We have collected some love stories that happened here this year. They are Buddhist, bloody, worrying, regrettable and fatal ... In Defu Lane, deserted South Street and brightly lit bell tower, there is a story at every step.
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Zhang Tao, a 28-year-old real estate planner, gave up my favorite girl in my life because I couldn't afford a house in Xi.
The first time I met her on Metro Line 2, I had the cheek to ask for WeChat. After two years together, the two sides met their families. When they talked about marriage in April this year, her mother strongly demanded to buy a house.
But to catch up with the soaring housing price in Xi 'an from 6,000 to 1 10,000+,I know that parents over 50 can't spend more than 400,000 at once, and their monthly salary of 5,000 to 6,000 is very small except the daily rent and the expenses of two people. ...
At that time, I smoked cigarettes for more than 20 years, one after another, lamenting the material of this world and blaming myself for my incompetence. A week later, I broke up. I still remember meeting her for the first time and being told to dare to love and hate. At first glance, it is a girl who has lived for three or five years.
She got married last month. Inadvertently open the QQ space, only to find that there is one more message in the message: sorry, I won't wait for you.
I thought she wouldn't leave. She thinks I'll stay. I think it's letting go, and she thinks it's giving up. ...
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The 27-year-old dancer coach of the Eight Immortals Temple said, "I will meet the right person this year." . It's almost the Spring Festival, and I'm a little anxious.
Because of work, I usually have a small circle of contact, and I am repeatedly urged by my parents all day: "When my mother was your age, you were 4 years old." "If a girl is not married when she is over 30, just wait for a second married man."
I even asked my relatives to introduce me to my hometown, such as a rich excavator brother, a skilled baker boy, and even an electrician's son to inquire about my marital status ... My best friend quipped, come on, don't charge for home appliances in the future.
Jonathan Lee said in "Late Marriage" that "I never want to be single, but I have a hunch that I will get married later", which is my present state. 10 Go to the Eight Immortals Temple to get married. The master said that he would meet the right person this year. In the northwest, I am a little anxious to see the ending of 20 18.
But sometimes I think, I have my own work and hobbies, and I can enjoy reading in my spare time. There are a group of friends who are on call, like me, sunny, optimistic, dare to love and hate. I think about it. If I can't get married by the age of 30, I will hold a bachelor party for myself on my 30th birthday and invite all my friends who accompany me. ...
Maybe our generation can't escape the secular imprisonment after all. Getting married, having children and starting a family is still a compulsory course in my life, so get married. After all, people don't just live for themselves.
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The roaring girl, a 27-year-old wild writer, is rounding up a 30-year-old man and wants the feeling of heartbeat, even if it's just a heart attack.
In July, I went to Fengyukou for a barbecue with a group of friends. After that, a little brother asked for my WeChat and started chatting.
-I heard from xx (* * * with friends) that you are excellent. There must be a lot of people chasing you?
-Are they invisible? I didn't see any of them.
-What are you looking for?
-knowing the warmth and coldness, there is something to say.
-the requirements are too high, sister.
-that somehow also let me move.
-Honey, your psychology and your age are seriously derailed. At this age, you still want to move, even if you have a heart attack.
I feel that people over the age of 20 and under the age of 30 are eager to end, but they hate to start. Everyone wants to use the standard of his ideal partner, without spending too much time and energy, looking for a goal and starting with certainty. It seems that girls over 25 are destined to get a discount.
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Wang Xiaoxian, a 2 1 year-old new media, who once sheltered you from the wind and rain, finally gave you an unexpected storm.
I remember very clearly that I took the No.280 bus to Jinduicheng Community Station that day, and a handsome guy with a face of 180 got on the bus, which instantly made me move. The most surprising thing is that he actually sat next to me. On the morning of our third meeting, he asked for my WeChat.
After knowing each other for half a month, we were together, and everything was sweet and orderly until he went to see us later without telling my predecessor and me. After all, the emotional fragments he tried to save were just lingering. At the 520 meeting in Xi 'an, Sarah, when everyone was partying, he sent him a message: Break up! He replied, "Well, when I want to fall in love, I'll get you back ..."
WTF？ Ten thousand little sheep rushed over and tried to hang me as a spare tire. The people who love him behind his back live in the house he bought with his predecessor and sleep in the bed he bought with his predecessor. ...
Two weeks after breaking up, I received a text message from a strange number: Have you changed companies? I've been sitting at 280 recently, and I haven't seen you.
You see, people are so strange, they can't get what they like, they don't cherish what they get, they doubt when they are together, they miss when they lose, they see when they miss it, and it's too late to meet again ... Their whole lives are regrets.
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Mu Zi's 27-year-old rival in love: military wives have done everything from junior high school to work, from school uniforms to wedding dresses.
20 18, 1 1, I finally married Mr. Ma Han, my childhood friend who knew 15. He always cries like a child at weddings.
Looking back, only we can understand the ups and downs. I met in the first grade of junior high school, and I was in junior high school for six years. With mutual encouragement and companionship, Teacher Han went to Taiyuan University of Technology and became a national defense student. I came to my favorite Shaanxi Normal University.
From the day I came to Xi 'an to go to college, every holiday, Han Xiao would take a green leather train for more than ten hours to Xi 'an. In four years, I saved a thick stack of train tickets from Taiyuan to Xi 'an.
Although there are fast communication tools such as WeChat and QQ in this era, we still write a letter to each other every month. When I woke up one day and saw his handwriting, I felt that all the waiting was worth it. Love was short and the words were as good as it seemed. I've been writing for ten years in a blink of an eye.
/kloc-I was young in 0/5 years, and I was in a different place in 0/0 years. Fortunately, I didn't wait for failure. This year, I finally became a family with him and officially became a rival in love with my motherland. After the marriage, Mr. Han is still in Lanzhou and I am in Ann. Before he leaves, he will buy enough daily necessities and water and electricity, and do a lot of things for me as much as he can. It is because of the distance that we cherish every meeting.
People who have always felt that they can calm down and write letters in this era are the last aristocrats in the era of fast food communication. Perhaps the best state of love is that I respect you like a hero and you spoil me like a child.
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Miss Duan, a 32-year-old teacher in an educational institution, never imagined that the person who regarded you as his life almost killed you.
"What kind of person do you want to marry in the future?"
"You can treat me as life!" A conversation between my best friend and me in my freshman year.
20 16 when I decided to be with him, his kindness to me made me believe that he was the one I was waiting for. He is a doctor in a hospital in Xi 'an, and I am a teacher in an educational institution on Taibai South Road. In everyone's eyes, we are a perfect match.
I got married as I wished last year, and the days were simple and sweet ... I was pregnant in June this year. When I was preparing for the arrival of a new life with great joy, I found a lipstick receipt in his pocket while washing clothes. Obviously, this gift is not for me. After several forced questions, the truth was what I was afraid of. He betrayed me.
At that moment, I just wanted to rush into the hospital and end my life in my stomach, but I felt the naughty beating in my stomach and my heart melted.
2065 438+065438+2008 10, the man who once regarded me as my life became my ex-husband ... 20 19, please be kind to me and my baby.
Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get. People always say that life is like a play, there are extra things in it, but life is really too difficult. ...
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After the small circle of 24-year-old online stores is sold, we will get married next year, and the object is picked with a drift bottle this year.
Last week, I saw a girl basking in happiness in a circle of friends: I am happy with it in front of you. After meeting you, I regarded you as my safety.
Say hello to her quickly: little bitch, it was a waste of dog food to see you as an old bachelor last month. What aircraft carrier are you on?
She said, no way, fate has arrived, and nothing can stop it.
They met in a drift bottle. She was 150 and he was 180+. In September, he ran from Weinan to Baihua Pearl in the West Second Ring Road to find her. Her mobile phone broke down, and he gave her a salary of 3000 yuan a month without saying anything.
She asked him if he was short, and he said he liked the cutest height difference, which made it easier to protect her ... There were many small touches that made her believe that he was the only one in this life. I just returned to Suide last week to meet my parents, and I have booked a wedding banquet at Sanqiao, and I will hold a wedding after the year.
She said: As long as it is the right person, it doesn't matter if it is late.
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Lonely patient, 26-year-old nightclub waiter, our love, no sunshine.
20 18 national day, I silently liked the boy for three years, and finally agreed to stay with me. I'm a boy, too, yes, that's what everyone calls GAY. Most of my friends around me understand, but sometimes they will still be regarded as aliens, ridiculed and ridiculed. In fact, apart from sexual orientation, we are no different from others.
We went to the streets of Chang 'an Road to kiss, to idol concerts and to drink and dance in Shuncheng Lane ... I feel that I will never fall in love with anyone else except him in my life.
But recently, my parents have intensified their efforts to urge marriage. I know this relationship will not be blessed by my parents. Tell them that my parents may be crazy, but if I don't tell them, I will be driven crazy. ...
I like this city, because it will be tolerant, 20 18, which surprises me and makes me helpless. My own life, I want to be my own director.
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Miss Wang, a 23-year-old housewife, likes his meticulous care, but hates his gentleness of accomplishing nothing.
He is a handsome boy in Inner Mongolia, and I am from Xianyang, because everyone likes to play king. After talking for three months, we came to the scene.
When we first met, he was loquacious: my parents were destined to have me the first time they met; I casually replied at that time: Your parents were destined to have your sister the first time they met, okay? You were just an accident. ...
Two people from different dimensions, after a big fire, I got pregnant. Of course, both parents strongly opposed it, but at that time, their brains seemed to be lowered. The tougher the attitude of adults, the stronger our will to be together. In the end, my parents couldn't help it. After discussion, the two sides finally agreed to get married on the condition that we must stay in Xi 'an.
We rented a house in a community in Shouweizhai. After marriage, he worked in a nearby Internet cafe, and in his words, he made money through games. After marriage, he was still very kind to me, but half a year's daily necessities made me fidgety, and I was a little panicked when I thought of my future life at a glance.
20 18 I changed from a girl to a good wife and mother. Sometimes I like his meticulous care, but I hate his tenderness. Let's do this first. After all, we are all responsible for our choices.
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Mr. Hao, a 28-year-old programmer, chose fate, but he was no match for nature.
She and I are fellow villagers in a small town in Gansu. I was one year older than her eight years ago. I noticed her while playing ball and fell in love with her.
After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to Chang 'an University as I wished. On the day I got the admission notice, I was very satisfied with my grades, but I want to go to the same university with her in the future. That day, I made a decision that I didn't tell everyone: I secretly tore up the admission notice and silently decided to confess to her today next year.
In the second year, I took the college entrance examination with girls as I wished. However, on the day when the results were announced, I realized what a bolt from the blue meant. My grades are far worse than last year, and I can barely enroll in three colleges. The school she was admitted to is a familiar name, and she tore it up last year. You see, nature can really play tricks on people.
The university was in the same city, but I never contacted her again. Every year when friends get together, everyone always raises a glass. "You have won the war of resistance for eight years. You are still where you are. Drink this cup and forget her next year! "
Everyone says that choice determines fate, and personality determines fate. So is the so-called fate life or luck?
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I am a 27-year-old wedding planner Once a man came to me and woke me up, but he fell asleep.
Six months after I broke up with my ex, he invaded my life three years younger than me.
I remember attending a friend's wedding once, and he vowed: If you don't marry me in the future, I will hit your car on your wedding day. ...
With him, I hesitated. After all, girls who are three years older are always annoying. But looking at his sunny and handsome appearance, I still collected this seemingly extreme confession with satisfaction.
My family's doubts about this relationship were also persuaded by me.
In my life blueprint, I get married at the age of 27, have children at the age of 28, and realize the small goal of fashion hot mom before the age of 30 ... At the beginning of this year, I quietly planned my own wedding in my spare time, and even thought of the name of my future baby. When I told him what I thought cheerfully, I got the answer: It's too early, I haven't had enough fun. ...
20 18 February 14, we broke up, he mentioned it.
Finally, we were black and blue in love and became doctors after a long illness. Some people come into your life just to teach you a lesson. Later, we finally know the secret of getting out of love: be prepared for him to come at any time and make plans for him to leave at any time.
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Miss Dong, a 25-year-old shopping guide, wants to find someone to face life with, but it seems a bit difficult.
After graduation, most of my friends stayed in Xi 'an. I attended several weddings in the past two years and copied and pasted scenes. Even many hosts' routine lines are exactly the same. Everyone's marriage life is full of conditions, which is completely beyond the scope of the script:
I met the opposition of my parents, survived the most difficult days, endured the itch for seven years, and finally got married;
I met for a week, got married in a passionate love, and met the right person at the first touch.
After eight years of long-distance love running, I saw a chicken feather after I got married.
I have also seen life-and-death struggles for money and property, and marriages that exist in name only for children. ...
The temptation of this city is too great, just like watching too many ghost stories, I began to be afraid to walk at night; I have seen too many negative stories and endings, and I don't know who to look for for the rest of my life.
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She said that the city is so big that people he likes sometimes forget to go home;
She said that unannounced visits to friends in QQ space were my only contact with him;
She said that when he began to reply to my message in two words, I knew this relationship. As long as I said goodbye, he immediately agreed.
He said that good horses don't eat grass and often dream about her, but never dare to disturb her;
He sang: I finally lost you, in the vast sea of people … and then blurred my vision.
People who have been groping in this city, their love, hate and hatred for a year are branded in their memories.
This year has given you surprises and regrets. It makes your heart die and gives you warmth ... Some people retire at the right time, some people are black and blue, some people are devastated by the pain from their loved ones, and some people get a new life inside.
Whether it is perfection or regret, this year will turn over a page. May you walk through Qian Fan, still believe in love, have money in your pocket and love in your heart, be happy when you meet, and meet all the right people. Someone will accompany you at dusk, and someone can warm you with porridge. ...