This is a long-discussed topic about the influence of age on love. Some people think that love is a wonderful emotion for no reason, so love has nothing to do with age. Why can't two people with a big age gap fall in love?
However, many people will think that love with great age difference is a kind of love that challenges social ethics and is shameful. But strangely, this society's acceptance of male couples is much higher than that of female couples. Such double standards are somewhat confusing.
However, in the 2 1 century, the social acceptance of age-difference love is getting higher and higher, especially for young people in the new era. A large number of them respect others' personal choices, and they are willing to tolerate the existence of that small number of people.
Just like a couple in Korea, objectively speaking, the woman is a 42-year-old aunt. However, she met her love in the gym, and she had the courage to catch up with the 25-year-old little fresh meat. Of course, the final outcome is also very satisfactory. They gave birth to twins, so what is their life now? Does it still prove to the world that love beyond age will still be sweet?
Love in gymnastics competition.
None of us can hold the hands of the clock, and no one can stop the passage of time. Objectively, there is no way to stop people from getting old, and everyone will eventually get old.
But we can still keep our appearance and body young in many ways, and fitness is one of the very healthy ways. It is true that exercise makes people young. And sometimes, accidents and surprises will always come quietly in your persistence.
Just like Jin Xiyuan in South Korea, although she is 42 years old, she has always had high requirements for her figure, so she has always adhered to the habit of going to the gym and is also a frequent visitor to the gym.
But no one expected that in this place, she would meet someone and let herself fall in love. This man is a fitness instructor in the gym.
Because one is a frequent visitor to the gym and the other is a fitness instructor in the gym, the two often meet in the gym and often chat while exercising. Jin Xiyuan thinks that he and the fitness instructor have many topics and similar ideas. Over time, they have different feelings for fitness instructors.
Auntie, start the chase mode.
But this relationship is not so easy, because the fitness instructor is 25 years younger than Jin Xiyuan 17 years old. The age gap discouraged Jin Xiyuan at first, but in the end she decided to face up to her feelings.
Jin Xiyuan started her own chase mode. After she was strong-hearted, she punched in at the gym every day, and the master chatted with the 25-year-old fresh meat coach, having a good chat. With Jin Xiyuan's persistence every day, they become more familiar and know each other better.
It is said that time is a good medicine. In the process of getting along with each other every day, the young fitness coach was gradually moved by Jin Xiyuan, and his feelings for Jin Xiyuan gradually changed. So after the two finally showed their cards on the table and showed their intentions to each other, they finally decided to be together.
This is a feeling that should be blessed. They also know that there may be many opposing voices waiting for them, but they believe in love and have the courage to love is the most admirable behavior.
In this day and age, it is not easy to bravely show her mind to the person she likes, but Jin Xiyuan dares to break free from the shackles that bind her in this world and bravely take action against the person she likes, and the fitness coach also bravely responds to this feeling. Isn't this love worth blessing? They are a brave couple.
Be opposed by parents
The first obstacle to their love is their parents, especially the parents of fitness instructors. They don't want their 25-year-old son to marry a 42-year-old woman at all. Korean traditional culture is similar to that of China, which is really unacceptable to the older generation.
However, if a relationship can't stand this test and is separated by people other than two people, then this relationship is a failure and not worth remembering.
Fortunately, Jin Xiyuan and the fitness instructor attach great importance to this relationship. In the face of opposition, neither of them gave up, but they strengthened their determination to influence the elderly with actions.
In fact, the reason why the old people object is very simple. They are afraid of the unreliability of the age gap. They are afraid that their children will be hurt in this relationship, so their opposition is out of a protective mentality. Parents are the people who want us to be happy the most in the world, so they have no reason to stop you from meeting true love.
Jin Xiyuan also used his own actions to prove to his elders that they were not playing, but were seriously in love, and finally moved the old people.
Step into marriage and welcome twins.
So the two entered the marriage hall with the blessing of their parents. After marriage, their life is still very sweet, and they soon have their own children.
Although Jin Xiyuan has always kept the habit of keeping fit and has a good physical quality, it is an objective fact that she is a 42-year-old woman, but both of them want to have children of their own, so Jin Xiyuan is willing to take the risk.
So Jin Xiyuan began to pay special attention to his physical condition, consult professional doctors on a regular basis, receive regular examinations, and maintain good work and rest and eating habits. She hopes that she will be fully prepared to meet the child.
For those who love life, life is always a surprise. Under the careful care of her husband, Jin Xiyuan gave birth to a pair of healthy and lovely twins safely and smoothly. This may be a gift from heaven, rewarding them for sticking to the truth and guarding love.
Wonderful present life
Now, Jin Xiyuan and the fitness instructor have become online celebrity couples. They often take photos of two people exercising together on their social accounts, and Jin Xiyuan in the photos always has a happy smile on his face.
Fitness couples are also in good shape. Standing beside her husband, Jin Xiyuan couldn't see that she was a 42-year-old aunt 17 years older than her husband, and more like a lively and lovely little girl.
When they had their own children, they even started sunbathing, and often shared the lovely appearance and growth records of their two twin children, which was blessed by many people.
In fact, Jin Xiyuan's happiness is earned by ourselves. Many times, we care too much about the age in objective time and neglect to keep young inside. Only when we are young in thought can a person be truly young, and this youth is the charm that radiates from the inside out.
Summary:
Life is actually very short. Decades later, Jin Xiyuan was lucky to find his love at the age of 42. She lives her own life and doesn't care about worldly vision.
But some people are willing to worry about others, and they always like to say, "Look at it in twenty years." I don't know what they want to see Will a fitness coach who has been gambling for 20 years abandon Jin Xiyuan, 60?
Please give this realistic society more beauty and expectation. Maybe love is not eternal, but Jin Xiyuan will have a life that she doesn't regret, a love that makes her happy, and be able to meet someone at her best and spend those wonderful years together. Isn't it lucky and happy enough for this short life? People only live once, and living the present is the best rule in life.