A survey of peers around me 1 an elder sister in Beijing: "1977, 43 years old, born and raised in Beijing, working hard with her husband, and her daughter 16 years old. She is a sophomore, with two Beijing brand cars, one second-ring house and three fourth-ring houses. Her parents are retired, with no burden, no loans, no foreign debts and no stealing.
2 A little sister in Zhongshan: "1982, 38 years old, we have no energy, and we promise not to toss. We honestly work in the same factory as our husband, which is relatively stable. We like a quiet life. Now there are two suites in Zhongshan, that's all. " This is nothing more than envy.
A 79-year-old uncle: "As long as we can see the sun tomorrow, this society will be better than anything else. People's desires can never be satisfied. My family is 79 years old and in good health. There is really no deposit, only nearly 300,000 debts. I should say that I am bittersweet.
A Sichuan uncle: "I'm over forty, too." I failed in an investment, leaving nothing behind, and there are many external account, but I personally don't regret it. Although I failed, I gained experience. As long as my heart is immortal and I am brave, it's no big deal. I will succeed one day. I believe in myself. "
The status quo of two people is 8 1 year. They are all teachers, with their wives, and their monthly salary is about 4500. There is really no deposit. The child is now a senior one and has bought a suite with a loan. It was solved in three years. He bought a car in full, with a low price of 65,438+10,000. Although he is poor, he is also happy. After teaching, he wrote some short articles. You can't talk about failure or success. As mentioned above, people's desires are infinite. As long as they are happy and the family is well fed and clothed, that's enough. When the mortgage is paid off, there should be some savings.
Third, understanding the definition of deposit failure should have a spiritual level and a material level. A 40-year-old man, no house, no car and no savings. If he has a warm home, a virtuous wife and children are not worried about learning and making money. He only has family ties, but cares about things other than material things and is tired of material things. On the contrary, he works hard, has a house, a car and a deposit, and his wife is still dissatisfied with the status quo every day. He talked, and the child studied again.
Concluding remarks
As long as you have succeeded, a temporary failure is nothing, and experience is your greatest wealth. As long as you have been brilliant, this is your greatness. You are at least better than them. Believe in yourself, go out and broaden your horizons!