One world, one mother.
The mother of Miaomiao, the protagonist in Pi, is an inspiring "wisdom"-"Stand and sit well". Familiar scenes, familiar sermons, you seem to see your mother, don't you?
My cousin told me last night that she had just sent a photo of herself eating delicious ice cream to a circle of friends the night before, but I didn't expect to receive a good "be caring and attentive" from my mother on her hind foot. Who doesn't know that there is a kind of coldness in the world called "Mom thinks you are cold" and a kind of coldness called "greedy coolness" that mothers repeatedly ask!
In the TV series, mother Wang Shengnan also pays 360-degree attention to her daughter's dribs and drabs. Miaomiao, are you going to take root in the toilet? "Dressing is practical first" ... "You haven't told me which class the boy who broke it is in? As a mother, she is always alert to the opposite sex around her children. In fact, our own mother is not like this. As long as we find out what's wrong with our daughter, no matter how calm she is, she can become Sherlock Holmes in a second.
Mothers are always worried about you, worried that you didn't eat well, worried that you didn't do well in the exam, worried that you didn't get married and had no date, and worried that you would be healthy after marriage. Mom and you have always maintained a "relationship that smells far away." When I'm not around, my mind is full of ideas. I always don't like you when I meet you, especially when I don't get up in the morning and sleep at night. The last thing you like is playing mobile phone all day.
Mom loves beauty, too, but the beauty of their honey will always be that you have to tie up your hair meticulously, and you'd better comb your bangs. No, Wang Shengnan can't get used to her daughter Miaomiao's hairstyle: "Look, your hair weaving is too thick, blocking your eyes. Can you still see your future? "
Mothers are also afraid that they can't keep up with the times. Wechat, Taobao and qq all want to play, but they often can't play. For some "little white" problems, they can only ask their children for help. The hottest things in the WeChat group of friends circle are all kinds of "health preservation" and square dance.
Therefore, we can't help but "dislike" our mother. But one day, when I became a mother myself, I suddenly found myself a "melodramatic" and "acting" woman, even worse than a Jedi.
I have also become a fragile and sensitive "female nerve"
In Pi, every time Miaomiao's mother saw the horror news on the Internet, she would bring her own association for fear that something would happen to her child. But in fact, I have become "sensitive and neurotic" since I became a mother! It is said that many novice mothers have said that they seem to be suffering from paranoia from the beginning of pregnancy and have always maintained a sense of crisis that "there are always unruly people who want to hurt me".
The baby is moving badly in his stomach, and I'm worried that playing so high will play with the umbilical cord around his neck. When I was quiet, I began to worry about why I hadn't moved for so long. Will there be any problems?
The baby was born to sleep beside him, and he dared not take it lightly. He would get up in the middle of the night and sniff out his nose for fear of an accident. Worried about convulsions when you have a fever. When you get sick, you worry about all kinds of incurable diseases you see in the news.
Blx with touching IQ is talking about me.
Nana, the goddess of the sun, once sent a Weibo about the baby's vaccination, which mentioned: "One needle went down and I cried." There are also some controversies in tens of thousands of hot comments. In fact, for a woman who has become a mother, this situation is not exaggerated. As long as it's about the baby's smile, who doesn't have blx?
For the first time after all kinds of pains, when I look at the baby in my arms, when I see the child smiling at me for the first time, when I hear the child clearly calling out his mother for the first time, all the beautiful little moments can touch the soft heartstrings of a new mommy.
If you accidentally bump into a bleeding or sick child, it will make you cry. Upgrading to motherhood, not only can't see that there is something wrong with your own children, but it seems that you have a little more pity for children all over the world, and you will burst into tears just because you see a negative news about a child.
In fact, the most helpless change after becoming a mother is not limited to those artificial "affectations", but lies in the IQ that falls with our tears at the same time!
It is often said that after three years in a baby's brain, sometimes even I have to wonder if I had a brain in the hospital and forgot to take it home. Not only does the reflex arc become longer, but the event of "riding a donkey to find a donkey" will also be staged at intervals.
Memory is always in a hurry, the "photographer" of anthomaniac.
"Stupid" also just, also anthomaniac. Before becoming a mother, the self-portrait effect is the first. After becoming a mother, she became the baby's exclusive photographer, plus one: the memory must be large! Otherwise, how to fit the baby's small growth trajectory?
The baby's birth photo should be taken, with a full moon and a hundred sunshine; The baby will look up, turn over, climb, and even take pictures to commemorate the toilet; If you want to shoot at home, shoot when you go out to play; If you cry funny, you have to shoot; if you laugh brilliantly, you have to shoot; If you want to be good, you must be naughty. ...
The road to growth is paved for countless first times, and the memory of mobile phones is naturally full every day. I dare not waste one action and ten expressions. If I choose to enjoy for a long time, I can't bear to delete one. It's not enough to appreciate it yourself, for fear that the whole world will miss knowing such a lovely and excellent baby.
From "Pearl Eye" to "Superwoman"
Is there a good change? There is still some reflection. Naive us, since we became mothers, we have made many breakthroughs that we never expected.
Have you ever thought that a person who tries to escape after vaccination can bite his teeth and tell the doctor that he can give birth naturally and let me do it myself; You can now make complementary food and nutritious meals for your baby by changing the pattern of recipes. You avoid seeing disgusting things, and now you study the color, character and shape of your baby's poop every day.
An introverted person, now you have completely liberated your nature and played the role of cat, tiger and monster, which perfectly explained the birth of the essence of drama. If you are always sleepy, you can let your baby completely cut your sleep into pieces, choose to get up after your baby falls asleep and enjoy your little freedom.
If you can't carry your shoulders with one hand, you can already carry a big bag on the way to catch the car, holding the baby in your right hand and carrying the box in your left hand.
As a mother, every day, from opening your eyes to closing your eyes, you should be ready to meet the call of your child anytime and anywhere. I feel tired and disgusting like a dog, but I can still read twenty more picture books with the excited baby who doesn't need to be recharged.
Finally, the baby is going to school, thinking that it has been liberated since then?
Hmm. How interesting
An academic marathon has officially started, but the life marathon has just begun.
I have to admit that I want to go back to the past and be a deserter for a thousand times, but I prefer to stay in the present because we want to love our children better.
When I became you, I finally understood you.
Today is different from the past, and the environment and resources enjoyed by our generation of mothers and their own mothers are far different. However, maternal love from generation to generation is United, and our mother's mentality and mental journey are being experienced bit by bit in various ways and in different situations. When we sigh and criticize how unscientific some methods of the most grounded mother in Pi are, we should also start thinking about whether everything we do as a mother can be done according to what the parenting experts say.
It is dedication that makes us understand the "work", tenacity and selflessness of being a mother.
Now, the greatness of our mothers is not only that they love their children with their lives, but also that they care and love our children with more "enthusiasm" and "piety"!
This reminds me of a poem by the poet Wang Guozhen:
We also love our mother.
But mom doesn't love us.
Our love is a stream.
Motherly love is the ocean.
Dew on Achnatherum splendens
Round and bright
That's the light from the sun.
April day
Half brilliant and half brilliant.
That's where the spring breeze passes.
Our happiness
It's the smile on mom's face.
Our pain
It is the deep sadness in my mother's eyes.
We can walk a long way.
But I can't walk out of my mother's square.