I saw the first movie in June+10 last year, and now I'm watching the second movie. Let me talk about my feelings about the five beauties first.

What impressed me most was Andy and Qu Xiaoyu, who were also the most worthy of my study. Let's talk about Qu Xiaoyu first. I don't like her personality very much, but her few words left a deep impression on me, shocking and even subverting my thoughts and opinions. A few words are as follows.

1. If I don't want to sleep with someone, I won't fall in love with him.

She didn't blush at all after hearing such straightforward words. When I first saw this line, I only thought she was straightforward, bold and shameless. I didn't know it was true until later. Because in my college (dormitory) life, every (straight) roommate has an object (girl) he wants to sleep with. This girl can be a female star or a female classmate around him. But I have never shown love to any female star or model, nor to any female classmate around me, and I have never said which girl I want to sleep with, so every roommate will question my sexual orientation.

As for parents (the older generation), it is inseparable when discussing which boys and girls can get along. This is not straightforward enough, nor does it explain why two people should be together. I think "wanting to sleep with someone" belongs to "hormonal attraction", which is external attraction, and "talking" belongs to internal attraction. Only when two people are satisfied with each other's exterior can they love each other and understand each other's interior. Although I have never been in love, I know that there is a saying that "your exterior determines whether I should know your interior", which shows that exterior is basic and interior is fundamental. After the basic "satisfaction", it will go deep into the "fundamental". To me, a handsome muscular man is far more attractive than a fat man. Even if this muscular man and I don't have the same hobbies, and this fat man and I have many "languages", I still choose muscular man. Because I first ruled out this obese person from the outside (hormone).

That's the truth. It's not rough, but no one has ever told me. I wonder why no one has ever told me this truth. This shows that they are "confused" at this point, not as good as a TV role.

He has a girlfriend, which is none of my business.

This is what Qu Zhui said to others. It seems that in the traditional concept, if a person has a date, other members of the opposite sex who like him or her should not come in again, otherwise they will be scolded and robbed of someone else's boyfriend (girlfriend). But Qu doesn't care. No matter whether Zhao Qiping has a girlfriend or not, she will go after her, which shows that she is not afraid of secular vision and dares to fight for it.

Parents are the most unreasonable people in the world.

A few lines are about her parents. I never thought that someone would expose and criticize their parents' "shortcomings" so incisively and vividly, which is very rebellious. In that case, I can't even think about it. Because generally speaking, everything parents do is for the good of their children. If children don't do what their parents say, or even criticize their parents, it will be chilling.

Although this statement is a bit outrageous, it is still true. Because parents' cognition is different from ours in some ways, this is the difference in world outlook. World outlook affects methodology, and different world outlook will inevitably lead to different methodology (practice). For example, my dad said that people would scold him if he didn't get married in his thirties, but I know that cheating on marriage is immoral. Zhihu, Post Bar and Weibo spilled dog blood on cheating gay men. There is also a saying that your pain is no reason to hurt others, so you can't hurt an innocent girl just because you are under great pressure.

4, no real skill, who wants to see your true face.

This sentence can be illustrated by the characters (Andy and Qiu Yingying) in Ode to Joy.

Borrowing information from the encyclopedia, Andy is a senior business elite and an investment company executive who came back from new york. A tall, cold beauty with outstanding temperament. Maverick, accurate as a formula, and huge knowledge reserves are impressive. And Qiu Yingying is an ordinary girl from a small city, an ordinary clerk. Doing things recklessly, regardless of the consequences, often puts yourself in a dilemma and brings trouble to others.

If both Andy and Qiu Yingying have bad temper, we can accept Andy's temper more because she is capable. It can be considered that a person is mediocre in all aspects, and no one wants to know his temperament.

5, my family is so rich, I am most qualified to eat to death! What is Chinese New Year? There is a chance to make money, and the Chinese New Year is just a cloud!

This sentence tells me not to miss any chance to make money. Although I haven't gone to work yet, this sentence has penetrated into my bone marrow.

6. No one has an obligation to make you happy except yourself.

This sentence tells me that you should strive for what you want, and don't expect others.

Andy is next.

Her two lines left a deep impression on me.

1, love is hormonal attraction

This sentence is the same as the first sentence above, only more subtle.

2. Is it more interesting or boring for two people to live together?

Qiu Yingying tells Andy that getting married means two people living together, and Andy expresses this feeling. Although you won't get married, think about why you want to get married. Is it for carrying on the family line or for a happier life? I thought that all straight men wanted to find a suitable heterosexual marriage life. Later, I learned that there are also many people (especially women) who don't want to get married, and there are indeed many people who have a harder life after marriage.

Even though they know that life after marriage is not easier and happier than before marriage, they still choose to get married, so I thought, is it really that important to carry on the family line? Will this incense continue? If this person has excellent genes in appearance, IQ or other aspects, or has hundreds of millions of family property, then this gene has no inheritance, and family property has no inheritance, so it is necessary to get married and have children. I missed an important purpose-raising children for old age. I read a sentence in Zhihu: If you regard having children as an investment, you should be prepared for failure. In real life, there are many such "failure" cases.

In another episode, Andy made a long analysis of the property division caused by Bao Yifan's marriage and came to the conclusion that her situation was not suitable for marriage. I think her mind is very independent. According to the traditional view, getting married early and having children early is the right way, especially for girls?

In today's society, a person needs not only economic independence, but also personality independence. There are many problems that no one has analyzed for you, so you need to think for yourself.

For myself, I am gay, and marrying the opposite sex will only bring unpredictable problems to myself and the other party, but no one told me. Only I know what the problem will be, and no one will analyze it for me.

In addition to the lines, the first ending song "There is always happiness waiting for you" and the lyrics also made me feel awake. The lyrics are as follows.

Besides, "there is always happiness waiting for you, and fools don't fight for it." I don't know if there is happiness waiting for me, because for an ugly homosexual like me, the possibility of finding true love is almost zero.

But I know I have to fight for it, because sometimes, the process is more important than the result. I still remember what my teacher said when I was studying insurance law. "The result (whether to claim) is not important. What matters is how you prove whether you want to pay compensation. The process of argument (that is, whether you can justify yourself) is the key. " I think it's not just an argument. In many things, the process is more important than the result, because what I pursue is "a clear conscience". So when I heard this lyric, I had the idea of fitness and put it into practice three months later. Even if I get old, I don't regret it, because I used to go to the gym to take classes and exercise tirelessly in pursuit of physical beauty. At least I won't blame myself when I am old, because I have worked hard and haven't wasted my time.

As for "grit your teeth and get through it", isn't that what I do in the gym? Those trainings always challenge my physical limits and make me exhausted.

The premise of the last paragraph of "love" is to be independent and be yourself. Navigating by yourself can make you more beautiful. How to live? Palm prints are on your hands. "These three sentences are a portrayal of Andy in the play, but they also alert me. Because for a sex minority, the economy is not independent, so what should I take out? Without independence, nothing can be said.

Let me talk about the other three. Let's talk about Qiu Yingying first. When watching the second film, she cried for a day after falling out of love, and her spirit was sluggish, and her affection for her suddenly fell to the lowest point. When I first saw Ode to Joy, I didn't like Qu Xiaoyu. Now I don't like Qiu Yingying. Because I really don't like the way she looks after falling in love, and she hurts people who care about her. I want to run to the TV series and say to her, you know, there are many people in this world who are in a more difficult situation than you, and it is much more difficult for them to fall in love than you. They may be poor, disabled or gay. In particular, it is much more difficult for disabled people to fall in love with homosexuals than ordinary people, and it can't be measured by numbers at all. People who are in a much more difficult situation than you can laugh at life. What qualifications do you have to feel sorry for yourself and cry here? This sentence can also remind yourself to prevent yourself from being depressed again.

There is a TV character's pet phrase called "Laugh often, be lustful and come naturally". My understanding of it is that only by facing people and things with a positive attitude can we make ourselves happy, and then people around us will like ourselves. No one likes people who are always depressed.

Generally speaking, Qiu Yingying has the lowest EQ among the five beauties.

Then Fan Meisheng. What impressed me the most was that she said, "It is only natural that girls and boys go out and boys pay the bill." This sentence is used to describe heterosexuality As a homosexual, I don't want to say anything. I like Qiu Yingying's sentence, "No one's money comes from the wind, he and I both make money, and we both take turns asking for it, so it doesn't involve the economy. This feeling is pure."

Finally, Guan Juer, the most "traditional and docile" kind, should be the ideal marriage partner for many boys. But the second one, I haven't seen it yet, so I won't comment much.