I believe that many parents have had an argument with their children on this issue, which is unpleasant.
So, is there an effective method?
In my opinion, there is still a way, which is much more difficult than it is, isn't it? However, because every family and every child has their own characteristics, the experience of others may not be suitable for you. Then, the best way is to learn from other people's experience, and at the same time, you must pay attention to exploring a management method that suits you.
So, let me talk about several ways.
1, do not buy a mobile phone.
Don't buy a mobile phone for your child, it will naturally be inconvenient for him to play with it. However, some children may play with their parents' mobile phones, which requires adults to supervise and care for their mobile phones.
Of course, the best way is that the whole family doesn't have a mobile phone. Without a mobile phone, the problem will be easy to handle. However, in today's society, without mobile phones, we seem to have lost contact with the world. It is obviously impossible not to play with mobile phones. Therefore, only don't buy mobile phones for children.
2. Parents should not play mobile phones in front of their children.
Many children's habits, including bad habits, are directly or indirectly caused by their parents. Children's behavior habits are basically influenced by their parents.
Therefore, in order to let children not play mobile phones and play less, then parents must do it, not play mobile phones in front of their children. If at home, parents are all playing with mobile phones in a daze, then let the children not play with mobile phones, and the children will definitely not listen.
Of course, just because parents don't play mobile phones in front of their children doesn't mean they just sleep with their heads held. Parents can set an example for their children and give them positive guidance. For example, do housework diligently, wash clothes, mop the floor, or go to school to guide children to read.
3. Play parent-child games with children.
In order to keep children busy, parents should play parent-child games with their children more often. All kinds of games are ok. Search the internet for interesting games, or games that kindergartens often let you play.
4. Accompany the children to do manual work.
Handmade products are also very popular now, so you can spend more time with your children. Such as clay sculpture, sculpture, paper cutting, paper paste, other hand-made and so on.
5. Cultivate children's interest.
Parents can cultivate at least one hobby or specialty for their children. Observe the child more and see what he likes to do. Cultivate what children like.
For example, chess: chess, checkers, military chess, go, gobang and so on. For example, musical instruments: electronic organ, piano, guitar, guzheng, erhu and so on. Such as singing; Such as dancing; Such as calligraphy; Like painting.
6. Cultivate children's sports hobbies.
Every child should have at least one sports hobby, which can not only exercise, but also make himself have fun. At the same time, sports hobbies are also the best way to release or vent.
Such as basketball, table tennis, badminton, fitness, martial arts, taekwondo, boxing, fencing, table tennis and so on.
7. Play various puzzle games.
Parents can also play various educational games with their children. Such as puzzles, Rubik's cube, catching turtles and so on.
I believe there are many ways that our parents and friends need to explore.
That's my answer. I hope I can help you. There must be many good ideas about this problem. Welcome to leave a message!
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