About "Why can't a good woman marry a good man?" This question, Bian Xiao sorted out the user's answers from multiple channels, so that everyone can understand it more comprehensively.
1. The following opinions were praised by 89 people and had 67 exchanges and discussions:
What woman doesn't want to marry a good man and live a good life. Can look at the reality coldly, but my mind is full of "a good woman with love rat, a good man loves love rat". 1. The good man a woman is looking for is perfect. Some particularly outstanding women want to find a better man to match. But elites are not college students after all, they are everywhere. Besides, there are many excellent women, and they also like good men. Some men are kind and generous, but only to others; Marriage always shows us the truth naked, and the truth is that men and women are not as good as we think. Good people are rewarded. Why does "men are not bad and women don't love" make sense? Quite simply, good men are too busy to study women. Good men always want to respect each other and will not arouse women's emotions; A good man has strong self-esteem and won't give in to women easily, while women like to coquetry.
2. Wonderful answer:
How to define "good"? Good appearance or good heart? I think a kind-hearted woman will live well, at least in the end. So are men. If you are unlucky, you can only say that you have poor eyesight and can't judge people, or that you are too greedy, too indulgent to yourself and too demanding of others.
3. Wonderful answer:
In men's eyes, a good woman is beautiful, gentle and considerate, can do housework, has a decent style and can share joys and sorrows with her husband in life. And this kind of woman is the most ideal wife for most men. But such women all have the same idea, that is, they are very confident. They always think that a man will pursue her. Although this kind of man has no ability at work, it is really handy to catch up with women, and they like it. Finally, good women are moved by the true feelings of such men and become their wives. Murder will out. When a married woman finds that her married husband is unable to support her family, she will also be dissatisfied with her husband, regret being fooled by her, want a divorce, fear that her children will be hurt, fear that relatives, friends and colleagues will look down on herself, and fear that others will say that she is a bad woman, so she can only make do at home and outside. Secretly complaining about his bad life. There are also some good women who blindly obey their husbands, which will spoil them. Men are active, and sometimes they are thoughtless. Women are prone to make mistakes if they don't teach them. In this way, over and over again, slowly stay more and more, and finally get off the road. There are also some women who think they are excellent and don't decorate themselves. They think it is enough to take care of their husbands. They don't know that some men just look at the pot, and they will be moved when they see other beautiful women, so sometimes bad men are spoiled by good women. Don't be too tight, you can't ignore everything.
4. Wonderful answer:
Who said that? My daughter-in-law is a good woman, and I am not a bad person. Haha ~ get down to business. This question is not objective and somewhat extreme. However, it is understandable, because there are indeed many good women in people's eyes who are scarred by men in real life, which leads some people to draw a one-sided conclusion. So, what do these people think of as a good woman? Simply put, they will have these characteristics more or less: they will be considerate and always think of others; Hard-working and able to bear the burden of humiliation; Kind-hearted, unwilling to think the worst of people. These characteristics determine that when they get along with others, they either seem to realize this and feel the pain when they are deeply hurt; Either in the face of repeated forbearance, the damage will be deeper and deeper. Such people, once they meet love rat and get hurt, will have great differences in personality, which will make their experiences resonate with others greatly. Because this kind of emotion is very strong, even if only a few such women in 100 suffer misfortune in love or marriage, people will be deeply impressed by this situation and draw corresponding conclusions. As for the example of a good woman marrying a good man, no matter how many, we probably won't pay attention to it. Because in everyone's consciousness, this is a matter of course. Therefore, it's not that a good woman can't marry a good man, but that it doesn't attract our attention.
5. Wonderful answer:
How do you say this question? A good woman includes many aspects, and the beauty of appearance is very beautiful visually. What about inside? This is a secret between you and me. Why can't a good woman marry a good man? Some women must insist on this mate selection condition, and men must have good looks, a car, a house and a deposit. However, there are no perfect people in the whole world, including women. Therefore, there are many factors in this matter. Yun, he is handsome, but he is worth hundreds of millions, and his wife is not very beautiful. On the other hand, Ha Wen, the general director of CCTV before the Spring Festival Gala, looks good, but he wants to marry Li Yong, a Matou man. Who can understand? Actor Xu Fan and Xiaogang Feng are married! How far does it look? In short, a good woman cannot marry a good man, mainly because of money, status and so on. As long as a woman chooses this condition, she will marry a good man!