Discuss examples effectively. After an example is quoted, it is necessary to analyze the argument, reveal the ideological content contained in the example, and link it with the argument, thus playing the role of demonstrating the argument. Many students often ignore this link when writing argumentative papers, or add examples to their opinions, but they can't see examples for analysis; Or talk about the matter, the analysis is not in place; Or ramble, can't grasp the key points, therefore, the argument is weak and unconvincing. We must choose the corresponding discussion method according to specific examples, so that the argument can have indisputable power.
The following are some excellent articles that illustrate the conformity center with examples:
Say "let nature take its course"
"Happy-go-lucky" is also called "happy-go-lucky", and the old version of Cihai has a derogatory interpretation of the word: "the negative attitude advocated by the exploiting class. In various environments, we must be complacent and satisfy the status quo. " The explanation of the latter sentence is still close to the original intention of the word. It is inevitable that it is biased to call it a "negative attitude towards life", and it is even more inappropriate to label this attitude as "exploiting class".
At ordinary times, many people like to use the word "happy-go-lucky" to criticize others or laugh at themselves, so that it has become synonymous with being content with the status quo and not seeking progress. I didn't have a deep understanding of this word when I was a child. After living for a long time, I have carefully tasted these four words and found that they not only have deep meanings, but also contain two meanings. Those who are "happy with the situation" drift with the tide, and those who are "safe" can be understood as resigned to their fate and content with the status quo; Second, it can be understood that the mind is not disturbed by unpleasant circumstances, and it can maintain a peaceful and safe attitude and continue to pursue its own pursuit under any circumstances. The former's "sense of security" may be called "passive life", while the latter's "sense of security" requires good psychological adjustment ability, even a detached and open-minded attitude, which not everyone can do.
Zhuangzi has a saying: "The real people in ancient times, who slept without dreaming, felt carefree, unwilling to eat, and had a deep breath." ("Zhuangzi? A real person is a saint in the eyes of Taoism. If you can sleep without dreaming, wake without sorrow, eat without essence, and take a deep breath evenly under any circumstances, you will surely coexist with it. This kind of "peace" is of course inner peace, not the peace of the status quo. This peaceful mentality can not only make people "unable to sleep", but also make people optimistic and stay young forever. Su Shi's friend Wang Dingguo has a singer named Rounu, who has a good face and is good at rhetoric. Her family lived in the capital for generations, and then Wang Dingguo moved to Lingnan, and Rounu followed. Many years later, Rounu and Wang Dingguo returned to Beijing. When Su Shi visited Wang Dingguo, he met Rounu and asked her, "Is the climate in Lingnan bad? Unexpectedly, Rounu replied, "This peaceful place is my hometown." Su Shi felt something in his heart when he heard this, so he wrote a poem. The second half of the poem is: "The fewer years Wan Li has returned, the more he smiles, the more fragrant he smiles. Should Lingnan be bad? But he said, "This peaceful place is my hometown." In Su Shi's view, the remote and desolate Lingnan is not a good place, but Rounu can live as safely as living in his hometown capital. The soft slave who came back from Lingnan seems to be younger than before, and his smile seems to have the fragrance of Lingnan plum blossoms. This is the result of being happy with the status quo and inner peace. If Rounu arrives in Lingnan, she will feel that she is in a foreign land, and she is not used to the environment there. When she comes back from Wan Li, I'm afraid she won't be a "teenager", and her smile may be drifting with wind and frost instead of Xiangmei in Lingnan.
"This peace of mind is my hometown", until today, it is still regarded as the language of self-state and masturbation by countless drifters. How many "strangers" can feel at ease under any circumstances, because they can feel at ease. Only when you are calm can you get rid of your troubles and focus on what you should do or love to do. During the War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression period, Mr. Liang Shiqiu, who lived comfortably in Beiping, moved to Chongqing to escape the war and rented two shacks in the suburbs. What about these two temporary places? Mr. Liang's description of them in the article "Elegant House" is not only "there are windows without glass, there are pavilion-like caves when the wind comes, there are tiles with gaps, and mice leak like drops when it rains". I dare not compare my knowledge and talent with Liang Gong, but it seems worth mentioning if I talk about the matter. I have lived in Beijing for six years and moved seven times. Although I rented a two-bedroom apartment with acceptable conditions in the last three and a half years, I lived in a cubicle of seven square meters and a dilapidated farmhouse in the first two and a half years, and once lived next door to a ghost (there are graves in front of and behind the house, and the cemetery is dozens of meters away), every time I move into a "new house", I will inevitably dream when I sleep, but I will wake up carefree. After that, I must arrange my necessary family and tidy up my daily necessities. The articles written are either nervous, laughing and cursing, humorous and leisurely, calm and calm, with daggers and guns, romantic, arbitrary and eclectic. Why? Just because the mood is not disturbed by the environment. "I have several chairs and a couch. I have them all. I don't want them." Liang Gong's husband and son in Yashe are just what I want.
Gray/white hair
Young people in their twenties and thirties have white hair, commonly known as "juvenile white", which is a disease. This disease also belongs to "ancient times". Pan Yue, a great writer in the Western Jin Dynasty, said in "Preface to Autumn Xing Fu": "Yu Chunqiu has two in his thirties, and he began to see two hairs." People with two hairs have white hair. Thirty-two years old with white hair, among young whites. Su Shi, "Nian Nujiao? "River of No Return": "Affectionate Ying Xiao Wo, born early. "It seems that Mr. Dongpo, who is bold and broad-minded, is also suspected of being a young white. Although he did not specify the age of white hair, it can be called "early" and it is estimated that it will not be over forty. Although juvenile white is a disease, it does not do much harm to people's health except affecting their appearance. Although the temple has frosted, the smooth and moist face can still prove that he (she) is still young, so the psychological pressure will not be great. Only when middle-aged people are drifting away and their faces are wrinkled, a few silver lines suddenly appear on the side of their heads, which is really shocking and gives birth to the sigh of old age.
"I don't know where to get autumn frost in the mirror." Most of the new white hair on people's heads is found when they look in the mirror. Both men and women get up one morning to freshen up and take a look at themselves in the mirror. Suddenly, they find one or two white hairs dotted in the darkness, and their hearts are probably pounding. And after a heavy blow, most of them will be combative and should be eradicated. However, it is not easy to get rid of this white hair that is ignorant of the times. The action reflected by the "I" in the mirror is opposite to my action outside the mirror, so it takes a lot of effort for the killer's finger to unconsciously capture the gray hair that is close to death. Even if you catch it, you may not be able to pull it out at once. It often takes hard work again and again to get it quickly. However, this "post-urgency" is likely to be accompanied by regret, because this kind of weeding and uprooting is often easy to hurt innocent people, and even those who should have been eliminated are unfortunate. Once a person has passed the age of no doubt, his hair will gradually become scarce. It is a pity to make unnecessary sacrifices for his already scarce black hair!
What makes people regret and hate is that this method of weeding can't make white hair yield. With the spirit of "kill me, there will be others in the future", they fight you indomitable in the form of guerrilla warfare, suddenly appearing on your forehead, suddenly appearing in your ear, suddenly appearing behind your head, sometimes fighting alone, and sometimes attacking as a team, which has the potential of "a single spark can start a prairie fire". This is a protracted war, and the result must be the victory of white hair. Finally, one day, you will be helpless to the growing army of white hair and make your head change color with a helpless attitude. Another reason why you make your head change color is that the black hair on your head begins to fall like autumn leaves, not only falling, but sometimes even falling like autumn wind. This autumn wind sweeps the fallen leaves, which is common when combing your hair and washing your hair. A lot of black hair that died young is really helpless. When the beloved black hair becomes weak, those annoying white hairs are as strong and straight as Jinsong. If you don't uproot them, they will never fall down by themselves. In order not to let your head form a large area of desolation, you have to give your white hair a right to live against your will.
Your right to give birth to white-haired people is only a stopgap measure. Your real purpose is to make them work for you. So you buy a "black wash" to wash and go to the barber shop to refuel (fire bureau), hoping to stay black. However, although the white hair was forced to accept peace, the heart still holds an uncooperative attitude towards you. As soon as you let your guard down, they stubbornly show their true colors as heroes, angrily expose your falsehood, accuse you of persecution, and make you unable to hide your white stubble, or your hair is mottled like grass in early autumn. Finally, you have to "do nothing" for white hair, or update your inherent aesthetic, thinking that China people's hair is wind and silver whiskers are fluttering, which is also a state of sage like type.
"It's like a strong wind in spring, which blows at night and blows open the petals of ten thousand pear trees." Although my hair is not like this poem about snow, it has fallen to the point of pear blossom. However, some pear flower buds have begun to bloom, proudly displaying their heroic spirit on a black background. I have been amazed, hated and struggled, but my professional imagination makes me want to see the end of this struggle in advance. So I took a natural attitude towards the appearance of this new color on my head-knowing that the situation that black will be replaced by white is irreversible, why not calm down! Only calm and correct, just a negative attitude, in my opinion, white hair is an eye-catching notice, telling me that the autumn of life is coming; White hair is a silent alarm, warning me that I am not rich and my strength will not be strong; White hair is an inscription on my temple. Whenever I look in the mirror, it urges me to work hard and be diligent. Ouyang Wenzhong said publicly, "Although the temple has been changed, try listening to the old songs again." I don't have any gold, but porcelain can also "drink, don't stop drinking". As for the old songs, I not only like listening to them, but also like singing them again. When singing old songs, I secretly like it. My hair has changed, but my childlike innocence has not changed.
Suffer from insomnia
It is difficult for a person whose thoughts are disturbed to roam in the dreamland; I can't sleep, so I have to close my eyes on my pillow and think, or stare at death, alone and waiting for dawn to come to the window. "The night is not awkward, and the soul is not awkward." Qu Yuan's words can be described as the taste of insomnia.
Insomnia is not a special treatment, regardless of status, age and seniority, everyone can taste it. Young people have to go to school, find a job, choose a spouse, and work hard for their families and countries. There are many opportunities for insomnia. No matter men or women, once they reach the "love season", their hearts will not be peaceful. When lovers are separated by a window paper, it is inevitable to guess and measure all day; When enough paper burst, I fell in love with a thunderbolt (to be exact, it should be two), especially crazy love, thinking about it day and night. The Book of Songs? There is a saying in Guanju: "Youyou, tossing and turning", Youyou, missing; Tossing and turning, insomnia is also a state. When things change suddenly, love becomes lovelorn. Although those people who are stuck in their minds day and night are still lingering, what emerges in front of them is not a warm smiling face, but a cold back. When lovelorn people think that people who have lost face will replay the programs they once performed with others, how can they not be worried and heartbroken? The result of heartburn and heartburn is insomnia night after night.
Middle age is the most complicated and burdensome stage in a person's life. Many people need to take care of the young and old, that is, they have to drag their heavy family carts to climb mountains, and they have to work hard for their own ideals and careers, or for an unfulfilled goal or an unsatisfied desire. So there are more reasons for insomnia: either because of salary adjustment, job title evaluation, housing distribution, or busy with promotion. Or because of career setbacks, or because of life problems, or because of the burden of the elderly, or because children are useless ... The ancient poem goes: "When you are cold, you know how thin you are, and the night is long." When people reach middle age, they have many troubles. If you are not open-minded, indifferent, and haggle over the gains and losses of fame and fortune, I am afraid you will know that the night is longer than young people.
After going through ups and downs, when you get old, you can "keep everything together" and enjoy your old age with your children and grandchildren. However, "people are always worried about whether they are chitose before they are born 100". Some people worry about their children today, their daughters tomorrow, and their grandchildren the day after tomorrow, and they are even willing to be cattle and horses for their children and grandchildren. Some people are still obsessed with fame and wealth and power, hoping that their wings can cover their children and grandchildren, so their selfish desires are deeper. Life is short, and time is running out. You can live in love and die in fear. Every time I think about it, I will inevitably worry. You are worried, worried and often can't sleep at night. Over time, insomnia can only be avoided by taking sedatives.
Besides being prone to insomnia because of too many desires and dreams, the violent fluctuation of emotions is also an important reason for insomnia. Fan Jin won the ju, and the surprise turned into madness. If his father-in-law hadn't killed the pig, he would have been excited for several days. The battle of Feishui was defeated by the Jin army, and the soldiers who fled for their lives were "trembling and thought they were the main commanders." How can a person who is so scared sleep? Because of the death of relatives and friends, people who "frequently caress coffins in caves and cry" are probably unable to sleep at night because of extreme grief; Nine times out of ten, corrupt elements and criminals are restless. ...
Although the taste of insomnia is unpleasant, except for patients with neurasthenia, staying awake for three or two nights is not a disease. Mr. Liang Shiqiu said, "If you fall, you have to toss and turn, because you have fears, obstacles and desires ..." Conversely, if a person has neither fears nor obstacles, why can't he fall into a dream? Indifferent and open-minded people seldom suffer from insomnia; And those who work hard all day and earn their own living sleep soundly without choosing a bed, and most of them don't even know what hypnotics and valium are.
Dwelling; bedding
"Snail body, and our feeling is the same, soft and timid. It needs a thick shell, and it often goes into it unconsciously to beg for safety and warmth. This thick shell is a home composed of parents, children, oil bottles and salt cans! " This is a metaphor that Ms. Bing Xin made for her family. It is called snail shell only if it doesn't come from the ice heart. "The History of the Three Kingdoms" contains: During the Three Kingdoms period, Jiao Xian and Yang Pei built a round house, which looked like a snail's shell, so it was called "dwelling in a humble abode"; Lu You wrote a poem called "Dwelling House": "Dwelling House has been empty for a hundred years." From this perspective, people have two meanings compared with snails. One is that home is a place to seek safety, warmth and rest; Second, it refers to a simple and narrow home, which can only accommodate.
I envy that the snail can travel around with its "home", but no matter how far away from home, I can't live anywhere like it, and I still have to get into this "shell" fixed in one place. I pity the snail's low mobility. It can only crawl in a narrow range, but I can travel long distances by means of transportation according to my own needs and financial resources. However, although I have the ability to travel far by means of transportation that snails don't have, my range of activities is still quite snail-like, because the only places I often go are offices, food markets and post offices, and the radius of activities rarely exceeds 1 Li. Most of the time, I stay at home like a snail in a shell, reading and writing to kill myself.
In my humble abode, there are no high-grade carpets under my feet, no gorgeous chandeliers on my head, no nameless calligraphy and painting on the wall, and no antique shelves for bonsai wine cabinets. Most of the furniture is outdated, and it is naturally unsightly to say that it is practical and reluctant to use it. However, although humble, humble humble dwelling has rich contents: there is a direct dial phone in the study to keep in touch with relatives and friends who are thousands of miles away and close to the port; There is a computer that can do word processing, which makes my manuscript neat and beautiful and avoids the pain of repeated copying; More importantly, 1000 books are available for me to read at any time. For a person who does not advocate wealth, he can have such a study without worry about food and clothing.
Housing has many functions for me. This is the foundation of my life. I can rely on it to shelter from the wind and rain, prevent heatstroke and keep out the cold, and cook here with my cooking skills only at the primary school level to maintain my life. It is my school, where I can take diligence as the way, climb the mountain of books, which is as high as the sky, and cross the vast sea of learning by boat; I can "visit" ancient and modern sages at will and listen to them "talk" with suspicion and picky psychology. That is the workshop where I make spiritual products. I write my thoughts into words, input them into a computer, and then print them on paper, and then let these "white pigeons" carrying the fruits of my labor fly in all directions. It is the ark of my spirit, where I can tear off the mask of social intercourse, throw away worldly troubles and avoid the measurement of snobbery; My imagination can fly out of my humble abode at any time and roam freely and endlessly; I can sing whatever I want, cry if I want, smile happily, scold if I want; Bow your head and whisper, no one says I'm talking; Who laughs at my madness? Hiding in this spiritual ark, I can enjoy the tranquility beyond things and enjoy the joy of overlooking the world.
I usually have a narrow range of activities. Compared with those who make many friends, I look like a snail. However, my spiritual world is getting wider and wider because of the absence of my friends. Because dwelling in a humble abode is my favorite way of existence, I seldom get out of this immovable "thick shell" if it is not necessary for my life.
The bill of life
Most people pay more attention to the expenditure of money. Even if they don't keep accounts like the accountant, they have a rough bill in mind, but they often don't care much about time. If someone records the time people spend in their work and life, it is not only interesting, but also may make people feel and be alert.
The French magazine "Point of Interest" made a calculation on the domination of time in a person's life: "Standing: 30 years; Sleep: 23 years; Sit:17; Walking:16; Operation: 1 year and 75 days; Eat: 6 -7 years; Watching TV: 6 years; Driving: 5 years; Dreaming: 4 years; Chatting and laughing: 1 year 258 days; Cooking: 1 year 195 days; Dressing: 1 year 166 days; Queue: 1 year 135 days; Holidays: 1 year and 75 days; Reading: 250 days; Toilet: 195 days; Making love: 1 10 days; Brush your teeth: 92 days; Cry: 50 days; Greeting: 8 days; Look at the time: 3 days. " The BBC has also commissioned human research experts to make a "quantitative" analysis of human life span, and some figures can be used as a supplement to this calculation: "Bathing: 2 years; Waiting to fall asleep: 18 weeks; Call: 2 and a half years; Waiting for someone to call back: 1 week; Kissing: 2 weeks: the time for a man to do nothing in his life: 2 and a half years. " The above calculation and quantitative analysis are not comprehensive, and some figures are not very convincing and reliable, but they also give us a general list of living bills.
A series of figures on this bill surprised me and secretly calculated a time account for myself. When I was young, I had the experience of drinking too much. I seldom get drunk when I am drunk, but when I get drunk, I have to sleep for several hours. After waking up, my brain is still dizzy and unable to work normally. I calculated the time of drinking: it takes at least 8 hours to fall asleep after drinking (not counting the state of being in a daze after waking up), that is, a working day, 8 times a month, 96 working days a year, and 2880 working days if drinking for 30 years. Fortunately, I changed my environment and stopped indulging in alcohol, so this completely unnecessary expense was reduced on my living bill. I am a smoker. I calculated the time it takes to smoke: it takes me about 5 minutes to smoke a cigarette, because I have to stop working or postpone doing something. I smoke a pack every day, and it takes 100 minutes, which is 36,000 minutes a year, which is 600 hours. If I am a smoker for 40 years, I will spend 24,000 hours, or 3,000 working days. If I spend this time reading and writing, how many books and articles will I read and write? Besides, lying down and not working is like two pigs that will never be fed. I don't know how much time I could have spent working.
Of course, I'm not the only one who wastes time at will. Some people are willing to chat, and one day no one talks nonsense with him, and it feels like a year. Some people enjoy making long-night drinks, and two or three drinkers can't enjoy themselves without five or six hours; Some people are willing to gamble and often build the Great Wall all night. Some people chatted happily on the phone and talked for an hour or two. Some people sleep happily, let alone the sunrise, even if the sun is shining, they still can't afford to lie down ... Some figures on these people's living bills will be rewritten, or they will talk for 8 years; Or drinking for 6 years; Or call for 5 years; Or rubbing hemp in 12; Or sleep for 30 years ... According to the calculation results, Interest Point magazine concludes that only 40% of the waking hours of adults in a year are used for work. I'm afraid those who spend too much time can only spend 20-30% or even less time at work.
People always know the numbers in their bankbooks, and every expenditure has its purpose. If they spend money improperly, they will feel regret and regret, and even feel stung by scorpions for a long time. As we all know, life is like a passbook, and the number in this passbook will only decrease rather than increase. If we devote a part of our lives to meaningless things, it will cause irreparable losses to meaningful work. Everyone who cherishes life and doesn't want to waste it should always check his life bill, sort out past expenses, sum up lessons, correct mistakes, make reasonable plans, try to reduce unnecessary expenses and spend every day of his life like spending money.
Through life
Franklin has a famous saying: "Do you love life? Then don't waste time, because life is made of time. " Since human life is made up of time, the time we usually spend on anything is a consumption of life, which can never be compensated.
People spend their lives like money. Some people spend money carefully. They never waste unnecessary expenses. Some people have no plans and squander at will, making a lot of expenses meaningless; Some people use it where it should be used, but they are reckless and overdrawn at will. ...
There is no need to look in books and newspapers. I'm afraid there are such people around us: young and rich. Perhaps because they are rich, they take time seriously, or wander around, or talk all day, or rub hemp all night, or sing and dance all night ... There is no way to kill time, so they just lie in bed and daydream all day. Speaking of reading and studying, as Mr. Lin Yutang said in his doggerel, "Spring is not a day to study, but summer is just a good time to sleep. Going to Qiu Lai in summer and arriving in winter, you can pack your schoolbag for the New Year. " Or make a big wish: "I will study hard next year." However, it sounds promising, but in fact it is just "next year and the year after." Some people can't stand the slightest loneliness and are eager to see them off and make friends; Some people believe in "eat, drink and be merry", indulge in debauchery and enjoy it. The result of all kinds of squandering life can only be "a white boy's head, empty and sad." The sad reason, of course, is that I spent most of my life and got nothing.
Contrary to the above-mentioned people, some people focus on their careers, or work hard for months to write long stories, or work hard for years to complete a scientific research project. They often forget to eat and sleep at work and stay up all night. They are not so much betting on their health as overdrawing their lives at will. Because health directly affects the length of life. When Balzac wrote, he worked seventeen or eighteen hours a day, and it was common to write all night. In order to keep his brain excited, he drinks strong coffee to refresh himself. He died at the age of 50 because of years of fatigue and illness. Drinking a lot of coffee is one of the causes of Balzac's heart disease, so some people say that he "died of 30 thousand cups of coffee." In order not to be disturbed by trivial matters, Lu Yao wrote "Ordinary World" and hid in a mining area. He worked hard day and night and devoted himself to writing. Sometimes he is sleepy and falls asleep at his desk. When you are hungry, chew a few cold buns and eat a pack of instant noodles to satisfy your hunger. After finishing this masterpiece, he became seriously ill. Because Lu Yao often "played hard" when writing, he finally got a terminal illness and died at the age of 42. Among scientists, there are countless examples of premature death due to overwork.
It is sad that people waste their lives by doing nothing or having fun, but otherwise, these people may not be able to spend their lives meaningfully. Those who are willing to overdraw their lives or even die young for their careers are great losses to themselves and society.
Although there are differences in the length of a person's life, on average, there is a general fate. How we spend this fixed life is a problem that cannot be ignored. It is not advisable to waste or squander your life in vain. I am afraid it is not worth advocating to risk your health for your career and overdraw your life at will. I think it is necessary for people to spend some time for survival and career. It is also necessary to spend some time for rest, entertainment and fitness. Because this part of the expenditure is related to our health, and health is the basic guarantee of life.
Chernyshevski said: "A person who lives a good life should divide his time into three parts: work, entertainment, rest or recreation." This Russian writer not only tells us how to live, but also tells us how to spend our lives.
The power of encouragement
Encouragement is not unrealistic encouragement, but gives spiritual confidence to the enterprising, courage to the hesitant, determination to the hesitant and hope to the discouraged. In a word, encouragement is a kind of spiritual help.
The role of encouragement is often incalculable. After the defeat, Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was besieged by Wu Jun in Huiji Mountain. He looked at the only remaining 5,000 defeated soldiers around him and couldn't help but lose heart and despair. He sighed and said, "Is this the end of my fate?" Wen Zhong, the minister, said to him, "King Shang Tang was once imprisoned in Xiatai, once imprisoned in (Wei Xiao has been to the United States), fled to the tribe and fled to Shandong. In the end, they all became kings and dominated one side. Why is your majesty so discouraged? " After Gou Jian was pardoned by Fu Cha, the king of Wu, he finally destroyed the State of Wu through hard work. If Wen Zi and others had followed him and even hid their faces and wept, Gou Jian might have drawn his sword and killed himself, and the state of Yue might have perished.
The power of encouragement is most likely to be shown when the encouraged person is in trouble. With spiritual and material help, the encouraged person will tide over the difficulties, make firm progress towards the set goals, and finally succeed. Xu Beihong left his hometown and came to Shanghai when he was young, in order to realize his ambition. But because I couldn't find a job for a while, I couldn't afford the hotel fee, so I was detained by the hotel owner and driven out of the gate. When Xu Beihong was pessimistic and disappointed, he bid farewell to Mr. Huang Jingwan, who had helped him find a job but failed, and went to the Huangpu River alone. Just as he was wandering by the river, Mr. Huang followed him, rushed behind him and hugged him. Teacher Huang advised him not to be discouraged and not to commit suicide, and then took him to the dormitory of the Commercial Press to live with him and tried to find him a job. Mr. Huang admired Xu Beihong's painting talent and later recommended it to Huzhou silk merchant Huang Zhenzhi. Huang Zhenzhi sympathized with Xu Beihong's experience and took good care of accommodation and food, which relieved his worries in life. Therefore, Xu Beihong nicknamed himself "Huang Fu", so he worked hard and finally became a famous artist.
A little success is also an encouragement. This kind of encouragement can often determine a person's choice of a career. A writer said that he embarked on the road of literature because when he was in middle school, a municipal tabloid published his essay and sent him a fee of 60 cents. A very rich man said that he went into business in the sea because he bought some gadgets with his parents' pocket money in his early years and then bought them for some children, making eight yuan easily. ...
The power of encouragement is sometimes great, but the efforts of the encouragers are mostly small, maybe only a few words, maybe only a few lines. Stories like Wen Zi's that let Gou Jian get rid of despair and concentrate on rejuvenating the country and destroying the enemy are rare in history, but there are countless examples that encourage someone to get out of setbacks and make him succeed in a certain career. When people are in trouble, they have a deep memory of a little spiritual or material assistance. We often hear a successful person sigh with gratitude when recalling the past: "I am very grateful for someone's encouragement (or help), otherwise …" This is enough to make those who encouraged him feel happy and proud.
As a few words of encouragement often have great effects, I think a helpful and enthusiastic person probably won't spare his words when his friends need encouragement.
Say self-esteem
Self-esteem is an innate quality of human beings. How old a child is, he is happy when he hears praise, but unhappy when he is scolded. This is due to self-esteem. Self-esteem often determines a person's attitude towards the world. Some people work hard, don't want to lag behind others, dare to participate in social competition, and can keep winning. For these people, self-esteem is the driving force for them to strive to improve themselves and succeed in a certain career. In order to maintain self-esteem, some people would rather give up what is regarded as glory in the eyes of the secular, or even give up their own lives. Li Bai "Oh, how can I solemnly bow and scrape to those high officials who never want to be seen with sincere faces"; Lu Xun "is unwilling to praise his authority under the sword of power"; The nameless hungry people in the state of Qi would rather starve to death than "eat the food he got", all of which are awe-inspiring examples of self-esteem.
Although self-esteem can make people perfect themselves and become the driving force for progress, self-esteem may also be distorted by special life experiences or some weaknesses.