I thought this was a serious discussion. I wanted to go in and have a look, but it was just a joke. Under this discussion, some people gave several signs of girls' depravity, and some even gave girls' "seven deadly sins"!

And these "charges" turned out to be: going out without makeup, wearing contact lenses, not washing your hair, eating sea plugs, staying in the sea untidy, not interested in skirts, wearing fat T-shirts!

I don't know when the society began to label girls more and more, and the nature of loving beauty gradually became heavier, more like a task that had to be performed.

0 1, dismissed without makeup? Can't get married if you can't do housework?

In Korea, a girl worked in Starbucks, but she was complained by customers because she didn't wear makeup one day.

"This salesgirl doesn't wear makeup, and I feel a little uncomfortable."

After the clerk was complained, the manager actually fired her directly.

It is understandable to say that wearing a formal suit to work is a respect for customers, and that the salesgirl was fired for violating the rules of the store. But in the program "My Best Friend", Mabel Yuan was rejected, which was outrageous.

At the beginning of the variety show, Mabel Yuan always gave the impression that she was a sunny girl. She loves fitness, has rich hobbies, and has a very full and interesting life.

But then I mentioned that I couldn't do housework, and many guests gave me strange looks and even didn't like it.

Many people say that doing housework and cooking are all necessary skills for girls. If you can't do this, how can you get married in the future?

But I want to ask, are you looking for happiness or are you going to be a nanny?

02. There must be "suffering" behind exquisiteness.

Some people say that sometimes masks can't be taken off after being worn for a long time.

It is natural to love beauty. Many girls wear makeup just to cover up some small flaws and make themselves look more glamorous. But in society, more and more rules restrict girls' behavior.

What clothes you must wear when you go out to work, make up when you go to work, and even make up many times a day.

It is no problem to want to be beautiful, but if it is to meet some requirements of others or because of passive behavior under social pressure, then beauty becomes a fake face, and even many girls are not free to take off this mask.

Behind the exquisite life is the pain you can't think of.

Many people think that girls should wear makeup, high heels and exquisite clothes, and they are princesses or queens everywhere they go. But many people ask girls to do this, but they don't know how much girls have to give up to meet these requirements.

Girls may need to get up early because of makeup, and they are afraid of being late for breakfast, sometimes a little late. After getting off the bus, they will go running all the way, while running, while secretly vowing never to wear high heels again …

03. Girls should live for themselves.

I have a friend who used to prefer heavy makeup. Few people have seen her without makeup. But when I saw her recently, she was basically plain, with only an eyebrow and a faint layer of lipstick.

I asked her why she didn't wear makeup, and she said, "I used to think it was ugly not to wear makeup, but later I found it really troublesome to wear too much." And online experts tell you how to make up. Later, I felt that makeup was not for myself, but a contest between girls, and it was also like a task. Once any program goes wrong, I will be annoyed for a long time. So now I don't wear makeup at all. I'm happy and simple. I save a lot of time every day, and I don't have to worry about how much I spend on makeup. "

Yes, living for yourself is probably the real happiness.

Girls are bound by many rules. papi Sauce, a famous online celebrity, once had a video poking fun at these requirements: "You can't be too fat or too thin, but there should be meat where there is meat, not too high or too low, and your hair should be black and straight, otherwise it is gaudy and indecent. You must make up well, but not very thick makeup ..."

Under these requirements, it is difficult for many girls to choose. They will gradually lose themselves and don't know what they really need.

There was once a woman named Zhang Weili who won honor for her country, but few people knew it. Even when she mentioned her occupation and identity, someone gave her an impression of being "not gentle". She is Zhang Weili, the first Asian female boxer to win the UFC championship.

In the interview of winning the championship, she said: Girls can actually do many things, not just teach each other. And she also proved with her own actions that girls can do a lot and girls should not be defined.

The most difficult thing in life is to be yourself. Girls should not live as defined by others. Life is colorful, whether wearing high heels, flat shoes, suspenders or long skirts can't be a sign of your depravity.

Whether you make up depends on your mood, whether it is gentle or straightforward, it is also a character endowed by God, which deserves praise.

Life is different, but it is always beautiful, so girls should not live for others. live high likes it, go her own way and gossip, and let them talk.