Because men are all lower-body animals when they are young, seeing beautiful women is like development, and many of them are not for marriage. It doesn't matter whether they are happy or defeated. Of course, it would be better if a girl is willing to marry him.
I think you can think about it more. You are only 22 years old, and you are still very young. You have good conditions. You may wish to contact more members of the opposite sex and choose carefully. Boyfriends are everywhere, and there can only be one husband, so you should find a man who is motivated, smart and good-natured. But seriously, 100 such men, 99 of them will attract girls when they are young.
So what others say can only be suggestions and references, and can't be taken seriously. What parents like is not necessarily their own, and what they like is not necessarily their lover. You must make up your mind to find a life partner, but you must be careful and never casually.