The simplest understanding may be "a person who has the ability to earn more money", and so does Hao Cheng in Mr. Love. He is a dentist and a love counselor. Nowadays, most young people are restless, frequently change jobs, have many interests and hobbies, and their status changes with the weather, but on the whole, they are still willing to improve themselves and change themselves.
I just graduated a year ago. In my opinion, the transition from campus to society is not so difficult, and our ability to accept new things is not normal. As far as our major is concerned, most people are not majoring in university, perhaps because it is difficult to find a corresponding job, so they are forced to change industries; Maybe I didn't like my original major at all, so I chose a job that I was relatively willing to accept. I also met some people I can't understand after work.
1. "I'm new here, you have to teach me."
All the elites in the workplace are achievements gained step by step. I remember a colleague just came to the company, and the boss asked her to change the registered capital of a company. She asked me how to do it. I remember my colleague changed a company legal person last time. I thought the steps should be similar. After reading the guidebook given by others, I gave her a list of what she needed, where she needed to sign and seal, and where to do things. She is still very ignorant, so I simply asked for the whole set of materials and only asked her to hand in the materials from that department.
She said: I just like people like you. We just got here and did nothing. They always ask people to do things, but they don't teach people, so they ask people to change their registered capital. How could I?
I said: She has clearly told you that your job is to change the registered capital. Baidu search will tell you how to operate and which website to enter. When there is a consultation telephone number, he will tell you the expenses that need to be paid professionally. This is nothing unusual. Actually, I haven't done it either.
So every time she meets something she doesn't understand, she will habitually ask me. She is an intern accountant and I am in the data department. She doesn't ask her immediate supervisor, but always says, I don't ask her, and I don't tell anyone when I ask, so I have a bad temper.
I am very frank: although I studied accounting, I am not engaged in accounting. I know a little, but I don't know much. Play mobile phones at ordinary times and develop micro-business circle. When she does something, she never thinks about herself. She always asks: How to do this? Where is this place? You help me with it ... and you always complain: I hate that kind of old staff. I feel that I have been here for a long time and know a little more. I despise us newcomers. We don't teach anything, and the salary is still so low. The internship period of friend XX is 3,500, and the transfer to full membership is 5,000. ...
I just want to say that when you encounter any problems, the first thing you have to do is to figure out what to do first. You really don't ask for more advice. If you can't remember, please write it down in your notes, so you won't be embarrassed to say no next time. Besides, when you get a job, you always ask people how to do it. Where do I hand in the materials? Then you have to consider whether this job is suitable for you and whether the salary you get is worthy of your job status. Is the so-called complaint caused by your incompetence and ignorance?
People have a kind of nature. If you meet ten difficulties, she will appreciate you if you help her once. You help him nine times, but if you can't help him once, you become a narrow-minded person in her mouth.
It's the same person. She asked me how to deal with the social security of employees. I said I hadn't touched it, and I didn't understand it. Ask your boss. Moreover, I am also a person with work content and very busy. She asked me to check it for her. I was very upset and said, is your manager not here? Ask him, he must have done it, but I won't. I'm a little busy now, or you can call the social security center for advice. ...
Then I learned from others that I was worthless, how bad my attitude was, and how fierce I was to her. I didn't tell her ... Of course, what I heard was not necessarily true, but in the next few days, everyone ignored me. I get it.
So I told myself that such a person is only suitable for helping once, and it is better not to say a word in the future. I don't want to argue with you. I have enough time to consolidate what I have learned and learn what I don't understand. And you've been waiting, asking, complaining, and finally you can't do anything, so I'll leave you all over the street.
2. "Isn't it very loving to skin it?"
Everyone always feels at that moment: I was born extraordinary. In fact, we can be extraordinary. As for how to do it, it's up to us. If you hate vulgar people, you will find that you are not the only one who hates them. Likable people, if you like them, more people will like them.
Therefore, meeting anyone may be a fate, and after you know your own nature, what kind of person you are willing to pay depends on your own choice.
Some people like to be the essence of leverage. "I don't know" will always give you a "how do I know". Some people say: When you are young, you will see a first-tier city like Beijing and Shanghai, and your horizons will become great. Some people will say: you are so confusing us young people to go to first-tier cities, with low income, can't afford to buy a house, and can't afford to marry a daughter-in-law, so we must be responsible. Alas, it is really difficult to pull out my 40m broadsword!
I said that I have a friend who works really hard and studies well. He is not only a graduate student, but also willing to do some public welfare activities and support some students. Someone immediately retorted: those people have money, unlike us, I still need funding. If you don't pay attention to it, you will die in minutes.
Some people are naturally fond of killing people. People go out to play, take a photo and leave a souvenir to bask in the sun. Someone always says, "Your fat scenery is blocked ..." Others like to perform. That's too much. No chestnuts. In fact, this kind of people can be summarized as: the desire to express is too strong, and listening and understanding are zero.
3. "Life is short and I am lazy."
This manuscript, almost, I have to put it off until tomorrow, and fleeting inspiration can't make up the whole article. I really want to lie down and watch TV. I don't want to move.
"Laziness is equivalent to burying a person alive", I can feel that we are always full of fighting spirit because of an article and a video, that is, "I also want to learn English and insist on reading a short article and listening to an article every day", "I want to practice my handwriting, and people say that I can do it if I practice my handwriting well", "I want to travel or study, and my body and soul must have it.
We are easily stimulated and make decisions, but it is difficult to move forward. "Well, I don't understand. When I go back in the afternoon, I will take notes while listening. " "I'm tired and sleepy. I'll watch it tomorrow. " "I can't afford to sign up for a fitness class until I get paid ..." We always like to put things off until tomorrow, so we can have time today and still don't want to do it tomorrow, so we like to listen to the stories of successful people, but they all boil down to one sentence: persistence is victory. In fact, as long as we can understand, what I spend time studying and investing will be rewarded several times in the future. From now on, if others want to catch up with you, they will spend the same time and double the time, so don't worry that some efforts are in vain, but they are actually accumulating for the future.