Xiaoyu's two daughters, under her subtle influence, have been in the same strain since childhood: polite, have their own opinions and aesthetic concepts, cherish beautiful things, and have special blind dates. Neighbors boast that it must be worse than Xiaoyu when they grow up.
I think Xiaoyu has a vision behind the excellent two children. Take books as an example. On the one hand, Xiaoyu never gave in. She stipulated that children must take good care of books. She often tells children that books are friends of life. Even if it is just an ordinary children's picture book, its use value is certain. Xiaoyu has been taking the children to find the secret of the book. In the long run, the three mothers and daughters all reveal a strong book fragrance.
And Xiaoyu also showed "poised, watching the flowers bloom in front of the court; The elegant meaning of "the clouds are rolling and the clouds are comfortable, looking up at the sky and seeing the flowers falling". Xiaoyu's aura is really directly related to his two lovely daughters. I firmly believe that these two children will be outstanding when they grow up. Whether at work or in daily life, they will be very smooth and have a high standard of living.
Second, the mother's insistence will damage the child's development. Lingling is a mother who especially likes yoga. She has been insisting on yoga for eight years. As her children often say, "My mother likes yoga best except me." Later, Lingling mentioned the reason why she insisted on yoga in a chat.
In fact, when her mind is full of children, her physical fitness is not very good. According to experts, prenatal yoga can help her improve her physical fitness during pregnancy, which is conducive to the steady development and production of the child in the pregnant mother. In order to have a baby, there is no yoga, she just keeps practicing from the lower abdomen to the big head until she gives birth. After that, she slowly and sincerely liked this fitness exercise, and because of yoga, her own personality has also changed a lot, and she is more careful and persistent in doing everything.
After his son was born, he was busy taking care of the children, although basically every hobby of his was idle. But only yoga, after eight years, still worked hard day and night, and still got a yoga instructor's certificate in the annual report. Under her direct influence, her children have been serious, persistent and particularly careful since childhood, and many works of art have won awards.
Just in March this year, Lingling's children decided to sign up for the national youth painting competition, but such competitions can be held all over the country. The whole process is not only complicated, but also very strict. In March, the weather was still very cold, and many small players didn't persist even if they didn't want to move with gloves on. But Lingling's children, hurt by her resolute temperament, persisted all the way and finally won the first place in the children's group. In the case of winning the prize, her child said, "Thank you, mom, she taught me one thing, that is, perseverance, and only when you pay can you get back!" "
A mother's persistent quality will give her children a lifetime's wealth, and no matter what difficulties she encounters, she will not be timid. I will be like my mother, in order to stick to my ideals. It is obvious to all that this kind of child will have a low life height in the future.
Third, the mother's personality will determine the child's future. When a child is born, it will be a piece of tissue paper. In early childhood, a child's curiosity, imitation and learning ability are the best stages of his life. Therefore, the mother's manners and habits will be imitated and learned by children intentionally or unintentionally. The mother is kind and friendly, and the children will be amiable; Mother likes reading, and the children will follow. Mothers like to be clean and tidy, so that children are generally not easy to get sloppy.
But if the mother loves playing cards, then the children will not be unfamiliar with mahjong games. When the mother likes to swear, the child will say some catchy sad words; If the mother loves to steal, most children will be greedy for petty gain. ...
In fact, every mother will directly influence her children with her own behavior. In ancient times, there were sayings such as "Meng Mu moved three times" and "mother-in-law tattooed". And modern celebrity Bill Gates, their mother, influenced his life with her kindness. In his contribution to the world, we can see his mother's imprint on him. Even it has been repeatedly said that his mother has done great harm to his life, and our own mother will have good personality and spiritual quality.
If you want your child's future life to reach a very high level, as a mother, you have to practice your personality more, so that your child will have a different future. Looking forward to becoming a mother, everyone gives their children not only life, but also colorful life values.