long as they do their duty well.
Many times, children have to face the school bully. Besides having strong psychological quality, they also need to have a strong body. They can sign up for an interest class when they are young, such as Sanda and Taekwondo, so that they can have a little foundation, at least they won't suffer too much, and try to get their children out of the shadows.
Children are bullied and become timid, afraid to play with their partners. At this time, parents must stand up. They must find ways to open their children's hearts and take them to the playground on weekends. How to make children play video games to make them happy and make them feel less inferior? They can enroll their children in a summer camp and let them meet different partners.
The only thing parents can't do is bully others in front of their children, or bully those school bullies. This will give children an illusion, give them a reason to indulge and a backer, which may not solve the shadows in their hearts, but will arouse their ambitions and turn them into campus bullies. If they get there, it's not worth the candle.