Blind date will meet all kinds of people. We cannot predict who these people are. There will always be people who are attracted to you, or people who are attracted to you, or people who are not attracted to you, or everyone has a general impression. In short, the higher the expectations, the more disappointed they will be. So if you really want a blind date, don't think that you can succeed by taking a photo, and don't think that you can fall in love with each other when you meet. If you can fall in love at first sight, you will never come to blind date.
Of course, if you really meet a boy you don't like, don't refuse others directly. Just say that you will definitely offend others. No matter what the reason, if you show any dissatisfaction, the other party will discount your impression and even speak ill of you. The best way to refuse is to let the other person take the initiative to leave.
The Qing emperor in "Happy Family" has a learning template. Fan Xian was betrothed to Wan'er Lin by the Qing Emperor, and they were ready to get married. However, Fan Xian's reputation was ruined in front of a stone house, because he had a conflict with Guo's son, and the minister who was doing nothing was beating the people of Guo Jiayuan. Everyone knows that he is a rude and vulgar person.
This is an extremely shameful thing for a prime minister. The future son-in-law is so lacking in self-restraint in front of outsiders. Presumably he would ask the Qing emperor to cancel the engagement. The Qing emperor was also very wise and had guessed his actions and thoughts. Immediately, Prime Minister Lin could not ask for instructions through the following actions. How did he do it? This is worth learning when many girls refuse boys on blind dates.
First, find a seat that makes the other person uncomfortable.
Don't underestimate this detail. This detail can kill people's patience in minutes and make them leave in a hurry. That's what the Qing emperors did. After Prime Minister Lin handed in the paper, he said that his legs and feet were tired and he wanted to invite him for a cup of tea. Presumably, his intention is not to drink tea, but to cancel the engagement. The Qing emperor deliberately asked his father-in-law to make the fire in the stove more prosperous, which made Lin Xiang sweat and fidget, which directly affected a person's judgment. Just like when you are running in the gym, a personal trainer sells courses to you. It's the same reason that the manager sells you projects when you are in pain in the beauty salon.
If the boy you see on a blind date is not your favorite, don't show any dissatisfaction. You can find an uncomfortable place to sit, such as a vent, such as a chair without a backrest, or a narrow space, which can directly affect his personal experience. Nobody wants to stay in an uncomfortable place for a long time.
Second, instill negative energy.
As soon as Lin Xiang sat down, the Qing emperor said that it was not good for Fan to be idle and asked Lin Xiang's opinion. Lin Xiang made no mention of Fan's idleness, but praised it greatly. The Qing emperor inexplicably asked him why he was so optimistic about Fan Xian, but Lin Xiang wisely turned the topic to the Qing emperor, saying that he believed in your majesty, but the husbands chosen by your majesty were all good, which indirectly indicated that the son-in-law Fan Xian had nothing to do with this, and the one with a bad reputation was also your majesty's.
Then, if you are chatting with a blind date you don't like, and you want him to leave early, then you can talk more about negative energy, which will make him feel pessimistic and impatient and will naturally leave.
Of course, we can also make some efforts in diet. Let's meet together, there will be something to drink and eat. If we don't like it, we will choose bitter drinks, such as black coffee. In short, try to make his experience uncomfortable, so that you will despise him and the responsibility will not be yours.
Blind date is an embarrassing activity, but now many people can accept it to get married, just like expanding their social circle. But if you try to do it when you refuse others, the bad impression you leave on others will spread widely.