There are also some women who think that they really love you only by listening to you, but many times the opposite is true. He just listened, maybe he was just trying to please you or catch up with you, and then he changed completely. On the contrary, it is better to treat you in his way from the beginning. You think his disobedience is not a sign of love, but sometimes it is because of love that he becomes like that. In fact, the more men "toss" you, the more they love you and don't understand.
0 1. He will "manage" you. Many people will definitely resist the word "management". They feel that they are all independent individuals. Why do they manage themselves? But if this "management" comes from caring and caring for you, do you still think that he cares about you and does not give you freedom? For example, if it rains heavily, take shelter from the rain and remember to wear more clothes and pants. Don't play if you have a cold, lest you catch another cold. I want to play with you, but I am worried that no one will take care of me.
Maybe you'll feel a little annoyed. Is there no daily life of your own? But you should also understand that the person who is so "in charge" of you can't help doing that, because he loves you to the bone. If he doesn't really love you, he won't care about you. He would rather spend this time playing games or doing other things that are happier for him. When he is in charge of you, you need to understand that this is also the reason why he should take good care of you and care about you. Naturally, if you feel that you are too "in charge", you can communicate, and I believe he can understand.
02. He will become "naive". A man always looks like a child in front of the woman he loves. You may think he is immature, but this is only the main performance in front of you. He likes selling cute to you, pestering you and staying with you, but he wants to find a kind of waiting. When he is always naive, you need to understand that his heart really loves you.
Before, a friend, A Nan, often teased her husband, saying it was more like dog food. She often says that people that big often do childish things and often ask her how much she loves herself. If she only gives him a perfunctory response, he will still be angry. Seeing other friends of the opposite sex, he will lose his temper and be cold and violent to her for a few days. At first, she couldn't stand it. Gradually, she understood that this is also her husband's love for her. Maybe it was a little naive at that time, but it was only because she was too afraid to lose it that she was shocked. Sometimes, a man's innocence just wants you to coax him, say something nice to him, and he will be happy again.
03. He will make demands on you. When he loves you the most, it is not that he has no demands on you. On the other hand, he will make demands on you. Maybe you think you will do your own thing, but he wants you to be stronger, so he will ask you this. For example, he wants you to improve yourself and become a more successful person. Even if it costs him a lot of money, he will spare no effort, as long as it is something you are really interested in.
Previously, Xiaoxi didn't understand why her husband "forced" her to learn training. She usually likes studying and writing, so her husband will buy her a lot of books and give him some courses, hoping that she will be happier doing these things. If she can make him better according to this matter, he will feel happy, too. True love is not selfish, but unrequited. I seem to have a request for you. It's actually a way to fall in love with you. If you want to see you become stronger and make you happier, this is his love for you.
Conclusion: Everyone has different expressions of love. Some people think that obedience is love, but sometimes tossing is also a kind of love. If his torture to you is based on the purpose of caring for you and making you stronger, then this torture is a kind of love. Don't misunderstand his meaning.
If he doesn't really like you, he won't be willing to waste these time and energy. What's wrong with using this time? He had to toss about these things. If you understand his kindness to you, don't refuse again. It is better to accept and feel his love for you with your heart!