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How to treat the jealousy of the elderly in square dance?
Old men and women dance square dance to exercise.

How can jumping be jealous?

However, it makes sense to understand that the elderly are older, mostly single, and live separately from the younger generation. Without communication, they will easily suffer from Alzheimer's disease and even various senile diseases, loneliness and depression.

It is good for your health and mood to go out for a walk and integrate into society. Men and women can dance square dance together, get in touch with feelings, and have an activity association, which is worthy of praise.

As an outsider, it is much better for elderly men and women to establish a big family. "Men and women are collocated and work is not tiring", which not only broadens their horizons, but also makes them more cheerful, which is much better than being placed in a nursing home.

Of course, "when the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds", and the elderly will also have individual black sheep. A mouse ruined a pot of soup. They harass and flirt with their partners in the name of dancing square dance. Moreover, the evil forces of jealousness and jealousy have been formed over time by forming gangs and suppressing others.

Even, some elderly men and women live together in the name of square dance, breaking up their wives and families, resulting in bloody cases.

As for the old people who dance square dance, they are jealous of each other. It is verified that there are rivers and lakes where there are people, and there are people where there are rivers and lakes. This is called society.

But society has social rules, more positive energy, more dancing morality, better dancing, more beautiful dancing, different life, less jealousy and less relationship between men and women, right?

Everyone knows that square dance is the favorite of aunts. If you dance square dance, you may be jealous of competing for a partner. Is there jealousy in ordinary square dance?

It is really possible. I heard what happened in the nearby square dance. Sister Zhang used to work as a trade union in the factory. She is good at singing and dancing, and she is very beautiful. After retirement, she naturally joined the square dance team. They not only jump, but also often take part in various competitions. There are more than 30 people in the dance team, and there used to be a sister who led the dance. Jason arrived just in time for a game. She always thinks that the actions learned online are too old-fashioned. She suggested looking for a professional teacher to choreograph, so she invited Miss Yang from the gym.

Teacher Yang, 28 years old, is a foreigner and single. This big sister and the previous lead dancer have also been single for many years. Teacher Yang and Sister Zhang have a good relationship and often go to her house for dinner. Knowing that Mr. Yang was renting a house, the lead dancer vacated her three-bedroom apartment for Mr. Yang to live for free.

I heard that Jason and the lead dancer got into a fight, and finally the dance team split in two. Zhang Jie took some people to other venues to dance.

How to treat the jealousy of the elderly in square dance? The subject said that old people who dance square dance will be jealous. I think this kind of thing is rare.

Because most people who dance square dance are middle-aged and elderly women, few men are willing to dance square dance, and old men are willing to dance square dance with their wives. Jealousy is to compete for a partner, which is very common among social dancers.

For example, in our area, when spring is blooming and the weather is warm, people organize ballroom dancing in the square at night. Why don't these people go to the ballroom to dance? Ballrooms are generally in urban areas, and it is inconvenient to take the bus at night. Besides, in summer, the smell in the ballroom is too strong. How nice it is outside! So in spring, summer and autumn, there are many ballroom dancers outside the community. And most of them are middle-aged and elderly people, and no young people want to dance the national standard dance. Old people are jealous of each other and fighting for partners.

Most of the dancers in outdoor dance halls are elderly people, who generally have no fixed partners. Today I dance with you, and tomorrow you go with someone else. Therefore, some old people love to be true, so they will be jealous. Actually, it's not necessary The partners just dance together. It's not like my wife lives together every day, so why be so serious.

In a word, I think there are very few old people who are jealous of each other when dancing square dance. Jealousy is a sign that opposites attract. Then, most of the square dancers are women. What should I do if I am jealous? Ballroom dancing is different. Social dance is a combination of men and women. Therefore, only when dancing ballroom dancing, old people will be jealous of each other. Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

I think it's funny. Square dancing is just for exercise. It's not like young people are in love. What do they earn? What are they jealous of? Without the virtue that the elderly should have, wouldn't it make people laugh? Being old is nothing, but should you also have your own dignity? When is kindness out of date, and character comes first, right?

Where do the elderly go? Where do the old people who love square dancing come from? They all come from places where old people don't mix, so there will be the phenomenon that old people are jealous. Some old women are the places where dead men go to dance, where old people appear, and where retired men and women appear. Some old people are people whose wives are dead, people who go to square dance, people who have a purpose to dance square dance, and people who have sincerity. Where are some old men looking for wives, and where are some old women looking for wives? With the appearance of where the old people went to dance in the square dance, they finally became chaotic men and women who went to dance in the square dance and came out. Although some old people are slow to respond where they appear, they never stop where they want to appear. As time went on, they got to know more people. Later, some sparks broke out between men and women, and some men and women simply fixed the place where they danced square dance. Not surprisingly, where did some old men and women with good feelings come from, and where did the old men and women who danced square dance? After that, I directly became a person who can dance square dance at home. Since then, some old women have appeared. In order to be greedy and cheap, they have inadvertently become people in places where other old women appear. Some old people appear in places where people die of greed, where prepared women go to be prisoners, where people who can't control their own people come out, and where a lot of money is not leaked. The captured old people are also typical. Although it depends on where calm people quietly go to dance square dance, but where the hidden hang-up appears, not to mention where the truth comes from and what kind of square dance appears, we still don't know where there is a hidden hang-up in square dance, where there is a hidden hang-up in square dance, and where there is a hidden hang-up. Some children know where there is a hidden hang-up in the square dance. However, children still can't stop the old man's determination to dance square dance. With the determination of the old people to dance square dance, the private money hidden by the old people is slowly disappearing. This is where the square dance that everyone can't control appears, and the purpose of everyone's love for square dance is gradually exposed. Everyone knows why.

I scoff at such an old man who is jealous on the dance floor. I think they are too boring. Instead of being jealous on the dance floor, it is better to go home and read books and learn calligraphy, calm down and practice yourself well, and don't make a fool of yourself there, making people look at jokes and leaving dignity.

Square dance rarely asks this question like you, because it is a group dance, and there are many situations like national dance. Social dance is a kind of dance for free entertainment for men and women. Some of its movements are choreographed by the dancers themselves, and there is no standard for anyone to dance.

Ballroom dancing is a kind of ballroom dancing. Since the workers were laid off and the factory disintegrated in the late 1990s, no young people danced with most people. In addition, the ballroom is closed, so ballroom ballroom ballroom dancing makes the old people move to squares and parks.

People are exposed to the opportunity to appreciate ballroom dancing, and there is no elegance, civilization and art that they could not reach before. Everyone can dance, which changes the taste of civilized and elegant dance and becomes a turn-over work of yangko.

This will give some dancers who don't focus on dancing a platform. Some women who like not to dance can find any male partner, and no matter what he dances, he becomes a partner.

After a long time, when I jumped out of my feelings and was invited by others, the jealousy of another partner became the reason to be jealous. In short, there are many reasons.

Finally, some decades-old families broke up and separated. Something went wrong, that is, more and more people danced ballroom dancing like this, and ballroom dancing was changed from elegance to vulgarity by these old people.

Confrontation and jealousy can be used in ancient court life, because it is related to survival and interests. Otherwise, it will be mercilessly forgotten or even killed by the pot, which will bring trouble to the family. However, it is not only unkind, objective and inappropriate to use it in the life of the elderly today. Because they don't need to survive in the square dance group, they have no interest at all.

Square dance is mostly attended by middle-aged and elderly people, especially the elderly (over 60 years old). Nowadays, the attributes of square dance can be roughly divided into the following three types:

1. The health care and fitness function of exercise. Most people who take part in square dance exercises all the year round have moderate posture, good muscle maintenance and good health, which is the main reason why the elderly are willing to take part in square dance. Because of this, the relevant state departments have included square dance in one of the national fitness programs. Square dance is a national fitness activity and is protected by law.

2. Enrich the social function of spiritual life. Due to the limitation of life stage, the social activities and social circles of the elderly are reduced, and square dance provides them with this supplement. From the specific practice, these are not only beneficial to the physical and mental health of the elderly, but also can greatly reduce the negative emotions of the elderly and reduce their children's worries about the elderly. It is the positive energy of family society.

3. The confusion of internal relations. The square dance crowd is a spontaneous social group. Although it is organized by team leaders and others, it has no corresponding binding force on its personnel. Participants in the exercise may or may not listen to the team leader and some requirements put forward by the team leader. However, the team leader or team leader did not take management measures such as interview, criticism, punishment and money deduction as the unit did, which led to such groups being loose and disorderly.

Any group will have internal problems, and the elderly group will have more internal problems because of excessive emphasis on dignity and long-term thinking and living habits. If these problems are solved in nursing homes, they will be easily magnified in square dance groups, which will turn from misunderstanding to festivals, thus generating hostility.

This is a normal phenomenon and a social existence. There is no need to make a fuss, let alone be jealous.

There are fewer men in the square dance group. If a man and a woman are very close, and the relationship is not between you and me, everyone knows that they generally don't want to be "light bulbs" and there is no "big fight", which is purely a slander on the elderly. Our fitness team now has more than 100 people, compared with more than 600 people in 20 13 years. In the past ten years, we have met two nice people, but we have never been jealous because of who is close to whom, and we have never been fighting because of who is close to whom.

Old people, like young people, have both advantages and disadvantages and need to be respected. With the further development of social economy, we China people can't lose the virtue of respecting the old and loving the young.

Some problems of square dance groups have their own weaknesses, but there are also many social conditions. For example, the problem of disturbing the people is not only a loud problem, but also a problem that residential buildings are too dense and too close to the park. The old people playing and singing in Jinjiang Mountain Park in Dandong affect the rest of night shift staff, which has not been solved for more than ten years. Law enforcement officers came to measure that people did not exceed the corresponding decibel number, but nearby residents heard loud voices in summer. The old and new communities around Youth Lake are built next to the lake area. As long as everyone speaks loudly before exercise in the morning, it will wake up the residents. It is really difficult to make all the fitness teams of 100 people shut up and stick to it. On the one hand, the old man wants to exercise, on the other hand, he makes noise from 1 am to 6 am downstairs. Who is to blame?

There are only differences in age and psychology between social groups, and there is no difference between good and bad. The so-called "jealousy and jealousy" is a false word. If there is any "big fight", it should be an individual phenomenon, which only shows that the elderly involved are not old.

In fact, only a small number of elderly people dance square dance to exercise. In fact, most old people come to join in the fun to kill loneliness. In fact, old people, like young people, are all "my fair lady, gentlemen are good", and those old ladies are also very greedy for other people's love, so it is not surprising that they are jealous.

After retiring, I found that the long-awaited freedom was actually boring. Because I am a divorced woman, I have been afraid to go out and "show off". I never thought that dancing square dance in the square of the community would not cause trouble, but later I learned that there would be right and wrong where there were people.

When I first joined the square dance team, everyone was still very enthusiastic about me because I danced well. Especially, many old people bring me cushions, pass me water and chat with me. Originally a teammate, I didn't expect an old lady to find my door directly.

The old lady spoke very directly, but she was very cultured. She didn't hurt me by innuendo, but I could also hear that she was strongly dissatisfied with me, which probably meant that she had been with Lao Zhang, who often talked to me, and asked me not to influence them. I realized that they are also single old people. Later, Lao Zhang also found me. He didn't mean that to my wife at all, which made me confused. "I didn't mean to create dust, but the wind blew."

I'm Yao Yan, thank you for reading.

It is a shame for the elderly to go to the square dance and be jealous. This is the loss of the party and the shame of themselves, their families and especially their children!

The purpose of square dance is health and entertainment. Taking square dance as a place of debauchery and enjoyment is tantamount to taking chestnuts from the fire.

The old man is old, in layman's terms, the fire is gone. It's time to spend my old age, pamper my grandson and cherish the innocence of life. However, some elderly men and women may have continued their bad habits when they were young, with strong hormones, unwilling to be lonely and hard to change their nature.

Most of the square dancers are solo dancers. It's rare to see that kind of cuddling scene. Once mixed with the opposite sex, it will turn a simple dance that focuses on physical exercise into a nondescript dance that releases desire. Hooking up and causing trouble will not come to a good end!

With such a good spirit, it is good to do some social welfare to serve the public!