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Who doesn't deserve to make friends?
Ungrateful person

Ungrateful people can't afford it.

Today, classmate A and I are still discussing another classmate B. Last Mid-Autumn Festival, we were all worried about her health. Unexpectedly, another year has passed.

Before the Mid-Autumn Festival last year, classmate A, a doctor, told me that another classmate B was not in good health and had just received the examination results from her hospital. She wants B to operate quickly.

I said if it doesn't matter if it's a day or two, let's talk about it after the Mid-Autumn Festival. She said yes. Then we secretly arranged everything for B, including hospital beds, and informed B's husband. Behind all this is to make B have a good Mid-Autumn Festival.

The day after the Mid-Autumn Festival last year, B was admitted to the hospital and had an operation a few days later. In the meantime, A has to go to work. She gave the key to the house near the hospital to B's husband and asked him to live there and cook. Besides, she fills the refrigerator every day.

B has been in hospital for more than forty days, and A helps her take care of everything. After B was discharged from the hospital, A called her, B said she was in a bad mood and didn't want to chat, and then hung up. For the next few months, B ignored A.

This incident hurt A very much. She will tell me when she thinks about it. I don't know where I offended B, because they have been in love for more than 30 years after all.

I don't know, because of this, I pretended not to know, although there was a force behind it, I didn't tell her, so B hasn't said a word to me yet. Later, it was said that A told B that I knew her illness and helped to do something, but B didn't respond.

So classmate a is very sad. And I comforted her that people who don't know how to be grateful are not worth socializing with, so don't worry about her. Really.

An unfriendly person

Another person who is not worth socializing with is an unfriendly person.

Kindness is the foundation of human beings. No matter how nice a person is, it's useless.

Since ancient times, kindness has always been a quality that people admire.

You see, many famous people have said famous words about kindness.

For example, Hugo said: A kind heart is the sun.

Shakespeare said: A kind heart is worth gold.

It can be seen that kind people are welcome.

Therefore, if an inhuman person, it is best not to associate with him, it is not worth making friends.

People who can't keep secrets.

People who can't keep secrets can't make friends.

Some people's mouths not only eat, but also say a lot of things they shouldn't say. Such people are very annoying.

Just tell him a little thing and he may spread it to everyone.

Such a person has a word to describe him, called "eight women". When we say that a person talks too much and can't keep a secret, we will call him a "bitch", whether he is a man or a woman.

For those who can keep a secret, it is worthwhile to communicate, at least he will not give up all the ancestors of your 18 generation.

Really, when choosing a bosom friend, people who can't keep a secret will only bring you harm, not friendship.

So such people are not worth making friends with.

Treacherous person

People who break their promises naturally can't make friends.

The person who impressed me the most was once regarded as my best friend, but through one thing, I hacked her.

The year before last, she borrowed money from me and said she would pay it back in a few months. A few months later, she didn't return it. She just said sorry, I forgot.

Another year passed, and she still didn't pay it back. This time, she didn't even say anything, as if it had never happened.

Later, I mentioned it to her once, but she simply didn't have it for the time being, and I will return it when I have it.

In fact, there is not much money, and I can afford it.

Seeing her show off in an ostentatious manner, I blacked her out in a rage.

I don't want to pay such a person. That little money should be donated as charity.

So, when you grow up, you will understand that these people can't be intimate.